Poetic Review
Blossoming Lavender and Silent Bonds The Beauty of Love Next DoorLove Next Door is a drama full of understatement at moments and the small joys of everyday life. It isn't the story of fireworks and at-the-roof dramatic confrontations but one of quiet healing from time, love, and community. Centering on the main plot: Bae Seokryu returns home after a decade, while Choi Seunghyo has never quite left her heart.
But what really makes this drama shine is in embracing the warmth of its side characters, mainly the Lavender Ladies and the family of Seokryu's father. Community is what this little quirkily caring group of neighborhood ladies brings into the story. Reconnecting with their wisdom, humor, and support really reminds one just how important it truly is to have a group that lifts you up. At the same time, the father's family epitomizes stability and that kind of unconditional love that can weather the years to give Seokryu a base on which she can heal and reconnect.
Their romance is unhurried. Soft and deeply set in their shared past, it blossoms like lavender in a field-growing quiet and beautiful without forcing its own pace. And that's what makes Love Next Door so good: it's one steeped in realism. It is a love story for people who believe in second chances and find comfort in places and people they are familiar with-in the idea that love does not need grand gestures to be profound.
Besides romance, it covers meaningful relationships through family and friends. The dad's family is that cornerstone to which one clings for a sense of belonging, while the lively presence of the Lavender Ladies keeps light-heartedness within reach. Every interaction feels organic to add to the larger theme of love and support that can be found not only in romantic love but in the community that surrounds us.
As I was watching, I found myself searching for poems that fit their narratives as well. Certain lines resonated deeply with the characters' journeys, capturing their emotions and inner struggles. It was like finding fragments of poetry that mirrored their quiet moments, unresolved feelings, and the gradual healing they experienced throughout the story. It added an extra layer of connection for me, making the drama feel even more meaningful.
Without a wedding scene, the ending doesn't leave us hanging in any way. Rather, this was a beginning, not an ending. This is a reminder that not all true loves have to culminate into a ceremony with rings and vows sometimes; it's about the quiet moments between two people. Seokryu and Seunghyo's journey goes past the screen with a promise of a future filled with love, family, and deep connections they've rebuilt.
Love Next Door stands out because it takes us back to the essential things-family, community, and love that heals in due time. It reminds one that the most beautiful stories are not told in broad strokes but in the subtle, lavender-scented moments of everyday life.
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plot that doesn't hold...
I like melodrama but this drama went from a romcom to a drama in 3 complicated episodes with little development. The couple's chemistry isn't the best either, the secondary stories are boring and don't hold the viewer in the slightest, was this supposed to be a bit like welcome to samdalri and queen of tears? it didn't work... Maybe someday I'll watch it again to see the outcome, but I confess that not even with all the fame of the drama and the actors made me want to stay to find out the rest..Was this review helpful to you?
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Everything feels forced
I was really excited to watch *Love Next Door* because it's by the creators of *Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha*, a drama I absolutely adored. So, I was surprised to find myself struggling to get into this one.Almost every character seems designed to fit into predictable rom-com tropes, making the show feel too manufactured. There are very few moments that feel genuinely authentic. While I really admire Jung Hae-in as an actor, I’m starting to feel like rom-coms might not be his strongest suit—or perhaps it’s the writing in *Love Next Door* that’s failing to showcase his abilities in this genre. I also love So-min, but her characters overuse of bickering and shouting as comedic devices is starting to wear thin.
One scene that unfortunately stood out to me as cringey was when she "discovers" what she wants to do, and Hae-in’s character watches her smile, seemingly realizing he still "loves" her. The moment felt incredibly forced, rather than heartwarming or authentic.
Honestly, everything just feels forced and some scenes are overdramatic for no reason.
I’ll keep watching and hope for improvements, but I’m not feeling too optimistic about it so far, which is a shame.
Edit: I forced myself to finish this drama and wow, what a disappointment. This should have been 10 episodes max, it was too dragged out and boring!
