Grim

This drama is wild! I'm not going to spoil anything, but I will say two things. You might need to be 25 or older to really feel what is going on here, and it had me in tears like a total idiot. Not gonna lie, I can't even remember the last time I cried like this... maybe 10 or 15 years ago...

This is scary as f... No wonder I chose engineering over medicine back in the day. Watching this made me realise I'm really glad I didn't go into medicine. I wouldn't last a day like this, that's for freaking sure!

I’m not really sure what goes down after episode 17 since I stopped watching. Everything I’m talking about is just what I know up to that point. I don’t know if you get it this or not, but all your points are solely focused on her instead of the entire situation. You seem to sound like “trusting him to open up”, and her issues are everything that matters. But honestly, doesn’t everyone have their own struggles? You’re missing the fact that while you’re talking about her, she’s not really wanting to be actively involved in his life or trying to figure out what’s going on with him (Now don't tell me about she running back to him after bringing up the break up, it just late, just too late). It sounds like you’re saying, “I accept your confession, I love you, and I trust you, but whatever you’ve been through is not my concern as long as you keep it to yourself.” And even though I’m upset that you haven’t treated me the same way you used to for the past few months, can you see how ridiculous that sounds? Sure, poor communication is a problem, but if you think it’s okay to be completely unaware of something wrong with the person you love, that’s just wild.

You know what the issue is? You're focusing on things that aren't really happening in the drama, but what you imagine to be. The more you talk, the more it seems like you view women, or her specifically, as super delicate and fragile, like a soap bubble that can pop with just a little breeze. Most of the women I know can hold their own ground against men in just about most things, sometimes even better. Come on, man, 80% of your life is good, you can't go crazy over 20% that's not going in your way. If you can't handle that much, how are you going to make it in this tough world? You keep bringing up emotional distress after the breakup, but I'm talking about what was going on before that. Also, you seem to think I'm just blaming the FL because I didn't dive into the ML's problems and simply ended with he was also not blameless.

"wasn’t willing to commit or insensitive", I am not trying to downplay anything that is the reality out there. People can shout about how dedicated they are or how much they care, but at the end of the day, it's your actions that reveal the true story. If the person you love suddenly changes and that goes on for months, leaving you feeling uneasy and worried about them (you can clearly see in Scenes she sense it and checking the phone and getting upset over it plus calling him and yet not want press on it to find out what is actually going on but simply end the call with i love you or i missed you), if you notice these changes and choose to ignore them, it simply means you don't care about it. That is the end of the story, whether you like it or not.

What are you babbling about? Seriously, who said that women are at fault for everything or that she is heartless like you’re suggesting? Isn’t that just your own perspective? I clearly mentioned that the guy isn’t blameless either. I’m just pointing out the reality of the situation and saying that this relationship can’t work, while you seem to be lost in a fantasy. I don’t have any prejudice against women to start blaming them.

"And let’s not act like she’s just lounging around waiting for a text. She has her own life, her own job, and her own mental health to manage. She isn’t sitting at home auditioning for the role of “girlfriend who has to be psychic and self-sacrificing.” You think women don’t carry burdens too? You think her world wasn’t falling apart too—just in a different way?" She just cleared her debt, and things are looking pretty good for her. So, what do you mean by her world falling apart??? Everything is going well for her, and the only hiccup is that her boyfriend wants to break up. What kind of distress was she in before the guy brought up the breakup? I am talking about the time period, not from the drama's start.

"Calling her 'insensitive' because she didn’t sense the exact chaos he was going through behind the scenes? That’s not just unfair—it’s lazy writing and lazy thinking." Haha... and you really think the world around her is going to pause until she figures things out? If you’re completely unaware of what’s going on with the person you claim to love, and if that’s not insensitivity, sorry that my English isn’t so great. I’m not sure how else to explain it...LOL

I'm not sure what's happening over there, but I doubt they actually got married. It seems like there might be some kind of misunderstanding.

