Love of Silom (Uncut Ver.) - episode 5
In this episode the issue of coming out and the challenges of being in the closet are what stood out to me. I also found the issue of parental expectations and pressure to be front and centre.
I cannot relate to the relationship between Krit and his father as I do not have a relationship with mine, so I cannot imagine being under any pressure from him or having any regard towards him whatsoever. However, I can appreciate the burden Krit is carrying and how he fears disappointing his father. He will eventually come to the crossroad where he will have to choose between his own happiness or his father's. I can already foresee his father being very against Wayu, especially because of Wayu's job. Krit's father cares a lot about image, and you often find that people like that are shallow in character, and are willing to sacrifice happiness in every form to please some subsection of society.
One thing that always irks me about these types of stories is how the mothers just stand-by while the fathers break down their children emotionally. The mothers often give excuses and play referees in the name of keeping the peace. Is there really peace being kept where your child has no peace? This is quite off-putting to me because I come from a very strong female led household and family, so this type of family dynamic is completely against anything I am used to. However, I do understand as a sociology student (well former) that these types of traditional patriarchal family units do exist and how they operate.
Due to Krit being in the closet he is a slave to it. His ex weaponizes it. Only Krit can emancipate himself from his situation, and I hope when he does it, it is not solely because of wanting to be with Wayu, but he does it for himself and his truth.
I look forward to seeing how these different issues will be dealt with in future episodes.
I do have comments on Wayu and his nephew's family situation, but I will save them for another time; possibly I will do one of my very long finale reviews that I am known for lol.