Ahn JiMin’s Brown Book
1. My charm that excites the opposite sex: Although I may seem rough, I think my emotional and delicate side is attractive. And I think the biggest appeal is that it can provide comfort when we are together.
2. My day and My Holiday: On weekdays, I wake up at 6 and take the shuttle bus to work at 7. I usually get off work around 6 or 7. When I get home, I lie down on the floor for a bit, then come to my senses and go exercise. When I exercise, I always start with chin-ups. And lastly, I try to make my lower body a little stronger by riding my bike. After working out, I thoroughly cleanse my face. After I shower, I do skin care for five minutes. Then, just after 10 o’clock, I get ready for bed.
I try to sleep in on holidays, but I end up waking up around 7 or 8am. Since I have nothing to do, I just laze around. When the weather is nice, I go for a run alone in the neighborhood. I’m on a diet these days, so I am holding back on my favorite vanilla latte, but it is my reward when I run.
3. My Soul Food: I usually like pork belly the most, but I think it changes a little depending on the situation and the weather. I also like mala xiangguo, and especially in the winter, I really like eating fish cakes and sundae at street food stalls.
4. My Healing Spot: I know a secret place hidden in Jamwon Hangang Park. Sometimes, when I sit there, I just stare blankly at the scenery across the river. It feels like I’m meditating, and my mind and heart become clear, which is nice.
5. My Own Superpower: There’s nothing…..
6. A movie I love and a scene from it: Rainy Day in New York: This is a movie about Timothee Chalmet who struggles to find his love and eventually finds the person he loves most around him. The ending scene where he finds his true love that he didn’t know was always close was especially impressive. The visuals of the male and female leads matched so well that it was nice to watch, and I also liked the jazzy OST.
7. My playlist that I want to Share with My lover:
Jongshin Yoon: Near the End
Sam Ock: Remember
May Oil: Echo
Shawn Mendes: Where Were You in the Morning?
Chris James: Alright
8. Childhood, A scene from my happiest memory: I remember the days when we would often get together with our neighbors, go on trips, and eat delicious food. I’m a person who is very affectionate towards people, but these days, I spend a lot of time alone. So I often think about those times when there were so many people around me.
9. The most Difficult Time Ever: At my last company, the conflict with my boss was so severe that I quit my job without looking for another job or career. Because of the stress I was going through at the company at the time, my self-esteem was really low, so it seemed like I wasn’t good at anything. I think it was a time when I had no confidence, no courage, and was afraid of the future. Nevertheless, I tried to get the next job thinking….”Finally….and finally….” When I got a new job, I felt confident that I could be recognized as valuable in society again.
10. My Expected Salary in 5 Years: Maybe………I hope the performance bonus comes out well. 100 million won in the early to mid range?
11. Memories of the luxury that was too much for me back then: There is nothing like this…..
Chapter 2
Love I Think
12. The Charm of the Opposite Sex that Excites Me: I think I’m attracted to the opposite sex who has high self-esteem and is confident. Especially when I feel that my self-esteem comes from consistently taking good care of myself, I think the opposite sex looks cool and attractive.
13. My plotting Skills that Only I Know: Whisper…?
14. Love Mock Test
A. What level of skinship do I want before dating? Hug
B. How often do I want to be in contact during the day while in a relationship? 5 messages or fewer. 1 call before going to bed. I think I can send more messages, and make one more call before I go to bed. Much more often on the weekends.
C. How often do I want to meet someone during a relationship? Only do weekends together.
15. What is the acceptable range for meeting male and female friends? You can go to a café or eat alone
What is the scope of daily sharing? Share your daily schedule, Share in detail the people you meet, and share your home password
What is the way I want to express affection? Hug, kiss
16. The Moment I Feel I Love & the Moment I Feel I Am Loved: I feel in love when I constantly feel curious about what kind of day this person had and how she feels when she ends the day. Likewise, I think I feel loved when the other person keeps wondering about me and wants to take care of me.
17. The Stability of Love, 3 essential elements of an ideal relationship: Comfort, trust, sacrifice for each other
I hope she feels relaxed and at ease when we are together. I think that way, we can share all of our daily lives and rely on one another.
Trust: If I can trust that this person will always be by my side and on my side, I think I will be able to draw a better future.
Since we can make sacrifices for each other, I think we can last a long time if we always show a little consideration for each other.
