I also used to watch random drama that's made me mad. Something like ML already abandoned FL because he thought she had sugar daddy a few years earlier (while on college) then he met FL again due to FL cover for her friend to sign a collaboration paperwork or something, then he went to bully and rape her, and didn't believe her pregnancy has something to do with him because of the false medical report brought by SFL then she miscarried, but FL, who's actually a heiress and that 'sugar daddy' was in fact her super rich dad, saying "It's okay, there's no need to avenge me, I just want to have no further relation with him." What, was I being taught to let people bully me? Or that meeting a bad guy was inevitable, so when you met one, just flee? Because an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind? Now when I see weak FL, I automatically close the drama.
My preference is Tinghua Dao/ Heard Island's drama. Their dramas are generally safe. And on reelxia there's people giving out rating. Drama with rating over 4.5 with more than 5 people rated it is generally safe. On youtube, I read the comments. On iQIYI, I generally watch top or trending/ something from reelxia that's available on iQIYI. For other sites, I rarely watch random drama. But everything trending and have many viewers on Hongguo is a sure wonder. As long as the poster looks fun. Today I ptw https://reelxia.com/drama/Zn with 4.7 rating.