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it is not even 50/50 chance. the way she is now Gen. Ling gets a full time job to protecting her. he can forget about his revenge
looking forward part 2. how they fixed it

At least she didn't grow up to be some shallow nasty lady like those high rank ones.
it is coz they are high rank ones. with in there are rank they are ok

plz search mirage conduct in old china for upper social class. before thing about this.
he already protected her 1000 times more then her real parents fir whole life. really

did any one see what the Empress told to her own daughter, it easy to praise other daughter.

did u see what the empress said to her own daughter. it easy to praise other daughter but when it come to own it is not easy

Yet not only did they repeatedly disagree with the emperor, but they also destroyed their daughter's reputation so badly, that no decent offer of marriage, friendship, or status would ever be
a part of her life again had she not saved the family by agreeing to the marriage. She'd be lucky to be ignored by society but has made so many enemies, they set her up to be looked down on and bullied her for the rest of her life with their harsh reality check. The things they said would have been a social death sentence for her and an albatross around the family name as they have no real power other than that granted by the king. So LBY and NN saved that whole family because the emperor was about to emperorize them all. Yes, emperorize is not a word, but it fit the narrative. I will give you that what they did was in their belief that NN did not want the marriage and because they knew how much trouble, stress and danger they thought she would be in, but the way they went about it was wrong. They were walking off the edge of a cliff and if NN and LBY had not pressed on, they would have been ruined.

As for the comments of reproach against LBY for “forcing” NN to marry him. You see the woman you love mocked, scorned, abused, and with no protection not even by her own family, what would you do? Again and again, LBY has saved NN, shown her respect, and risked life, limb, and reputation to care for her. He is the emperor’s favorite. He is a feared general. He has power and honestly, with his name behind her, who will dare to come after her and not feel his wrath. Yao was weak as water and her reputation was already in tatters even before she broke the engagement with Yao. NN already had very little choice in marriage and at least he offered her something no one else did, continued care.

this area is problematic, only a power hungry parent will joy fully marry there daughter to person like LBY. think about it just for marring LBY, how much danger NN family will in. don't forget that happen to LBY mother family. how they reject that. when Emperor ask if they not think LBY worthy for NN, what ans they will give
i seen this kind situation in realty. when a upper-meddle class family came to marry low meddle class family. i don't know why parent always made there child look little.

Her grandmother and aunt did in fact do those things and should be punished. right, then u think the way she did it is right.
She is 15 for heaven's sake. in that age she developed 'cunning in the way she arranged' by use her parent in that way like they are some idiot.
do u want her to use her parent the way she did in early Eps again and again, her mother put an end to it, maybe little extreme, and we did not like it coz CSS in main character.
we might like it if she isn't a main character
i don't know what in book. She is smart and capable. but CSS is a very flawed character in a bad way

a self centered parson does not mean a bad parson, he or she can a good parson

then why people complaining for what her mother did.

she is only 15, what her mother bid is right then ever

what are u taking about, plz search mirage conduct in old china for upper social class. what LBY did is not only wrong, it is like CSS same kind property he must have

what happened in Ep24 it all LBY's felt, don't involve the Emperor, what ever the way they use they will be at felt. only way was if they said give us time to think about it
(but there wasn't that huge difference in social status) what are u saying, they have huge difference. do u see the way LBY made CSS mother stop, he can do that coz of social status. It's ancient time, that's why it's dangerous. don't u know what happened to LBY mothers family

ok. when 15 years old make right decision for themself. i dont know what will be in PART 2, or what is in the book, do u ever think just to marry LBY how much danger CSS family will be in
do u want her to use her parent the way she did in early Eps again and again, her mother put an end to it, maybe little extreme, and we did not like it coz CSS in mane character.

what happened in Ep24 it all LBY's felt. what will CSS mother and father say to Emperor, and CSS father just made General. do u see how CSS mother and father behave in front LBY just because of social status.
in this kind situation any parent made there own child look small. reputation is nothing
she has every right to punish her aunt and grandma, but for to do it, the way she used her parent that's a no no at any circumstance. she saw them first time for this she should wait. if her mother didn't stop her, she will do it again. and that began the refit between them. i understand she needed and wanted parent love. she never understand or try to understand why her mother did that. she is full herself, she know batter then any one. even in Ep24 we saw some of that, and for many reason i call CSS character self centered, those i not go to touch, i do, i can make a THESES out of this

no self centered person take every action from there self centered personality.
in past Ep we saw her compassionate site of personality, that's not mean she is full of compassion
what happened in Ep24 it all LBY's felt. what will CSS mother and father say to Emperor, and CSS father just made General. do u see how CSS mother and father behave in front LBY just because of social status.
in this kind situation any parent made there own child look small. reputation is nothing
she has every right to punish her aunt and grandma, but for to do it, the way she used her parent that's a no no at any circumstance. she saw them first time for this she should wait. if her mother didn't stop her, she will do it again. and that began the refit between them. i understand she needed and wanted parent love. she never understand or try to understand why her mother did that. she is full herself, she know batter then any one. even in Ep24 we saw some of that, and for many reason i call CSS character self centered, those i not go to touch, i do, i can make a THESES out of this

no self centered person take every action from there self centered personality.
in past Ep we saw her compassionate site of personality, that's not mean she is full of compassion

plz see E1 E2 E3 Scene by Scene

She is on survival mode seriously with this personality, by (E1) treeing to use her mother and father to punish grandmother and aunt, mocking her own father in E2. i understand some of her action is to do with survival mode

that why is saying. ' prob is the way LBY made the proposal. literally ordering the marriage. what will CSS mother and father say to Emperor, when LBY himself sit way over CSS mother and father social status'
no seriously what will CSS mother and father say to Emperor. LBY is not right for or not worth for CSS by offending Emperor and LBY. or to say hey Emperor look recently LBY offend some aristocratic family that's not good.
LBY did what he can do, he sit way over CSS mother and father social status, he has power to do what ever he want to do to CSS family.
in this kind situation any parent made there own child look small

prob is the way LBY made the proposal. literally ordering the marriage. what will CSS mother and father say to Emperor, when LBY himself sit way over CSS mother and father social status. one more thing, it seem like CSS character is very much self center, she things she know way batter then her mother and father. even in E1 CSS tried to use her mother and father to punish grandmother and aunt, even mocked her own father in E2. and now E24 she is same as E1