RainFlower wrote: no thats not what disparate means but lets leave this for now lol
Disparate= unequal, incongruent, dissimilar.
To me, opinions will be similar or dissimlar, thats fine. But when someone contradicts themselves, they are giving a contrasting opinion which is a similar word to disparate. :)
I mean is not used in that context and I know that, if that is what you mean.