Badgal1995:

@ Elise 

That’s what I have been saying, they make XL like he’s being torturing her and being so bad to her to the core and Jing is the little nice guy who’s heal her wounds 🤪 Jing remember some toxic french song  about this guy blaming his girl how she shouldn’t abandon her because without him no one going to care about her well-being 😂😂

I'm putting these in spoilers since the others might be lurking our thread and be upset with what I have to say:

XL may have physically hurt her in the beginning but it was Jing who mentally hurt her for years. She couldn't sleep well because of him. 

Xiao Yao finally spoke “Since breaking up with Jing my heart aches so I can’t sleep well....

A person can be hurt two ways, one is physical and can be seen and the other is emotional and cannot be seen. No matter how strong, a person who is physically injured will rest and heal. But emotional injury, the stronger a person is, the more the person will pretend it never happened and live on as usual. But this type of injury is even harder to heal....

Xiao Yao placed all her hope for a family on Jing, which is why his leaving her was like the straw that broke the camel’s back and Xiao Yao couldn’t handle it anymore. But even if she couldn’t handle it anymore, it happened during the most dangerous time for the battle for the Xuan Yuan throne so Xiao Yao had to keep being strong for Zhuan Xu. Now that Zhuan Xu was safe, she finally collapsed inside.

Zhuan Xu’s heart hurt and for the first time he started to detest Jing. Xiao Yao gave her trust and hope, which took so much courage and effort on her part that normal people couldn’t imagine. She was building a home on a bruised and battered body, yet Jing shattered Xiao Yao’s trust and hope.

After her breakup, her insomnia developed into a heart problem.

Xiao Yao felt her heart constricting tightly so she sat up and took deep breaths. It started with being sleepless but over time she seemed to have developed a heart problem. She knew Xiang Liu was being bothered by her right now.

All these years in the deep dark of the night, when she was at her most painful to endure moments, knowing someone was experiencing the same feeling made her feel she wasn’t alone. It made her feel like he was right there keeping her company and it comforted her a lot.

In the poison packages she sent him, she wrote in a letter apologizing for disturbing him and reminding him to go to Jiu Li with her when he had time. But Xiang Liu never replied and Xiao Yao didn’t dare mention it a second time.

Xiao Yao clutched her heart and slowly laid back down. After laying for a long time, she slowly fell asleep.

Xiang Liu made her feel not alone because he felt the same feeling she did. That sucks for Xiang Liu though. Having him feel her feelings about another man.

This is not mentioned enough, but now that you brought it up, it makes so much sense. I’ve been saying from the beginning that Jing’s flaws are much more insidious. He has that good boy exterior but his actions damage and hurt her in such a way that all the lashes in the world wouldn’t be able to.

Xiang Liu is what he is. He’s a demon, he doesn’t really care for what others think of him, since he’s normally reviled anyway. But good boy Jing with his sweetness and kindness is so deceptively frustrating. He can cause so much pain with his inability to deal with his stuff, and people still call him “an ideal husband material”. Please, go off with this nonsense. Imagine being married to a dude with this much baggage and family drama. 

@Elise 

XL may have physically hurt her in the beginning but it was Jing who mentally hurt her for years. She couldn't sleep well because of him. 

I AGREE WITH YOU ON THIS YOU CAN SEE IT WHEN watching this shows without having any preferences. At first when he used to be Ye ShiQi I could understand why people say he’s so kind he’s so deserving her when Xuan and XL was seen monsters comparing. I didn’t need time to have my own opinion about him after analyze exploring his character because he’s the only male character who didn’t get any depth at all.  How can we overlook just because he gives you I did something stupid, you have to forgive anyway I won't love anyone else don’t judge me right now and then, if I insist, it’s because we must not forget about our promise you know. Obviously, we will let time speak but you still has an chance after being hurt double-edged.


Xiao Yao finally spoke “Since breaking up with Jing my heart aches so I can’t sleep well....

A person can be hurt two ways, one is physical and can be seen and the other is emotional and cannot be seen. No matter how strong, a person who is physically injured will rest and heal. But emotional injury, the stronger a person is, the more the person will pretend it never happened and live on as usual. But this type of injury is even harder to heal....

Xiao Yao placed all her hope for a family on Jing, which is why his leaving her was like the straw that broke the camel’s back and Xiao Yao couldn’t handle it anymore. But even if she couldn’t handle it anymore, it happened during the most dangerous time for the battle for the Xuan Yuan throne so Xiao Yao had to keep being strong for Zhuan Xu. Now that Zhuan Xu was safe, she finally collapsed inside.

