
Elise:

Exactly. They already get their happy ending. What more could they ask for?
Some of them can't stand it when "green flag" Jing gets criticized so they go after us, not Xiang Liu since there's not much they can criticize him with except for some of the stuff he did in the beginning.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
It's all about context.....
The stuff at the start.. if you break into someone's house now and you get catch it's reasonable to expect police to come and throw you in jail. In the book setting it's reasonable that if you break into military grounds and attack people you would be physically punished....
He threw here out of the tree but she did offer it as a choice for him which meant that really wasn't going to far. It's part of their engagement.
Only bad thing was at the start he did bite her against her will but that was really an empty threat in context...
Later bites he still bite her without asking but once again context and girl really really liked it. It was like their kink...
I keep reading how they want us to meet a XL in real life. Why do you wish I'll on others over something that's fictional... It's so un grounded...
To be honest I do want to meet someone who loves me deeply and selflessly, asking for nothing in return, connects with me and makes my heart beat. Everyone has boundaries and as long as they don't overstep it's ok. IMO.
I am very confused by the Jing thread and they combine comments about text and social comments... Half the things makes no sense to me...
It's very ironic that we the red flag toxic abuser are so civilized and don't actually make call or wish them ill in our discussions. We're just confused... While the green flag does..