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 RiqueXinw:
I agree with this type of rating. I think when we start to analyse series in such a technically and criticizing way we lose touch of the "magic" and feelings we had watching our first series and what made us become in love with the genre. It is no longer watching it for pleasure but instead it is a judgement to determine what is best instead of appreciating a story for what it is.


 AmericanFan:
I pretty much rate based on the emotions and feelings I get from a series along with the storyline/message and how the overall quality comes across.

I'm similar. I think in terms of how well they achieved what they set out to do ("lower" ambitions done well will rate higher for me than a bigger ambition which bit off more than they could really handle in the allotted episodes) and how much I enjoyed spending time in their world. Storyline and message are important to that. Red flag behaviours from MC characters who don't grow out of it knock the score right down for me.

I am looking forward to this world being explored some more by the bl industry.

 RiqueXinw:

I agree with this type of rating. I think when we start to analyse series in such a technically and criticizing way we lose touch of the "magic" and feelings we had watching our first series and what made us become in love with the genre. It is no longer watching it for pleasure but instead it is a judgement to determine what is best instead of appreciating a story for what it is. I am not say that production and writing quality is not important but for me it should not manifest into such staunch criticism that we forget to just enjoy the series.

You make a very good point. I hadn't thought of it that way, but yeah, it would certainly be hard to enjoy a series if I had to think about all that as well.

 RiqueXinw:
Another thing is that the amount of times Seewi said "Cake" annoyed the hell out of me.

Me too!  :-)

 hoshthegoat:
I honestly rate exclusively based on if I enjoy it and that usually does entail me liking the overall story and or visuals, but that's more in a way of it being the right fit for me rather than any tech stuff.

The right fit is a great way to look at it. Very true! I was thinking the other day how would I rate some of my first dramas if I were to watch them now. I've never re-watched a drama, but I'm considering it. I would be curious how they might "fit" me now.  :-)

 Elisheva:
how much I enjoyed spending time in their world.

Hi Elisheva. It's nice to "see" you! I like that phrase!

Just for fun I read the comments on The Middleman's Love page every so often, and the latest batch is laugh out loud funny.  I guess the third episode will drop soon. It's do or die, if the 3rd ep. hasn't improved then it's a drop for me.  I mean no disrespect to the actors or cast, but ngl it's a disaster so far. 

 RiqueXinw:

I always ask persons who loved it what about it in terms of the friends to lovers trope that made them love it. For me I loved and appreciated the messages and the story-line of it but the romance part just never hooked me. I did not feel the chemistry on a romantic level. I felt that their friendship was established in a way that I could not look past it  and that made their couple scenes cringey for me. Another thing is that the amount of times Seewi said "Cake" annoyed the hell out of me.

(re "My Only 12%") I totally understand what you're saying. Earth can indeed be quite cringe, but somehow it worked for me here: That's the character he plays, and somehow he didn't grate on me like in other roles he's played (Tar in "Love By Chance", Intouch in "Until We Meet Again"). For me personally, Santa and Earth really worked.

Yes, so many BLs follow the same tropes of (childhood)-friends-to-lovers, enemies-to-lovers, love-at-first-sight, boss-subordinate, etc. - but on the other hand, if it's a good love story that I feel invested in, I'm fine with that. What I particularly liked here is the intimacy (emotional and physical) and powerful bond between the two boys going back to their earliest childhood; I've not seen any other BL that quite compares to this.

I also recognise that this series is probably too slow for many. For me, not. I appreciated the well-structured and well-written story, the slice-of-life authencity, and the development of the characters and of their struggles with their feelings and jealousies.

 AmericanFan:

Me too!  :-)

The right fit is a great way to look at it. Very true! I was thinking the other day how would I rate some of my first dramas if I were to watch them now. I've never re-watched a drama, but I'm considering it. I would be curious how they might "fit" me now.  :-)

Hi Elisheva. It's nice to "see" you! I like that phrase!

I've started rewatching dramas (mostly 10s through 8s, but with some others as well if I feel like it) and while I won't change the scores on mdl, I do feel like I will feel a little different especially with some of the older ones that may not have any of the themes I've enjoyed the past few years.

(Sorry I quoted the whole thing, but I don't know how to separate sections of comments for quoting)

 hoshthegoat:
I don't know how to separate sections of comments for quoting

It's super easy! You just select the text you want, then click on the "Quote" balloon right over the selected text.

I also enjoy re-watching things - usually just to enjoy something I really liked (comfort), but sometimes I also see it in a different way, or pick up on more details. It's rare that my basic opinion changes, but in one recent example it did: "Kieta Hatsukoi" ("My Love Mix-Up"). The first time I watched it I was disappointed, mainly because I was expecting a more serious and traditional BL between the two idols (especially Michieda). When I more recently re-watched it, I really liked it so much more because I had the right expectations - and I even upped my rating to ten stars. It's really rare that I change a rating, but it can happen!

"Sweet  Boy"

(Thailand, 2016)

Sweet if sad coming-of-age / coming-to-terms story.

 Chun Mo Rionnag:
Sweet if sad coming-of-age / coming-to-terms story.

Accurate description. This movie is not so much a love story as the story of a boy struggling with his sexuality, a subject painfully familiar to many of us in our younger lives. Ironic title in that some of the boys are definitely not sweet. It's really good - and particularly notable as Chimon Wachirawit's first lead role at the age of 16. It's on the "Leaving Gagaoolala soon" list, so if you're interested, hurry.

I think I'll start "VIP Only" soon! *ò*


I'm loving "Last Twilight" (but I already knew before it started, due to my obsession for Sea and Jimmy).
"My dear Gangstar Oppa" is cute, but I guess I'll lose interest now that...they are together! Let's see. The acting is not excellent, but not bad either. I I defer my judgement.

I still have to start "A breeze of love"... T_T

(sorry for skipping through your comments, but I have less and less time T_T as always, behind schedule...)

 Rikku:
I think I'll start "VIP Only" soon! *ò*

Tell me what your impression is after you watch the first episode. I am watching almost all the series out now at the same time so I don't want to run into another one if it is not absolutely worth it.

 RiqueXinw:
Tell me what your impression is after you watch the first episode.

I watched today's first two episodes of "VIP Only" (on Gaga). Sweet, charming, gentle, feel-good. Beautiful production quality. So far, I love it.

 p43425:

I watched today's first episode of "VIP Only" (on Gaga). Sweet, charming, gentle, feel-good. Beautiful production quality. So far, I love it.

My feelings on the first, two episodes as well.

 p43425:

I watched today's first episode of "VIP Only" (on Gaga). Sweet, charming, gentle, feel-good. Beautiful production quality. So far, I love it.

I watched only the first episode so far, but I agree with this opinion :)

Seems promising!