Plus & Minus Episode 9

I kinda felt I'd missed something. Wasn't…

I kinda felt I'd missed something. Wasn't sure why Li Gong wondered why Ze Shou had come round. Their disagreement didn't seem that.profound.So, a bit of turbulence in this episode. Ze Shou shouldn't be that shocked by his dad's shock at a kiss, he was, too until recently. Presumptuous to assume Mr Zheng wants to break them up - he hasn't processed it yet. Certainly the portrayal was more disappointment and confusion, maybe anger at being deceived. Also, he's having an emotional time of it. Interesting the sin became a divorce lawyer though it's unclear his long separated parents ever officially finished things. There's a quiet strength in Li Gong. Should stand them well in time's ahead, especially senior or professional opposition. Ying Ze HAS moved out of his comfort zone, but ( okay, some hoarding tendencies and wrapping emotions in STUFF here) throwing stuff out without asking is rude. That said, Yuki may have foreseen a No, and it's not even Ying Ze's stuff. Once again the voice of reason from little Ling Ling.Had enough of that awful series/movie they've been watching - ha ha.

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Two Stars

one hell of a turbulent ep - so many complex emotions. Ying Ze is too stuck in his ways and the bad part, he is comfortable as he is. so until now Yuki's existence let alone his moving in, getting near him has already been more of an upheaval then he can take. but he suffered in silence, cause there is a part of him that wants Yuki and what he has to offer, and yet the predominance side of him likes his boring hum-drum life. he is sure that the excitement that exists with and for Yuki, will dwindle down to nothing, like it happened with his wife. and he will end up as before - alone. *******************************************************that's why he doesn't want what is his - his own space to be changed with or without permission, it's like a safety blanket. cause deep down, he is unsure of how capable their relationship is of lasting. this is sad and yet realistic. self-worth can't be taught it has to come from within. *****************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************the main pair's conflict thankfully was from an outside source - glad they well grounded as a couple, they had a shaky start but when a problem arose they presented a united front. which indicates this pairing might do better in the long run - i hope. the father's reaction was understandable - cause he was blindsided and yeah we all would want the parents to be all accepting, loving and caring individual's, but they human and thus not perfect - also his reaction other then shock was also an accumulative blow-up with everything else going on in his life (his ex wife dying) etc... so he lashed out - which might not have happened in normal circumstances

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