Toot:

Would this be the same group who tell me I've NEVER had a relationship, when I call out lack of consent in kiss scenes and the like (most recently in a Cdrama)?

Lolll could very well be. I find those kinds of people rely heavily on major logical fallacies to defend their point of view, like personal attacks (ad hominem) or arguing with what someone is not saying (I think that one is straw man?).