ErickaRamirez:

More things about what??

I thought there were more things about the shower scene lol

 Elise:

That song. It's like XY saying that to XL :') 

So so perfect!! ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ

 nathsketch:

I thought there were more things about the shower scene lol

If they didn’t do that they could literally die 

 Kokuto:
Plus, if he does a modern show, he should do one with ballroom dancing, please. He can go to Brasil to film it, right?


 ErickaRamirez:
Don’t tell that to Erica. She would quit or use all her vacation time to be there in first line ???

Somehow I'm only seeing this a month later.

Yes, yes I would. In fact, I'm ready to quit my life as I know it right this instant.

 nathsketch:


Somehow I'm only seeing this a month later.

Yes, yes I would. In fact, I'm ready to quit my life as I know it right this instant.


LOL!  Where's that cat paddling gif?

Soon, nathsketch will be swimming to China to see Tan.

 nathsketch:


Somehow I'm only seeing this a month later.

Yes, yes I would. In fact, I'm ready to quit my life as I know it right this instant.

😂😂😂😂

 Kokuto:


LOL!  Where's that cat paddling gif?

Soon, nathsketch will be swimming to China to see Tan.

Also me:

 nathsketch:

Also me:


LOL!  Look at that poor baby.  PADDLE!

 ErickaRamirez:

https://youtu.be/Uklm-sDO-mA?si=faoYGwVpbPeEINor

From Are You Safe?

I need to watch that too.  sigh.

 ErickaRamirez:

https://youtu.be/Uklm-sDO-mA?si=faoYGwVpbPeEINor

LORD the List™ will be endless!

Okay, I'm not a RLC shipper, but this gif ...  Tan Jian Ci is doing exactly what FFB does in the show.  He's giving the reporter the cool up and down assessment, and then looks at Yang Zi while she isn't looking at him, and warms up and starts smiling.

https://x.com/tlmssusu/status/1713061668148883479?s=20

I'm so glad you all exist. I came here to regain some sanity after seeing a picture on twitter of when Jing is about to kiss Xiaoyao in S2... You know, related to The-Scene-That-Must-Not-Be-Named. 

I don't know what it is. The way Jing is written? The way Xiaoyao becomes around/because of Jing? The implications of glorifying a relationship like theirs?

Either way, their relationship makes me so viscerally uncomfortable, it's hard to express. Save me LMAO. 

Seriously though. I hate Tong Hua so much for portraying the act of doubling down on childhood trauma, never getting over your trauma and growing but instead pitying yourself and complaining how hard your life has been, and severely regressing in personality and independence because you arrange your life entirely around your trauma, as "healing childhood trauma". 

Jing heals Xiaoyao? Fuck right off. He makes her worse and less capable of living independently and being happy in the future than she was before she let herself be sucked into his mess. You know who heals Xiaoyao? Xiang Liu. He's the only character in this entire story that aims to help her improve herself, become free and confident and succeeds. And Jing? "I just want to lock you up deep in my mansion so no one else can look at you or try to steal you away from me". Like, are we being serious right now? Are we really going to pretend that's sweet or healthy, for anyone, under any circumstances, ever? 

The Jingers will say, oh, you just don't understand. Xiaoyao is so pitiful and traumatized, her relationship with Jing is so sweet and just what she needs to heal. Jing is such a green flag. Well, I have a lot of personal and professional experience with childhood trauma and how to overcome and heal it, and I beg to differ. 

Anyway. Rant over. Send nice gifs please. 

 kitty_momo:

I'm so glad you all exist. I came here to regain some sanity after seeing a picture on twitter of when Jing is about to kiss Xiaoyao in S2... You know, related to The-Scene-That-Must-Not-Be-Named. 

I don't know what it is. The way Jing is written? The way Xiaoyao becomes around/because of Jing? The implications of glorifying a relationship like theirs?

Either way, their relationship makes me so viscerally uncomfortable, it's hard to express. Save me LMAO. 


I'm sure there will be some others who come along and help you put Jing on the marshmallow skewer for roasting. :)  Fortunately, I don't care so much what Jing and XY do, as much as I care about watching XL with XY.  And screaming at my TV when they don't even touch.  sigh.

There has been things about Jing that made me uneasy from the moment he healed up, but I know I have biases, which only exploded once XL was introduced.   But I agree.  I do like XY better as man.