And They Were *SURPRISE* Childhood Friends

A list of dramas where the main characters met or were friends as children, but one of them or both are either unaware, forgot, or were estranged. Dramas where they continue to best friends or connected(ex. Bad Buddy, Exclusive Fairytale) will not included. Dramas where they were seperated but both fully remember and recognize their past will also not be included(ex. Jun & Jun). In order to be included on this list there must be some sort of element of surprise.  I will also being including instances with bigger age gaps as well.  List and comments contains some SPOILERS.

I think that this is a rather funny and weird trope used to establish a notion of destined lovers or justify their connection, even though it often does little to impact the overall plot.

Pearly Oct 14, 2023
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  • 1000 Years Old

    1. 1000 Years Old

    Thai Drama - 2024, 12 episodes

  • ABO Desire

    2. ABO Desire

    Chinese Drama - 2025, 16 episodes

  • After Sundown

    3. After Sundown

    Thai Movie - 2023

    7.5

    Neither is aware. Quickly, revealed to MCs.

  • Alienoid 1

    4. Alienoid 1

    Korean Movie - 2022

    8.5
  • Alienoid: Return to the Future

    5. Alienoid: Return to the Future

    Korean Movie - 2024

    8.5
  • Blossoms in Adversity

    6. Blossoms in Adversity

    Chinese Drama - 2024, 40 episodes

    10
  • Castaway Diva

    7. Castaway Diva

    Korean Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

  • Cooking Crush: Uncut Version

    8. Cooking Crush: Uncut Version

    Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    Neither is aware. Quickly,  revealed to MCs.

    Although quickly acknowledged by both, they didn't realize they met first as children at Prem's Grandmother's resturant.

  • Cursed in Love

    9. Cursed in Love

    Japanese Drama - 2020, 8 episodes

    9.5

    Only one is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    FL lead is aware, but ML is not. Trope is used to establish tension as ML has a grudge against her hidden idenity.

  • FC Soldout

    10. FC Soldout

    Korean Drama - 2025, 8 episodes

    8.0
  • Head over Heels

    11. Head over Heels

    Korean Drama - 2025, 12 episodes

    10
  • Healer

    12. Healer

    Korean Drama - 2014, 20 episodes

    8.0

    Neither are aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Main characters parents were friends and they were childhood friends. However, FL loses her memories and ML doesn't make the connection. Parent's backstory and their bond is used as a driving force for the story and romance.

  • Hotel del Luna

    13. Hotel del Luna

    Korean Drama - 2019, 16 episodes

    9.0

    Neither are aware. Not revealed to MCs.

    Main characters met as children in their first life. Neither are aware. Used to make up for the misdirection(SPOILER, IF YOU KNOW, YOU KNOW) and establish "fated lovers" trope.

  • It's Okay to Not Be Okay

    14. It's Okay to Not Be Okay

    Korean Drama - 2020, 16 episodes

  • La Pluie

    15. La Pluie

    Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    9.0

    Neither are aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Main characters live next to each other exchanging notes and messages of encouragement without knowing each other's identities. Used to establish more romance especially considering the soulmate concept of the show. Deeper use than most on this list as it connects to both of character's struggles and growth.

  • Love Game in Eastern Fantasy

    16. Love Game in Eastern Fantasy

    Chinese Drama - 2024, 32 episodes

    10
  • Lovely Writer

    17. Lovely Writer

    Thai Drama - 2021, 12 episodes

    7.5

    Only one is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Main characters were childhood best friends as they get older they become estranged. When they meet again only one of them is aware. Major plotline as some deception was used and lack of communication.

  • Meeting You

    18. Meeting You

    Chinese Drama - 2020, 28 episodes

    8.5

    Neither is aware. Quickly, revealed to MCs.

  • Melody of Golden Age

    19. Melody of Golden Age

    Chinese Drama - 2024, 40 episodes

    8.5
  • Meow, the Secret Boy

    20. Meow, the Secret Boy

    Korean Drama - 2020, 24 episodes

  • Minato's Laundromat

    21. Minato's Laundromat

    Japanese Drama - 2022, 12 episodes

    Only one is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Main characters meet as teenager and child, respectively. Younger character remembers and older character does not recognize him.

