Meu Amor, Minha Noiva (2014)

Romantizou a infidelidade :/

Um filme que parecia que iria mostrar as facetas de um relacionamento que está fadado a dar errado pois ambos estão cometendo erros, mas que iria funcionar após eles enfrentar este momento.
Só que 'My love, My bride' não faz o melhor trabalho em mostrar isso, já que um dos maiores erros é encoberto e nunca falado ou levado ao conhecimento da outra pessoa, fiquei inconformada, a traição aconteceu teve oportunidade de confessar mas escolheu enganar e viver a vida como se nada tivesse acontecido, como se aquilo não tivesse importância e seu amor fosse agora algo sincero.
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Que um casamento nem sempre é um mar de rosas isso a gente já sabe, mas eles tentaram vender isso como se ambas as pessoas no relacionamento tivessem feito algo errado, quando na realidade, foi principalmente o Young Min que fez tudo de errado.
A maior culpa da esposa foi pedir ao marido para ajudar nas responsabilidades domésticas? (os dois trabalhavam fora) ou para não mijar respingando todo o vaso? ( se teve algo mais grave eu perdi de vista esta cena).

Young Min inventava cenários em sua cabeça de coisas que sua esposa está fazendo sem ela dar motivos para tal desconfiança (acho que isso era só reflexo dele mesmo pois na primeira oportunidade ele se agarra com outra mulher).

Respondendo a pergunta na sinopse: "Enquanto lutam para fazer seu casamento funcionar, Young Min e Mi Young conseguem aprender o segredo para um relacionamento duradouro? " Resposta: não eles não aprendem o segredo, na verdade se o segredo era a mentira, então sim, uma das partes descobriu O_O .


Esse casal devia ter seguido caminhos separados.

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I went into My Love, My Bride with very little expectations. I thought it would be a cute romantic comedy, but silly me skipped right over the 'melodrama' tag.

The film does start off as a cute romance movie. There are loads of adorable moments and it helps that the main actors have great chemistry. We see the beginnings of the crack in the relationship, but our couple powers through and moves onto the honeymoon stage. This is where things begin to get dicey and the nicely laid foundation starts to fall apart and show that it is not all about romance, but human mistakes that can cost a relationship.

To its core, My Love, My Bride is a movie about how to make a relationship work and the mistakes one can make while in anger or misunderstanding. It doesn't do the best job at showing this as one the biggest mistakes is glossed over and never spoke of or brought to the attention of the other person. It essentially becomes no big deal and solidifies that it is okay to not tell your partner/spouse about what happened as long as your love becomes/is sincere.
That is the thing I dislike most about this film. I don't like lies, especially lies that aren't technically lies if you don't guess the truth.

The other thing that had my gears in a twist is what caused this chain of events (thus 'justifying' things to come): Mi Young meeting a coworker while she and her husband were on a date (as the in the summary). Even though Mi Young assures her husband, Young Min, that he is just a coworker and yet Young Min still dreams up false scenarios. In which we get the idea that men and women can't be friends without thoughts of sex or flirtation. See why my gears are grinding?

The characters are not flawless. They each have their own flaws. Mi Young, the wife, nags about housekeeping (if you can call that a flaw), and Young Min, the husband, is self centered, quick to ignore and say hurtful things. There's lots of bickering and makeups as the characters struggle to do the right thing and most often than not the wrong thing is said before the right thing is found.

Despite the miscommunication between characters (which would have solved everything), the movie is actually good. It lagged some in the middle and picked back up in strength toward the end. Don't go in expecting some feel good romantic comedy. You won't find that here. What you will find is a romance movie that becomes less about romance and more about the mistakes humans make while in love and the heartache that can come with it.

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