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I loved it
I don’t care what anyone says, I get that it was a cliche show with characters that were fairly easy to read. but I love how every single one of the characters minus one of the members of Lavender pretty much had a backstory, and some sort of conclusion to the series. I really like how there weren’t any goofy and dramatic traffic accidents, and that everything felt tied together in the end.I think the main annoyance to me was how everything was a weird secret with everyone’s relationships.
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Personal growth, overcoming pain, communicating better, and strengthening bonds that last a lifetime
This one actually held me captive til the end as an eager viewer, not a casual turn it on and zone out sort which is kind of how parts of No Gain No Love hit even though Shin Min Ah is captivating… (don’t get me wrong; I still really enjoyed it, many of its characters [the writer especially] charming and just beautifully written and portrayed, but it doesn’t have quite the balance OR critically the lasting power of Love Next Door for me… still, the weeks LND had hard, faucet-breaking episodes, NGNL was a big comfort to mend my soul after aching so much-they have their places, this one just digging its lil heels more deeply in my heart).I keep saying this here and there, but JSM creates amazing chemistry with EVERYONE. If her next costar is a silent but sentient rock, I will be like that rock and yearn to speak to her. I will be sold because how-can-you-not?
This isn’t romcom territory. There is plenty of romance. There is plenty of comedy… but fluff it ain’t. These are people with real struggles, real pain, and most of all real, deep friendship, enviable most all the time though occasionally quite frustrating like the real life stuff it represents…
People wanting a romcom surely felt a bit frustrated at how many times this triggered a mess of tears in non-sociopath viewers. (I imagine this didn’t get on the radar of many sociopaths unless as a study of humans without their affliction in which case it is a solid one though I can imagine being infuriated at the illogical way humans tend to be in the face of intense feelings and even pretty shallow ones sometimes).
The way families come together is just gorgeous. Episode 15 was one I watched happily til I left for work then snuck away during break to watch the last 20 minutes… I kinda knew I would probably choke up, and boy, I went from laughing at someone else getting smacked with onions to being slapped with them right in the eyes myself because of this tiny bit of dialogue: “ Seok Ryu was sick; how could I not be worried? She's your precious child, the apple of your eye. She's the daughter of my best friend. You know how much I adore her. How could I not care about her? ... I'll protect her with you. Just like you raised Seung Hyo, I'll love and take care of Seok Ryu, too.”
Geesh, just smack me with all those onions you used a bully ahjumma’s face to peel and split in half already, Hye Suk!
The only thing that could get to me more than that followed immediately… how sweet is it to promise that boy (whose face still looks 8 when he gazes lovingly at his only one forever) that despite it being tiring, hard work requiring a lot of devoted energy and making her become one with the oil… she will make him rainbows to eat forever?! Tell me ANYONE who wouldn’t be just as smitten in that moment whether she was acting or confessing to an actual lover? She makes just about EVERYONE fall for her over and over. It is just impossible to not love her (even though some early *cough*Playful Kiss*cough* titles were severely lacking)! If I got promised rainbows from such a unicorn-like mythical creature of beauty, I would be quite at risk of having organs harvested as I followed her entranced.
The parents and Mo Eum (and Yeon Du-ahhhhhh she calls soooo sweetly, awwww) are absolute icing on a delicious cake. Some bites of the show are bitter and salty from my tears, but okay, we’ll have salted caramels a while! In this case, nothing at all felt particularly forced/fabricated thanks to acting that really is above and beyond expectations even with mine rather high for the veteran cast playing the parents especially! It felt like every single character grew immensely through this… and HEALED… and crucially went from holding on somewhat bitterly to really charging forward embracing life HAPPILY as they sorted out their own very real-feeling issues.
The finale had a lot of predictable moments, but I savored them because this is THE LAST show I wanted another surprise from! I was kinda annoyed that the thing I knew would happen as soon as she was in cooking classes, her ultimate future, took SO long to even mention when it was so dang obvious what would happen… but I was okay with how they rolled it out even if literally no one was at all surprised by anything but how long it took lol.