  • Naughty Babe

    22. Naughty Babe

    Thai Drama - 2023, 8 episodes

    8.5

    Only one is aware. Revealed to MC.

    Main character forgets his childhood memories and when they first met. Used to establish tension and stakes between MLs. 

  • Oh! My Assistant

    23. Oh! My Assistant

    Korean Drama - 2022, 8 episodes

    7.5

    Only one is aware. Not revealed to MC.

    One of the main characters had a crush on the other in high school. Only one is aware.

  • Present, Is Present

    24. Present, Is Present

    Chinese Drama - 2024, 16 episodes

  • Reset

    25. Reset

    Thai Drama - 2025, 10 episodes

    8.0
  • See You in My 19th Life

    26. See You in My 19th Life

    Korean Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    8.5

    Only one is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    FL remembers past life where they were childhood friends. Used a driving force for the plot and is the whole motivation for romance and FL's actions

  • Serendipity

    27. Serendipity

    Chinese Drama - 2025, 40 episodes

  • Strong Woman Do Bong Soon

    28. Strong Woman Do Bong Soon

    Korean Drama - 2017, 16 episodes

    10

    Neither is aware.

    FL saved ML in high school. ML does't immediately recognize her and FL doesn't make the connection.

  • The Autumn Ballad

    29. The Autumn Ballad

    Chinese Drama - 2022, 34 episodes

  • The Demon Hunter's Romance

    30. The Demon Hunter's Romance

    Chinese Drama - 2025, 36 episodes

    9.5
  • The King's Affection

    31. The King's Affection

    Korean Drama - 2021, 20 episodes

    8.5

    Neither is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Main characters fall in love as children, but are seperated when FL has to pretend to be her twin brother. Served as a theme and secret throughout. Used to explain why ML falls in love with FL despite class differences and the belief that she is a man.

  • The Midnight Studio

    32. The Midnight Studio

    Korean Drama - 2024, 16 episodes

  • The Proper Way to Write Love

    33. The Proper Way to Write Love

    Japanese Drama - 2025, 8 episodes

  • The Sign

    34. The Sign

    Thai Drama - 2023, 12 episodes

    9.5

    Neither is aware. Quickly, revealed to MCs.

    Main leads met as children when Tharn saved Phaya from drowning. This is also implied as a destined meeting.

  • Tomorrow

    35. Tomorrow

    Korean Drama - 2022, 16 episodes

    9.0

    Only one is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    FL and her "love interest" met as children in her first life. Love interest has no memory of their first life. One of my favorite uses of the trope. While they met as children in their first life, they proceed to get married as adults. Show is not really a romance, but their episode of their past life is both heartbreaking and heartwarming. Decided to include this because the love interest lost the memory of it.

  • Triage

    36. Triage

    Thai Drama - 2022, 13 episodes

    9.0

    Neither is aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Met as children and one male lead saved the other from drowning.

  • What's Wrong with Secretary Kim

    37. What's Wrong with Secretary Kim

    Korean Drama - 2018, 16 episodes

    8.0

    One is not aware. Revealed to MCs.

    Major storyline is their connection in childhood as they promised to marry eachother. FL is not aware of her childhood friend's idenity. Used for dramatic effect and to drive "fated romance" trope.

  • When the Camellia Blooms

    38. When the Camellia Blooms

    Korean Drama - 2019, 40 episodes

    8.5

    Neither are aware.  Not revealed to MCs.

    Main characters meet as babies. Used to highlight the hypocrisy of the societal standards that is the main obstacle to the romance.

  • While You Were Sleeping

    39. While You Were Sleeping

    Korean Drama - 2017, 32 episodes

    8.5

    Neither is aware.

    Meet as children at a funeral home. Used to explain fortune telling mechanism in the story.

  • You're My Pet

    40. You're My Pet

    Japanese Drama - 2017, 16 episodes

    Only one is aware.

    Less of childhood friends, but more of FL lead met ML when he was a child. ML realizes the connection eventually during the show.

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