My mother-in-law passed away on Thursday. My spouse is overcome with both sadness and relief. It was hard having a judgmental parent, and it was hard caring for someone slowly dying. It feels like way longer than two days since it happened.
Now I think my spouse will officially come out as nonbinary. I will try my best to switch to they/them pronouns, but it’ll take some practice after 15 years.
All changes take time, including accepting loss and redefining oneself for the world. We’ll see what they have energy for at this point in our lives.
We inherited my MIL’s dog, who is crazy but adorable. My dog gets along fine with the new addition.
I am trying to catch up on at least my currently watching BLs. I need to escape all the emotional intensity. But my spouse wants to talk every 5 minutes so it’s taking forever to get through anything. I managed Class Crush Crisis and Don’t Be Too Emotional yesterday.
I also watched Enchanté over the course of last week. It was cute, and I needed something light and good for filler time. For all of you who are French or speak French, though, it might drive you nuts. I can’t say for sure what a French accent is supposed to sound like, but I know enough to know that Book, who is supposed to speak fluent French in the show, does not sound like a native. If that doesn’t bother you, I’d recommend it. It was a little slow but I enjoyed returning to an older, predictable BL format. It was comforting. And Force looked good with bangs! Plus it has Aou, Boom, (not as a couple), Gawin, and Fluke Pusit. Fun!
Here’s a picture of our new dog. She is a miniature schnauzer.
For pics of BL hotties, check out the photo feeds in the official BL group. I’ll try to post some photos from Don’t Be Too Emotional later today.
Now I’m going to try to finish Bittersweet Love.