I dont know about Korea necessary, but it seems their annoying in-laws are simmilar to where I'm from. If you're a girl and unlucky enough, you might want to please your in-laws (mainly the female ones), so like the mother, sister, and grandmother inlaw. For the boy its the same, but for the males. So if you're a dude, you try to please the father, grandfather and brother in law. Usually tho, it's the girl that suffers, because in these situations, they guys are usually busy with work, and can't do much to stop their families or to please their in-laws since they aren't there. Thsi isn't as common as it was in the past, since there are differences in understandings and stuff, but its not unexistant