many men confess love to me especially through internet yet they do nothing to prove it .

they dont wanna show face , they will be perverted,asking me to fly to their country or they would about liking me

for example ,my so called ex who said he wants to marry me suddenly asked me not to text him anymore .then he said he will never ask me not to text him anymore .i said to him that i missed him and he doesnt miss me (we didnt talk for weeks) .he leaves me in seen .what da heck .he clearly lied about liking me

the previous one said he would become my boyfriend and claimed about sending money with gifts to me .end up ,it is a lie and he said i am ugly and fat .he also blocked me .but he came back saying 'i am sorry ,my pretty woman .please forgive me .but i told him that he is brain les and he blocked me lol

maybe men just dont fall in love .at least not falling me for me

but i personally hate falling in love as well .it makes me feel weak .i rather love my friends .most of my ex friends aint useless at least unless those men

Honestly, most of the people who confess love online—especially without really knowing you—are usually just being perverted or unserious. It's best not to expect real love from them.

As for love itself, I do believe everyone deserves love, though unfortunately, not everyone gets it. In your case, I can only hope that someday you find someone who truly values and loves you for who you are.

 Ravi:

Honestly, most of the people who confess love online—especially without really knowing you—are usually just being perverted or unserious. It's best not to expect real love from them.

As for love itself, I do believe everyone deserves love, though unfortunately, not everyone gets it. In your case, I can only hope that someday you find someone who truly values and loves you for who you are.

people irl aint better either 


thanks

Yeah, I hear you—love really is a rare thing. The luckiest people are the ones who love someone and receive that love equally in return. But I don’t think there are too many like that out there. Just keep your head high and wait for the right person to come along. :)

After living a lot I learn something I want to share: Love is the most beautiful thing in the planet when you are in love and the other person really too, but can we really know about the other person? Answer is no. So I decided after watching myself in love that loving is perfect when you feel love and live for that love up to the end of yourself giving everything without waiting nothing to be paid for. Waiting for something is what damages love. I love myself when I'm in love so I am always searching to be so!
Sorry for living inside an illusion.

Don't lose hope. Keep trying. Pray for love to God and do good deeds, be filial and be kind, and do your best at work. Heaven rewards the dilligent. Online romance could work, but you need to be careful, they could use fake identities, maybe they're already married, or they're sexual offenders, fraudster, human traffickers, murderers. Still, it worked sometimes. My late friend's widower met his new wife through tinder, my cousin's older cousin met his wife through facebook, and some others chose to find a dating partner through mutual friend on social media filtering them using religion (some succeeded and got married, some failed). But everyone on the news seemed to meet the wrong person. Well, well... there's a reason why they're on the news. For those who bite you and leave, but want to be back to you, don't pick them back. They will do it again for sure. They find comfort in you because they could step on you.

You know, it's important to improve yourself. If you upgrade yourself, the people who come will also be the upgraded version.

As for me, my ego is too big to love other people. For now, I'll improve my self-love even more. Maybe if I could find a cute angel that could tolerate me, I will be in love too. But if not, I'll save money for nursing home and funeral preparation. That works too.