Becca256 wrote: As for the harassment,I have only considered the confession harassment, because although their relationship has been a little strange, it has actually been mutual.
That part I agree, I have to say I enjoyed their relationship a lot more in Cali, ever since he confessed to being second son and became kingpin at school everything changed, the power dynamics changed too much and he's aware of that so becomes problematic to act like he's entitled to order and control her. But like I said, I think it's consistent at least.
wrote: And I don't think Tan is hateful to Rachel, he's only making his point.
Maybe if we had seen them bond over something, I don't know, it just seems too much for me. Yes, he is honest with her but he does too much that is extremely inconsiderate to her, almost cruel if she had an intention of marrying him. It's easy to be totally honest and never care what the other thinks or feels, until he does that, I'll keep finding it hateful.
wrote: And I don't think he hates his mother, his just disappointed by her, because she's shallow and bitter.
No, I don't think he hates her too but again it's too much, it's almost pity, it's a sort of contempt. It's too aggressively cold for a guy so young, just because she is shallow.
wrote: His relationship with Won truly is complicated,but I don't think he's disturbed because he wants it, he's just being a brother.
So many brothers have complicated love/hate relationship, after being exiled for 3 years I'd say Tan had an abnormal need for acceptance by his older brother, a normal healthy guy would resent him a little bit now :) even if they could easily move past that.
It's the overall character of Tan that so far is disturbing for me, I don't think he IS a good person yet but I'd surely like to see him try to be one. :)