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Saying "hi, I'm the new doctor" is pretty basic. Then second episode was just him being more of a jerk while accusing her of being hostile (culminating in his bs righteousness at the end), all coming from his negative view stemming from his inability to introduce himself like a normal person.

ML is a real jerk. Hopefully he gets punched in the face some more.

I think for DG and CY are at the point where they know it is pointless to talk about it. They've talked about it a lot with JA. JA heard it immediately after she "caught" them from the landlady that there was no affair and didn't care. DG & CY have no reason to believe that there is anything they could say that would get through to JA.

DG sending the kids away in that context makes perfect sense, because the two moms are going to end up yelling at each other (as they do every time they meet), and that would be awkward for the kids.

JA had made a big deal earlier to CY that only JA was the mom to EH and EA, so with her foolish pride it isn't unsurprising to me that she would want to hide the fact the SW isn't her biological child. It is amazing that she would be dumb enough to drag him to hear about what happened back then, as he probably knows his own age.

We've seen what happenned that night, and CY did nothing wrong. She had a high fever and wasn't lucid, her landlady called DG and then asked him to wait there to make sure loan sharks don't come back. In the morning, after he had fallen asleep in the kitchen, he said hi to the landlady, went into CY's room and told her to stay strong and that is when JA came in.

Nothing immoral. The really amazing, dumb thing is JA having heard directly from the landlady, at that time, about how nothing happenned and simply refusing to belive it because she wanted to leave the family, but not have it be her fault.

Seems to me that DG doesn't want the ES and SW to see CY and JA behave crummily to each other, hence sending them away.

With JA I assume she is still terribly damaged from her father's death when she was a teen. She shows it through her interactions with CY and insistence that they had an affair, and through her extreme selfishness. Hence her being so shitty to the two kids she does have. I'm sure if EA moved in it would not take JA long to start ripping her apart.

HY is a bad example of common tropes. They've just carried it on for so long. It would have been better to have her move on to EH, but still throw obstacles in ES's way out of spite. The extreme obessiveness for someone that she does not know and never had a relationship with is absurd. At least in the last one the 2FL had an actual reason to be obsessed with the ML, in this one it is just delusional. Her ending up with EH I guess only works because he is a pushover like his father.

Poor abuser. How can ypu folk support an absuive piece of trash like tm? He is a bad person, full stop.

Just habit. Think of how many times they have had similar conversations, its easy to fall back into past patterns. Unlike others here, I don't see it as a big deal also that DG didn't mention it to you CY, but JA making it into a huge deal to her husband is just more of manipulative nature.

I feel sorry for EA who is going to be just crushed when JA tells her she can't move in.

All we know know is he csme over that night with medicine, and, in retrospect, he either shouldnt have done it or left right away (this would be pre cell days, so now easy way to reach JA if she was working, did she work?). So, yeah real dumb.

That was them telling the kids stories before the bio mom truth was revealed. You cant trust any of that.

My wager is that she didn't contact him, someone in her family did, asking him to take meds over, and then DG's personality took over and he couldn't leave a sick person alone. I don't get why they couldn't try explaining to the kids, and honestly should have covered it ahead of time as of course JA would quickly reveal the affair, but it is past time for the two of them to actually talk about what happened, maybe they are burned from no one having believed them in the past, but still.

We've all been operating under the assumption that DG and CY used to be in a serious relationship pre-JA, but I find myself wondering how serious that was, and if we haven't been misled by the writer due to JA's longstanding hate of CY due to her father's death (once that was revealed it changes the impact of JA being so upset over the affair specifically because of CY). The early showing of the affair from only JA's POV already casued a lot of people to go down the wrong track. Plus the early showing of CY being so negative about ES acting it reminds of me of people being so biased against the daughter is AOME when she pretty quickly turned it around form being a brat to a pretty mature kid, but was left in many people's minds as a brat.

My prediction is that EH will ask DG/CY what happened and be willing to listen. EA will not, will move in with with JA's family and then find out that JA is a terrible person, who didn't intend to abandon her kids for 30 years, but did intend to abandon her kids for a bit, and is actively sabotaging/attacking EA's sister whom she loves, casuing EA to move back (and SW and JS to both turn against her). Essentially, JA, like HY, will have to face some repurcussions for character growth, otherwise a happy ending is impossible.

The misunderstanding was due to a legal, medical, or funeral issue. CY did nothing wrong and, instead, raised some pretty great kids. DG should have told JA why he was going there, but with JA's irrational hatred of CY i understand.

JA meanwhile is a terrible mother, entirely selfish, and really just a rotten human being. She is ashamed to introduce ES to people. What a trash bag. She left her kids, which then ended up with her having lost them. No surprise when she, a fully grown adult, still childishly blames CY for her father's death, something she was not responsible for.

JA will lose both eh and ea when they she disparages es in front of them.

Eh and HY ending up together is still bad. She is an awful person and keeps telling EH that she is awful. Guy is a cop and yet isn't concerned at all over the manipulative, stalkerish behavior of the girl he likes? He should be realizing that she is also a terrible person (it will be rough for him to finally face that his crush is crummy, just like his bio mom).