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I stopped watching the drama because the confession scene actually....I'm trying to continue to watch the drama because of some comedic scenes and the FL but couldn't stand the fact that after all of this he trying to make up his mistakes with much more mistakes and lies.... And the fact he is the ML 😭.

Maybe I just can't stand this kind of ML

Yes, whatever the motive that made he did that, that doesn't change the fact that he did being harsh to her ? If the motive is true, that's scarier actually. He trying to make her stay in his life without it being seen as if he did it. If anything goes wrong in the future, he'll also be able to simply wash his hands of it.

Yesssssss, and even after all of this, all he could think was "If she comes to Shanghai, will everything be okay and will she also worry about him when he gets drunk? ". Like, seriously ???? No dude, that's not the problem. The problem is you don't treat her well, even as a friend that confess to you (you rejected her) and even apologized to you... If you treat her well a little bit, just a little bit, the result maybe would be different. But, no. You you never introspect yourself. You blamed everything, literally everything. Rong rong, nie xiguang, the situation, and from the teaser you also blamed the world (the world owes you), but yourself. You never blamed or questioning yourself for once... So that's the problem.

Also, I think he dares to do this because she confess to him and he thinks that he could 'own' something about her. If she just some friend in their social circle, even though he likes her, he wouldn't do something terrible like this. It's just that in his minset he already looked down on her because she doesn't want to work hard like him, and when she confessed, he thinks he has the right or maybe obligation to criticize her (or maybe help her with his own way). But, if she never confessed till the end, all he can do just treat her like a friend. So, this is definitely not because of misunderstanding.But , his attitude and mindset that make he misunderstand her..

I agree with you. That's more than a mere misunderstanding. The problem is the attitude, respect, and mindset.

Yess, he also said that maybe he has a talent about detail things (such as being a surgeon 😭)

I think they know the fact. But, because this goddaughter really likes to brag about her being a goddaughter of nie chengyuan and his first love daughter. They most likely think that she is really precious in his eyes (just like a real daughter), so they agree to include her in their social circle

I think because that's the reason he likes her... Someone said that what attracts him actually when she confronted her father's goddaughter.... That's scene made her shine brightly in his eyes... So I think he likes the confidence in her and always looking for it when he pursued her, so every action from him unconsciously trying to attract and arouse the confident side of herself

Thank you

I watched it, but couldn't find anything other than a guess about ZX colleague that wil get injury

Did you remember one scene when the song with the lyrics you mentioned comes up ?

He needs to distant himself and stop give money or support to his so called white moonlight if he wants nxg 's forgiveness... There's no way she could stand both of the green tea anymore

"you also have to think about your partner's..... (Opinion)" refers to himself

Is this the song that also had line, "will we ever be close, you and me".... ?

Yesss, cool moms. They really trust their child and gives their support to them.

I think the one that going to get injury is ZX colleagues, but nxg think that's lys, so she rushed to the hospital

This is crazy...They can really compromise for a drama. But, their roles are as a divorced couple. Perhaps their experience as exes helped them act better.

Imagine his feelings after know thissss....he would feel guilty to her and would feel this is so funny that his career and love life ruined because someone he doesn't even know

At this point just give Zhuang xu another drama with himself as a male lead....they trying to convey his story, emotional change, and development char very much

Yes, I saw comments who blamed her for taking 'too' much time in this ambiguous phase with lys. But, I think she is not that wrong... She's already been hurt before by Zhuang xu, so basically she is not ready to be in a romantic relationship or fall in love with someone else. She also honestly conveyed everything to Lin Yusen. Even telling him that there was a possibility that she could not return Lin Yusen's feelings until the end. She clearly never intended to play with Lin Yusen's feelings. Lin Yusen was the one who bravely and big-heartedly continued to approach her after that, I think mostly because he himself was confident that he could make nxg like him. And he also thought he didn't want to miss the opportunity that came after a year passed, just because nxg still couldn't forget about someone else. So, their slow but sure approach, I think, was right. Maybe it's just that we as viewers find it boring because they take a safe approach like this, even though this is the best.