Stay by My Side after the Rain Episode 10

well that was a mess... & ironically again…

well that was a mess... & ironically again Kanade choses to cut ties & run away from the situation, instead of dealing with the issue. i get his father is an authoritarian & very tough to talk too. but Kanade isn't a child anymore - but he keeps bottling everything up, until he can't take it anymore & then he blows-up or runs away. like he did with his father - was disowning his whole family, really the best idea/solution? he gonna cut ties with his mother & sister cause he is scared to buttheads with his father - really?!? even his telling his father that he didn't care about him was unnecessary, as am 100% what he meant to say was that he didn't care about his opinion. *******************************************************************************************sadly i aint shocked, cause this has been Kanade MO from the start of this BL, any emotionally charged issue & he is running a mile in the opposite direction - dude hates confrontation & even though there is a part of me, that get's it. seeing an adult run away, instead of standing strong & dealing... is annoying & frustrating to watch - cause u want people that take the bull by the horns, especially when the people involved r important, let alone family. **************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************& no this doesn't mean, that if u have abusive (mentally or physically) family or loved ones - just cause ur blood related or emotionally attached, u should keep suffering in silence or keep them in ur life. *******************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************but that isn't the case with Kanade - Kanade's behavior & timid personality r the reason his father is so harsh & uncompromising towards him. leave the fact that parents always look at their children as children no matter their age, so to him he has always had to push Kanade, cause he was too soft, introverted, shy etc... he thinks that's the best way to deal with Kanade & that's how he will succeed in life - do what an adult should do.... & Kanade choosing to keep quite or ghosting his family, doesn't show his father that he is wrong in his assumptions. ***********************
this was a mess & it is sad (been saying from the start, Kanade needs "help" more then a relationship). but that won't happen, so lets hope Mashiro will help again - cause of him Kanade isn't just opening up, he is learning to not be so self-involved & take the person he loves into consideration. **************************************************************************************************
lets hope Mashiro convinces him to rethink his final words to his father. cause seeing Kanade's father walk away with tears in his eyes broke my heart, yeah he is tough as nails but that doesn't mean he doesn't have a heart, or that he doesn't love his child.

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