Dude, are you like a teenager who's never been in a serious relationship or something? When your partner starts acting differently, you can tell something's up. If you're just going through life without checking in on him and find out what is going on, that's a problem. You don’t need all the details to grasp that. The way she's acting shows she wants everything but isn't willing to commit anything. I'm not saying the guy is blameless, but this situation is pretty toxic. All she's done is scroll through her phone, get upset when he doesn't text back, and throw around "I love you" and "I missed you" without really care about him. And then, when things go south, you run back to him asking what went wrong, dose it even matter at this point.

Is there really any point in watching this after episode 17??? 🤦‍♂️ It feels like that’s where the story ends. Honestly, if anyone thinks they could get back together, they must be out of their minds. Let’s just forget everything else for a moment and say if she found out the truth about what happened, do you really think there’s even the slightest chance they would reconcile? Hell noo... Just think about it for a second, after everything that happened to his mom and his family business, while his whole world is falling apart, he decides to let her go to keep her away from the chaos. Meanwhile, she’s too insensitive and oblivious to realise the hell he’s been enduring, constantly saying, "I love him so much, I miss him so much." But when he needed her the most, she just walked away without a second thought. And don't forget all this happened while she knows he's always had her back whenever she needed him. That kind of guilt would eat me alive. If I were in her position, I wouldn’t even dare to face him again in this lifetime. I’d probably just pack up and leave the country for good.

Firstly, Zhuang Han Yan has come a long way from her earlier acting days, and she does a fantastic job in this drama. It’s packed with emotions, really pushing you to feel both anger and sadness. The writer must be a genius to craft such depth in the story. While it does have a happy ending, it’s hard to call it truly happy since she endures so much loss throughout her journey. Definitely give it a watch...it’s worth it!

It's a cliffhanger, but in a weird way, it was good. After watching it, though, you might feel like you're losing a bit of your sanity. There are moments when you might even think it was justified for her to take that guy out, you know...

While it’s not a jaw-dropping drama, it definitely has a nice vibe to it. I was caught up with other things when it aired, and I feel a little bad for letting it slip until now. The Drama is totally worth your time..

Is Park Eun Bin only sticking to method acting after her last Drama? Damn, she's absolutely killing it! But Isn't mental strain a bit too much

Omg... man, our dude was literally shaking during the kiss in that scene after the proposal... if that was intentional, like acting according to the script and all, damn... that's super impressive.

But Bro, let’s be real, there’s a huge gap from episode 4 to 5. I was really starting to doubt if he was faking it, especially since the dude who saved him was all in to help, and now he’s just disappeared.

I'm not gonna lie, I almost dropped this after episode 4... but now I’m thinking I should at least check out episodes 7 and 8😁

I mean, that I haven't read the novel yet. So, I’m not familiar with the complete story since the Manhua isn’t finished yet. So, someone who has already finished the novel may have known who really killed her in the previous life.

I feel for you, but it's time to move on from her, ma man. No matter how hard you try, no matter how much effort you put into it, in the end of the day nothing will change. whatever her reasons might be, or how reasonable it may be, the fact that she can let go of you will never change. It’s been like this in the past, it is the same right now, and it’ll keep being the same in the future. Do yourself a favor and find someone who will hold on to you, even if someone turned the whole world upside down. No hate for Yi Fan from me. She is just pitiful, but staying in that relationship? That’s a hard pass for me. It will never end well..

Sorry, but I've only read the manhua up to this point and it still comming. So, the answer might come from someone who's finished the novel.

In the drama, she seems a bit more matured and innocent than in the manhua, where she definitely shows off her sassy and mischievous side, more like when she got drunk in the drama. Honestly, I can't decide which version I prefer... I might just like both character types😂

It's just a mess created by the people making the drama since there's no scene in the manhua or novel where Yu Qi tries to kill her or whatsoever. As for the second question, the answer is no. But eventually, Yu Qi figures out that something's off with Jiang Si, and she'll fill him in on the whole reincarnation thing and all that.