Ultimately, this became a story about growth, overcoming a whole lot of pain as well as COMMUNICATING BETTER WITH THOSE YOU LOVE DANGIT, and strengthening the bonds that last a lifetime. I was not envious of their situations overall, but man oh man, their friendships-FAMILY regardless of blood ties, truly-were enviable and honestly pretty rare in this day and age. The more people in my generation and particularly my pretty spread out nation succeed, the further away from our roots we tend to get, so I live near NO ONE I grew up around. Makes me glad I don’t have any real issues socializing with strangers anymore (kind of interesting that the super quiet introvert from my hometown, me, seems like an extrovert in this place I live now where they even say there is a massive “freeze” because outsiders have so much trouble finding their people here. Who knew being a nerd would make it EASIER to find community?! Still, when I think back to the people I grew up playing with like the young adults here, nostalgia hits and I realllllly get homesick. This did bombard me with that more than a few times, but it’s been actual decades since I’ve seen ANYONE who knew me before I was 18. I wouldn’t recognize any of them, it feels safe to say, since even their faces are hazy memories (bad thing to say as the managing editor of the yearbook, but they really are hazy memories, even the teachers caricatures at this point, most all of them long gone from the living realm).
Since I am hiding this behind a spoiler, I’ll say one big spoiler detail that made me so grateful: thank you, writer, for not killing anyone off! That early “renovate a funeral home” thing really was getting under my skin with comments about it all the time and them teasing that it could be the FL of course but also the ML’s mother. I am so glad they had them instead mend wounds from the past and go forward closer and more full of love than they ever had before. My heart doesn’t have to weep. I don’t even mind sad or mixed endings, but this one I really just did not want to be manipulated emotionally by in that particular way-don’t take (probably her) away just when our forever 8 ML has finally said all he needs and grown close to her how he has wanted all these years (be it the FL or his mom, as it happened with both so beautifully)!
Wonderful lovely watch. For all the moments characters were frustrating, they were fully understandable and realistic in the ways they made me wish they were different… That is a pretty big feat to accomplish between words and location details scribbled on a page and a human carrying out the instructions and saying the lines!
Solid 9.5… the writing not always perfect necessarily, it was more than made up for by the cast embodying people I know as if the writer spied on, well, a LOT of real life humans I’ve known over the decades in all kinds of capacities… sometimes, the “flaws” become strengths of their own in scripts… in real life, though, still do your best to not be perfect, no, since that will just make you awful, but at least don’t, like, acquire new problems like crash test dummies acquire displacements of their parts!
Gonna miss this show a LOT.
(PS Kate told me to post this lengthy feed entry as a review, so all meanies who want to argue with or fight me, you gotta go through her first, and our cult leader has lots of weapons and magic curses for people that mess with her minions!)
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love happiness and reality
it is a must watch, very relatable show. happy ending makes it me to eatch mote since thats how we should be living this is world and society.message of this series around how your strength is your family and friends around you makes it even more special.
people these days tendency not to share their problems and difficulties, and just try to deal with them alone. which I think was very well conveyed, if family is with you will get through the toughest part of life easily. try not to ignore love
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Achieving Your Dreams while Benefitting Others
Love Next Door isn’t just a love story between the leads, but also a touching exploration of love and compassion for others. Lifelong friends finally find their way to each other after 30 years of missed opportunities. Choi Seung Hyo, the male lead, achieves great success as an award-winning architect, though it wasn’t his first dream. His passion for swimming was cut short due to an injury, but his resilience and determination led him to a different kind of fulfillment.The female lead, Bae Seok Ryu, lived most of her life chasing her mother’s dreams, leading her to a personal and emotional breakdown despite achieving "success" in the States. Returning to Korea, she seeks to discover her own dreams and break away from her controlling mother. I loved how her childhood friend Seung Hyo supported and guided her toward her true passion—cooking.
However, I was upset when the writers introduced a stomach cancer storyline for Seok Ryu, which added tension to the rest of the drama. Though I was relieved there was no relapse, I found myself worried until the end. In the end, though, it became a meaningful reason for Seok Ryu to create healthy food for others who might face similar health challenges.
