Hi all my BL friends,
I’m just checking in to say sorry to anyone I’ve been messaging—or not messaging—lately. Also I’ve been commenting here less. I’m still reading the feed everyday but I’m behind on a bunch of shows. Also I just haven’t had the mental energy to say anything insightful.
My mother-in-law is going downhill but refuses to get care from hospice because she cannot accept that she is dying and hospice is only for people at the end of life. It is upsetting and exhausting and my spouse is a wreck and needs a lot of attention. Still, there is not much I can do. But I am exhausted too. I have no idea how long this will go on or if it will be worse for my spouse after my MIL passes. My spouse has a lot of mixed feelings about their mother, but it’s still awful to loose family. Sorry I didn’t mean to go on about that.
Anyway I will contribute what I can here and watch whatever seems to feel right. I still need BLs to get me through this. But if I seem less present, this is why. I just don’t want anyone to think I’ve disappeared. My presence just may be less consistent.
I love this group and my BLs. Reading all your comments still helps me.
Yesterday I did watch all the Tuesday shows. Wu is great and is definitely trying to blur the lines between bromance and unspoken romance. I went to the show page after to read the comments, and luckily they were full of enthusiasm. The biggest problem with the show is cliffhangers every week!
Chermchey seems to have little plot and just be a long stream of flirting and dirty jokes I either don’t get or don’t find funny. But I’m willing to watch just to see TutorYim flirt and hook up. Jokes about twenty rounds though?! Can anyone really do that?! lol.
Magic Move is the kind of low-investment show I need right now, although some of the characters are annoying me. I am really loving the second couple. I posted some photos of them in the photo feed if anyone’s interested. One of them, Prite, isn’t even listed on the MDL page.
I have been rewatching Secret Lover and it is still great.