LydieO

and who thinks with her life she can age like a modern asian woman?

it's funny how you refuse to acknowledge you can have fear shame and these emotions can create a "bad" behavior, not take the best decision.

they are not toxic, atomatically, you can be afraid to speak because, shame, not no how to express your feeling without hurting someone. and where i say he doesnt have any reason to break up with her?

I didn't say it a good behavior, i said it's a normal behavior. normal in the meaning a lot of people act like that. no one say oh yes her behavior is good, well done but we can understand the difficulty.

very easy to say to your deaf boyfriend, i want you to hear and talk. so easy.

it's not about any misunderstanding in their relationship. it's about her and some part of her being where she needs to grow as all of us. In a lot of scenes we have sometimes it's him who walks in her direction sometimes it's her. They are not in phase. at the end it's both of them. the ML needs also to understand it's not because you are "normal" you don't have your own challenge. when he said i'm sorry to the other painter . I coudn't think about you. it's the same things for Moeun, because she was in pain (not for the relationship but for her past, she has a sadness in her eyes). the fact it's not a classic relationship, it's a catalyst you can't hide your problem with sex food, alcohol. it works at the beginning of the relationship not in this case. the director chooses the alone path with a breakup. it's maybe how they see it in Korea.

You are right but using a true tool because apply nvc IS not easy.

Funny term, Non-violent communication IS a tool developed by the psychologist Rosenberg.

you have the same behavior because you focus on what you think it's important and what you want to see. and Like her, you choose to see what confirms your theory.

for them, they are expert of Nonviolent Communication.

so they break up, she is sad. she talks with her friend about focusing on things he can't do for her and she felt lonely. and you says because it's after the break up, she must understand the problem instantly.

What? ok you don't understand something in the drama, it's not a linear timing. it's her reflexion about her behavior.

because she was afraid to express to him, your disability can be a problem for me. you really think it's easy to say that. she choose not to and she said she was a coward. you have the right not be perfect, to be afraid, to make mistake. i'm happy for you, you never make a mistake in your relationship, you always discuss everything with your partner, never afraid to express your doubts. but for a lot of people it's not easy because they doesn't know how the other can reacts, they are afraid to hurt him etc.

You don't always solve your problem together. You don't need to break up but some healings must be done alone.

do you watch the opening when she said she was a coward?

you? the you is the FL. you (the FL) not Emilia.

you can't play how she plays at the end. you can't connect to this space if you don't have it inside of you and express it. you can't.

so because they didn't discuss how you want, you decide to believe she didn't change. ok it's your point of view. not mine

she went to see him before, but she thinks he is not here. why k she went to his house for you?

because she needs to learn by herself. because she needs to realize love is not a fairytale. yes it's painful for her because she needs to let go some of her dreams, to choose her happiness and not a dream about how a relation must be. i don't feel when she said it's frustrating, she is horrible. she is not fluent and yes when you can't express yourself it's frustrating. you don't speak a foreign language and when you want to say something you don't find your word how do you feel? and it's an excellent exemple when you choose to focus on the negative you see only that you forget all positive aspects, they show us this part when they are together at the end, yes they a communicated very well. i don't understand why in this world if you do a mistake, you must atone. Jin whoo needs to heal also, the abandonment of his mother, ex and how people treats him. one year later they are ready to move. let them to be happy. i prefer more of happy ending moments but it's a poetic drama, with the rails, and finaly the i love you.