Ultimately, the dreams of both leads evolved into something bigger than themselves—doing good for others. Seung Hyo turned down big corporate projects to focus on architectural work that revitalized his older community, while Seok Ryu chose to cook healthy meals for everyone. The positive message that came through—that personal success is best when shared with and benefits others—is one that the world truly needs to hear.
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I have a mix of admiration and frustration when it comes to the writer.
This drama is absolutely worth your time, though it’s important to note that it isn’t a typical romcom. It’s more of a melodrama with elements of slice of life, and a dash of romance and humor. While no work is perfect (at least for me), I found it enjoyable. It made me both laugh and cry, and gave me plenty of those heart-fluttering moments. The beautiful promotions and the charming off-screen interactions between Haein and Somin only enhanced the experience, making it even more memorable for me as a viewer.<<>>
But I have to be honest, the writer seems lost here. It feels like she's wandering aimlessly, much like a person stumbling down a path without clear direction. I respect her attempt to make things relatable and realistic, but when it comes to the core element "romance" she completely missed the mark. The unnecessary twists she introduced really hurt the development of the main couple's relationship. Thier love story had so much potential but would have been more impactful if we also got her perspective, like when she began to fall for him or when she started seeing him as a romantic interest. Her love for him feels underdeveloped. Her actions alone aren't enough to convey that connection to me as a viewer; something crucial feels missing.......HER FREAKING POV, DAMN IT.
I don’t mean to sound negative, but I’m a bit let down by the writer. There were so many wonderful opportunities she could have explored, like the big event for the award and his injury. It would’ve been nice to see something like her shaving his face or a similar sweet moment. I’m just feeling a little frustrated!
On the other hand, his perspective is one of the most captivating in K-drama history. His character completely won me over; I especially appreciated how he had realistic layers, with his own flaws rather than being purely fictional. However, it was his actions and words towards her that were crafted so beautifully, and Haein’s brilliant performance elevated it even more.
● Note : Haein and Somin's authentic performances and incredible on-screen chemistry truly carried this show. While no disrespect is meant to the rest of the cast, it's undeniable that they were the key factor in its popularity.
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O que aconteceu com esse dorama?
Sério, o que aconteceu aqui? Prometia tudo, mas do episódio 8 da frente tudo começou a desandar??? Eu agradeço a existência desse dorama, pois me apresentou a uma base de fãs que eu converso até hoje, mas eu me senti burra vendo o final.. tipo...???Quem conhece sabe as teorias que tavam rolando, quando a gente acertou sobre a doença da Seok-ryu foi uma festa.. mas... O doramas só abandonou isso? Sinceramente pode pegar pra ver dps do ep 8, NADA se encaixa o que me deixou com um gostinho..
Não é que o final é ruim, só parece que no meio do dorama eles criaram outro dorama
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Beautiful written love story that warms our heart❤️
It's not just a love story, It's a journey through love, pain etc. The story not just focused on the love, it also focused on the family, friendship, hardship, pain, overcome, career, dream achievement etc. The main lead actors jung hae-in and jung so-min, their chemistry was superb. I really liked their combo. And already was their fan. I really liked their other dramas. Like the other dramas they didin't add crime, murder, killer type in this drama. If you ask me that's better. For a realistic plot it's better to avaoid that genre (my personal opinion) other than than genre it's better to add realitic genre like job, dream, pressure, love life, depression, failure, affections, friendship, hardship and overcomes. And the director did his best for this drama. Expect more dramas to be like this..Was this review helpful to you?
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highly recommending this show
Best 2024 drama this drama is for people ready to take in mature theme and not immature fiction dramas. This drama and it's each episode gives such amazing lessons. I'm actually so in love with this drama I actually can't tell how much it has taught me thingsthis show is not typical kdrama with fanfiction writing but it more of a show about adult life, their relationship, their struggles, healing and sadness mostly how they all come of it and heal together from their trauma 🤧
both main lead chemistry is top tier i can they r one of best kdrama pairing which going to be remember enjoy
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