"Meat Bun and Noodles are good friends. One day, they argued over small differences and got into a small fight. Since Meat Bun was too weak, he got beaten up so he called his friends, Pan Fried Bun and Steamed Bun, to go find Noodle to argue but in middle of finding him, they found Ramen. They couldn't recognize him and beat him up. Ramen thought this was outrageous so he asked Mean Bun why he beat him up."
"Do you know why Meat Bun said?"
"He said, 'Noodle, just because you got a perm, don't think i couldn't recognize you!!' "
"That kind of feeling is like, you'll suddenly realize you've become very small. Very small. No matter how hard you try to fill the gap that reminds you of him, as soon as you stop paying attention, you'll notice this world is still filled with his presence.
A lot of things around you will also become very heavy. Unknowingly, your chest will become a little bit heavier with every breath you take. Your cheeks will become heavy too. You'll have to try very hard to lift the corners of your mouth, to squeeze out the smallest smile.
Even tears seem to get heavier. No matter how many times you tell yourself- Don't cry, you must not cry... the tears seem to fall on their own. Perhaps, this kind of feeling is like an ocean wave. If you wait a bit longer, it will recede. After a while, you probably won't miss him as much...
Once you tell yourself this, you'll realize you've long been overwhelmed by your longing for him. And then you'll really understand, this longing will only rise. The tide will never recede."
~ Huang Yu Xuan to Li Zi Wei
(Context: on being asked what it feels like to know you will never see them again, but still constantly thinking of that person- i.e. Wang Quang Sheng)