Please recommend dramatic romance dramas where the ML falls hard for the FL (or other ML, if it's a BL), and is willing to make big sacrifices for her. Ideally, the kind of drama where he's willing to kill to protect her if he has to, and where he's also willing to put his life on the line (and even die for her) to protect her. 

Preferably also dramas where the ML isn't a jerk to the FL for most of the drama. Being a jerk at the beginning isn't a deal breaker if he gets compelling character development. 

If you can, please include a warning if there's super minimal skinship (like Mr. Sunshine).

I mainly watch C Dramas and K Dramas, but I'm interested in recs from any country.

 AH :
Please recommend dramatic romance dramas where the ML falls hard for the FL (or other ML, if it's a BL), and is willing to make big sacrifices for her. Ideally, the kind of drama where he's willing to kill to protect her if he has to, and where he's also willing to put his life on the line (and even die for her) to protect her.

Preferably also dramas where the ML isn't a jerk to the FL for most of the drama. Being a jerk at the beginning isn't a deal breaker if he gets compelling character development.

Milady, why does this all sound so familiar?

Hmmmmmmm curiouser and curiouser ;)

 nathsketch:

Milady, why does this all sound so familiar?

Hmmmmmmm curiouser and curiouser ;)

There's a reason I've been stuck on LYF for months. It checks a lot of boxes. ^^

 AH :

There's a reason I've been stuck on LYF for months. It checks a lot of boxes. ^^

I know, right? 

Let's hope some kind soul gives us some recommendations.

The white hair is optional. But...hmmm...it would be a bonus :P

All of these have the ML making huge sacrifices for the FL and no jerk MLs. Also I'm not sure how minimal skinship you meant, so I just marked the ones where the leads never kiss.

 emeraldarrows:
All of these have the ML making huge sacrifices for the FL and no jerk MLs.

Thank you so much!

 emeraldarrows:
Also I'm not sure how minimal skinship you meant, so I just marked the ones where the leads never kiss.

Lol, yes no kisses at all is definitely the kind of situation I would like to be warned about in advance. Thank you!

  • Love in Han Yuan (I vividly remember a scene where the ML risked his identity/security/life to protect the FL, he was ready to kill the people suspicious of the FL if she made a mistake. It's an espionage drama. I don't remember if there were skinship but probably none to little? It's later revealed that he had fallen for her at first sight way earlier.)
  • Mutual Redemption Love (It's a short cdrama and still airing, but the ML has already proven that he will kill for the FL if it meant protecting the FL and offending related people. There's skinship. He already loved her but didn't know her identity at first, but then we see him so deep in love with her because of that sudden realisation.)
 lanzhanya:
I vividly remember a scene where the ML risked his identity/security/life to protect the FL, he was ready to kill the people suspicious of the FL if she made a mistake.

 lanzhanya:
It's a short cdrama and still airing, but the ML has already proven that he will kill for the FL if it meant protecting the FL and offending related people.

Thank you for these recs lanzhanya

 lanzhanya:
I don't remember if there were skinship but probably none to little?

And thank you for the warning! ^^

Watch Born Again its similar to what you are looking for, redemption arc, regret, melodrama.
ML ready to sacrifice his life to save FL's , 

Hmmmm okay I'm definitely watching this thread for other people's recs but let me see if I can think of any more...

  • Wonderland of Love: ML makes a major concession for the FL's sake later in the show iirc
  • Everlasting Longing: the ML is pretty whipped
  • Word of Honor: this ML pretty much neglects everything in his life for the sake of the main character BUT it's a censored BL so no kisses though I was surprised at how much physical and verbal affection they do show for each other
  • Dong Lan Xue: ML will not just kill for the FL, he would also stab himself just so that she will stay and take care of him
  • The Legends: a classic so perhaps you've already seen it. But the ML takes on a lot of pain and alienates most of his sect out of loyalty to the FL
  • +1 My Lady General: the ML really would kill for her and really wants to even when she tells him not to lmao
  • +1 Tale of the Nine-Tailed: ML would die for FL over and over
  • Love with Flaws: I have mixed feelings about this one but it does fit what you asked for, ML overhauls his life for the sake of the FL
  • Lovely Runner: another one you've likely already seen but definitely fits. The ML is devoted beyond all logic and reason
  • Miss Mystery: devoted anti-hero ML, super supportive of the FL's morally questionable schemes
  • Extremely Perilous Love: I don't remember how devoted the ML was but I'm pretty sure he does kill for the FL

Check my crazy-in-love MLs list for a few more examples, I think I've labeled particularly devoted and/or whipped MLs

 RSB:
a classic so perhaps you've already seen it.

Thank you for the recs RSB!

The Legends and Lovely Runner are among some of my favourite dramas and I will definitely be checking out the other recs in your list!