[Edit to add - sorry, I missed that you are asking specifically for cdramas. I will move the kdramas to the end of the response. My bad.]
Not my specialty, as I most frequently go for softer dramas. When I page through MDL lists of your interests, I mostly haven't seen the more intense examples of jealous/possessive MLs. But maybe you'll find something here:
CDRAMAS
Possessive and Whipped:
Amidst a Snowstorm of Love - ML Lin Yiyang falls hard at first sight and spends the whole drama hyperfocused on her. He's constantly trying to figure out her wants or needs and pivoting to fulfill them. He's pretty awkward, too, so sometimes he guesses wrong, but he doesn't dwell on his mistakes - just absorbs the new information and acts on it. It's fun to watch this drama conscious of the fact that no matter what she asks him to do, he does it. She doesn't realize it, and it's not about her taking advantage of him in any way. It's about him dedicating all his intention to her - except for when he's playing billiards, his lifelong hyperfocus. And there are rivals for the FL, and Lin Yiyang's reactions are way possessive. This drama enhances the romance all the way up to 11.
Possessive and Controlling and Toxic:
My Lethal Man - He's a fine example of a toxic ML. For example, there's some throat grabbing. This isn't a high budget drama, but it's intense and true to itself.
Possessive and Controlling:
Mysterious Love - Another lower budget drama that has a lot of integrity and does what it sets out to do. The ML isn't as toxic as the ML of My Lethal Man, but he's plenty dictatorial.
KDRAMAS
By Turns Toxic, Possessive and Whipped:
Don't Dare to Dream - The ML is a hyper-competitive, tortured guy who hates himself too much to be open to the FL's three-year one-sided crush. The way he initially treats her is Certified Toxic. But when he falls, he is oh so whipped. And she's started dating his best friend by that point, so this drama is basically a wealth of riches for you! It's alternate title is Jealousy Incarnate. This is a very funny, very biting comedy, with some extra hot kissing. What's truly wonderful about his character for you is that he doesn't become a wonderful green flag sweetie pie. Rather, he remains pretty darn egotistical and jealous. It's simply awesome to behold. Can't recommend highly enough if you like gnarly MLs, and you're okay with them residing in a romcom universe.
Possessive and Whipped:
Something About 1 Percent - CEO with a serious attitude. He's abrasive and a take charge guy in every way, except when he's being adorably whipped. This is a great, classic romcom. Contract relationship.