wow always easier to blame it on someone who's been with her since they were young.- Her dad found her address…
not absolute victim yes, but he's still a victim same as ajin.. now you said it.. he's still important to her.. but i don't think he ever brought her pain at all.. it's the bad circumstances around her that brought her pain..
yes most of what is happening to Ah Jin is related to him ---> NOPE
wow always easier to blame it on someone who's been with her since they were young.- Her dad found her address…
yes junseo silently help her agency and told the CEO that he wanted her to be part of his movie, bcoz he just wanted to simply help her to reach the top.. but he didn't force her to..since eps 1 until 7, never once he forced anything to her, it's always been him letting she did what she wanted.... just watch the scene on eps 7 where she discussed with inkang..she also put interest on the movie... it was her decision in the end.. she approached the director at the funeral..n next day,she had a meeting with the director, the director mentioned about the marriage rumor, then CEO miri said about inkang's wish to retire which made ahjin felt annoyed coz it'd be problem to her plan to rise the top.. that's why she went to inkang for breakup..coz her priority has always been about her being on the top..
the thing with Junseo confronting her is that room is that he wanted to know how was she doing so far.. he tried to dig out from CEO miri but she didn't gave him a definite answer.. he wanted to hear from Ahjin's own mouth.. coz she never answered him for over the year...he wanted to know if she's really happy or in love with inkang.. but instead answering him, she asked about his relationship with lena, is that jealousy or what? if she's truly happy with inkang, she should just tell him to back off coz she's eventually happy, like she did to him on eps 4.. but she left him hanging like that with no answer.. she's the one who promised him that she would date inkang for only a year... then she should be the one who answer that question..
you guys just want to tolerate her as much as you can coz u can't see her as a flawed character here who could do bad things towards good people...and projecting the blames on the other character..
he wants to protect her even when he knows she's hurting him or others.He is afraid to losing her. [ That's why…
If it were pure obsession, he would try to control her completely or force her to stay, but he never crosses that line. Instead, he respects her choices even when it hurts him, which actually points to love rather than possession.
I really think that Jun seo is Ah Jin's curse, he's always behind of all of her problems :- Her dad found her…
wow always easier to blame it on someone who's been with her since they were young.
- Her dad found her address because of Jun Seo's mom, i don't know how she found it but it thanks to Jun seo. Her dad started ruining her life again after that, making her loose her place at the university of her dreams.
you are not sure how his mom found it n yet you determined that it was coz of junseo..seriously? Junseo asked her to move from that OLD ADDRESS so the evil dad didn't find it out. but Ajin refused, coz she had plan to kill the dad off..
- She was happily living with In Gang and his family, but he did everything to make her comeback to him (by financing her agency in exchange of a projet with her). Because of that, Ah Jin's anniversary was a mess, the day she could have been fiancee with In Gang...
all Junseo wanted is her to be successful like she always wanted.. she has said to him on ep 4 that no matter what she wanted to go to the top...did you see how Ahjin was not happy when knowing about the marriage rumor? the director told her that the marriage rumor is not gonna be good to the movie? and asked her to sort it out? she was the one who eventually wanted to star in the movie, not forced by Junseo.. at outside of the funeral place, she was the one who approached the director.. and the director put interest in her.. that's when she decided want to star in the movie.
- She said that she didn't need them to do anything when the grandma died, he wanted the surveillance video. If he didn't take it, In Gang could have seen by himself that she didn't kill his grandma.
u know what? if ahjin really cared for inkang, she would be the one who told him the truth right at the funeral that she didn't push the grandma.. why would wait for him to see the CCTV footage? that's not needed..as u claimed she was happy with inkang..she could hv told him that she was with the grandma that day..and didn't she tell her full story to the police? and inkang didn't even know? (this kinda feel like a loophole tbh)
- He says that he wants her to be happy but he is the first bringing her pain. He just wants to be the one "saving" her, but to save her, she needs to need to be saved, which cannot happen if she's happy.
yes he's always been wanting her to be happy.. he even brought jaeo along so he could at least see her laugh .. and also when she said she wanted to learn to love inkang, he held it in and not went mad, she let her.. but she was the one who made promise to him that it was only a year, if she truly happy with inkang, then she needed to give him the closure so he wouldn't be left in the dark without knowing anything.. when he confronted her, instead of answering yes or not, she should hv told him right away, the reason of why she wanted keep staying with inkang.. she was not even so sure yet (not until the grandma died, it was solely coz of the grandma she stayed.)
how convenient of you to connect every of her tragic stories to junseo, all those happenings, from his dad, his mom, the stalker, with the grandma falling down and inkang's suicide got nothing to do with him. it's all those bad circumstances got on her way.. not caused by junseo...he didn't bring her pain.. but her surroundings are.. if he really bring her pain, SHE WOULD CUT HIM OFF FOR GOOD U KNOW... but see on eps 8.. she was still gaslighting him and making sure with the words said by her that he can't just escape her.."you're the first person i let to be by her side..."
you wanna defend her fine but don't project all the blame solely into junseo.. he was there from day 1 who took care of her.. protect her the way that he could..
he didn't know that's why he asked her.. ahjin the one who promised him "no worry, junseo ya.. i'll only date…
He probably tried to kiss her because he was desperate, scared, emotionally drowning, and trying to hold onto the one person who has shaped his entire emotional identity since they were kid.
tbh, ahjin should really let him go if she doesn't care about him at all.. but she keeps on playing his emotions..