Zhuan Xu’s heart hurt and for the first time he started to detest Jing. Xiao Yao gave her trust and hope, which took so much courage and effort on her part that normal people couldn’t imagine. She was building a home on a bruised and battered body, yet Jing shattered Xiao Yao’s trust and hope.


I meant she feel more human in the novel, like damn this look so painful she was shattered in pieces. But in the drama it’s look like everything Jing doing is ok I understand you. You can do it. They’re saying Xuan making about him because he’s hating on him when Jing is the one who hurts her. I was rooting for Xuan to blow up this marriage bro I mean Wtff evil or not Xuan was right how can you still support him 😵‍💫

After her breakup, her insomnia developed into a heart problem.

You do that to me and I’m going to wait and take you back please let’s call 911 on her. She’s an massive freaks 😑😑😑😑😑

Xiao Yao felt her heart constricting tightly so she sat up and took deep breaths. It started with being sleepless but over time she seemed to have developed a heart problem. She knew Xiang Liu was being bothered by her right now.

All these years in the deep dark of the night, when she was at her most painful to endure moments, knowing someone was experiencing the same feeling made her feel she wasn’t alone. It made her feel like he was right there keeping her company and it comforted her a lot.


Now I’m feeling she deserves this and enjoy because she didn’t learn any lessons but not our poor Xiang Liu 😔😔

 Badgal1995:

After her breakup, her insomnia developed into a heart problem.

You do that to me and I’m going to wait and take you back please let’s call 911 on her. She’s an massive freaks 😑😑😑😑😑

Xiao Yao felt her heart constricting tightly so she sat up and took deep breaths. It started with being sleepless but over time she seemed to have developed a heart problem. She knew Xiang Liu was being bothered by her right now.

All these years in the deep dark of the night, when she was at her most painful to endure moments, knowing someone was experiencing the same feeling made her feel she wasn’t alone. It made her feel like he was right there keeping her company and it comforted her a lot.


Now I’m feeling she deserves this and enjoy because she didn’t learn any lessons but not our poor Xiang Liu 😔😔

Exactly. I couldn’t care less about who she ends up with. Just…can someone please save Xiang Liu from himself??

 nathsketch:
He can cause so much pain with his inability to deal with his stuff, and people still call him “an ideal husband material”. Please, go off with this nonsense. Imagine being married to a dude with this much baggage and family drama.

I would run the other direction in real life. What girl would want to deal with that kind of family?

 Elise:

I would run the other direction in real life. What girl would want to deal with that kind of family? 

I just… this is all wrong. He really isn’t the bad guy, why can’t people see that? What bad guy does all the things he spent the whole story doing for her? This is insane. This Jing dude, on the other hand, is not ideal.

Are we in the Upside Down?

 nathsketch:

Exactly. I couldn’t care less about who she ends up with. Just…can someone please save Xiang Liu from himself??

Clearly no one 😭 nor him nor writer nor producer.  Frankly the producers could have made an effort to give him the ending he deserved bro need to be far away from her not even planet but in another universe

 Badgal1995:

Clearly no one 😭 nor him nor writer nor producer.  Frankly the producers could have made an effort to give him the ending he deserved bro need to be far away from her not even planet but in another universe 

His whole “I’m dying with my soldier bros” is so infuriating!! Whyyyyyyy that’s not noble, that’s foolish, such a waste of a good pudding. That silver-haired sexy pudding. I want it! Let me go get me a spoon 😹😹😹😹😹😹

 Elise:

I would run the other direction in real life. What girl would want to deal with that kind of family? 

 an man who need to be babysit too

 Badgal1995:
I was rooting for Xuan to blow up this marriage bro I mean Wtff evil or not Xuan was right how can you still support him 😵‍💫

This is why Xuan is my second favorite. About 20 days before Xiao Yao's wedding, Xuan stopped it from happening by helping Hou to get that fox killed lolol.

Xuan is right too.

 Elise:

This is why Xuan is my second favorite. About 20 days before Xiao Yao's wedding, Xuan stopped it from happening by helping Hou to get that fox killed lolol.

Xuan is right too. 

Only wished he succeeded in staying dead. Why did XL had to go be a hero as always?

 Badgal1995:
Now I’m feeling she deserves this and enjoy because she didn’t learn any lessons but not our poor Xiang Liu 😔😔

Xiang Liu has so much patience with her, dealing with all her baggage like her emotions and such 😭😭

 Elise:

Xiang Liu has so much patience with her, dealing with all her baggage like her emotions and such 😭😭

Such a babe. What a babe. Save that babe.