Married at 29, in my late 30s now.
People meet in all kinds of ways. So, it's possible to meet in some dramatic event, but just as likely that your first meeting is calmer, seemingly nothing special.
In my opinion, it’s better not to apply the idealized version of romance we see in dramas to the relationships we build in real life. That doesn’t mean you won’t meet someone who sweeps you off your feet or reminds you of a favorite character—or that you can’t experience a whirlwind love that feels like it’s straight out of a show. But real relationships are about much more than those heightened moments.
They’re about how you move through the humdrum of life together, how you stay connected through change, and maybe most importantly, how you fight for each other when it would be easier to disengage or walk away. *Edit: not to say all valuable relationships last, because some don't. Some are short-lived, but we can still learn and grow from them!
I also think different dramas resonate with us based on where we are in life. One of my all-time favorites is Confession Couple, because its central conflict hits so deeply—it reflects what love looks like after the fairy tale, and why it’s still worth holding onto.
So... if you meet that person who reminds you of a drama character, that's awesome. Just... remember they're human, you're both going to disappoint each other at times, but you can hopefully work through it or learn from it, if nothing else. :)