Another love triangle shitshow? I love KYJ, great and talented actess...i will maybe watch just because of her,…
no love triangle. and u don't have to underestimate the actors like that.. geez. . without other characters, there won't be any stories to tell u know,,. and if you want only female center story.. without any male characters, u can watch the other dramas.
can someone who understands better please talk me through this. do junseo and jaeoh have lives on their own? it's…
junseo works as a novelist and pretty famous.. and also now working as a script writer and investor to entertainment world..(this is not on the webtoon) jaeo seems to be working as an errand boy in a private investigator office, but didn't show it that much in the drama.. but in webtoon, it does show..
you have to understand that junseo has been heavily influenced by Ahjin (manipulations and gaslights) since he was young and his mother didn't really care about him aside of his money...but he seems to be quite close with the grandpa though.... but his main focus is always about Ahjin.. coz he feels like he needs to protect her coz of his guilt ridden motivation since he was young.
as for jaeo, he's also manipulated by Ahjin, she was saying stuff like he's an useful person to her.. not someone who's trash.. he's worthy.. and for him, nobody ever said such thing to him., that's why he treats Ahjin like some sort of "GOD".. he kinda worships her and willing to help her with anything she needs..
junseo has turned obsessive. ajin told him that she’d date inkang for 1 year. why did he think she’d date…
he didn't know that's why he asked her.. ahjin the one who promised him "no worry, junseo ya.. i'll only date him for a year..." she never said "i won't tell you anything about my date with inkang, so you don't interfere me...get lost.."
Junseo was not rich in the webtoon version, and no grandpa story as well... he was rich AFTER he exposed ajin, he become a well known writer...
in the drama, he become rich after they parted way in eps 4..and he already is well known writer and even wrote scripts for movie (this isn't in the webtoon too)
so in webtoon version, ajin was the one who approached the rich CEO and found information about him, even meeting with his ex-wife. but drama version, it seems the rich CEO the one that approached her first..
what can we say that the production houses (cjnem & studio dragon) themselves put the romance on their description on most of their posts about dear x.
that's her greed that she can't suppress .. she'll be never satisfied.. and of coz seeing that way, she'll never…
i'm not a hater of the FL.. i pity her as much as i pity the ML.. but seeing how the most you keep on blaming the ML is not fair.. coz both turned this way is coz of the circumstances that made them both this way, blame should be falling to their bad parents.. why you all people just one sidedly only blame it all to the ML??
what wrong info about her that i gave left and right? it's more like you're all not understanding why the ML did what he did in the story.. he was indeed manipulated and gaslighted for his whole life to make him to act this way towards the FL.. the FL shaped him since young.. his world is all about her coz she was also the only person who cared for her since young that his mother never gave it to him.. it;s just made sense that how much he become dependent on her, even til the last episode 8, she still was gaslighting him, guilt trip him so he would feel guilty again and the more he couldn't leave.. n that was her purpose.. not making him leave..
she said "you could leave... but you know that you're the first person i let to stay by my side", how could he leave if she said something like that?
Many people assume that obsession or guilt drove Jun Seo's actions toward Ah Jin, but I see it differently. Obsession…
one thing for sure, what driven him to act this way is the guilt he felt since he was young shaped by ahjin (intentionally let his mom hurt her on the bathtub, in front of him) and the bad circumstance with his despicable mom..
He has always wanted her to live a normal life and be happy. But what I noticed in earlier episodes was that people didn’t want Ahjin to redeem herself at all, because to them she was a sociopath through and through. Now that she’s shown some humanity with the grandma incident, everyone suddenly cheers for her, ‘Oh, she actually has a conscience.’ But at the same time, they’re quick to blame Junseo for not believing her.
when he's the only one person who wanted her to live normal life, people blamed him, "she's not supposed to be saved! just let her be, leave her alone, she is what she is, no one change her.."
but then when he doubted her that she could just do thing to the grandma, coz he was the witness to her dad's death hence he doubted, but actually more like concerned of what she would do to another innocent people, they blamed him too, "why he didn't believe her? he claimed to know her so well.. but why he doubted her? see, she actually has some hope.. she could be better.."
cut him some slacks,people.. he has had enough too..
Honestly, I find that hypocritical
i also don't think he's that crazily obsessed type with her, considering that when she cut ties with him on eps 4.. he was in pain but stayed silent and not even bother her in those years.. then when she said to her she wanted to learn to love inkang, he was also in silent but in pain.. he endured that and didn't even contact her for a year.. he was just asking her coz she was the one who promised her that she would be done with inkang after a year.. he just needed to make sure what's up with her and inkang.. did she really happy? she should just answer him.. not let him hanging like that..
One of the weakest links of this show is ml's acting.
every other thousand of comments everywhere saying that he's so good in this drama, there's always 1-3 ppl like u who will nvr satisfy no matter how good he is. lol.. but okay.. i guess it's only just matter of preference..
tinggal 4 episode lagi 😭setelah ep 8, gue makin kasian sama Ahjin 😭 ngerasa bersalah juga karena udah suudzon…
gue jgn pgnnya ending dia lbh dibuat less suffering deh ama junseo jg dua2nya ini bnr2 korban banget dr kecil.. mrk berdua jd begitu jg bkn maonya mrk..
Can I say that I hate baek ah Jin so so much. She’s a manipulator final boss. Oh god, I’m so in raged, I always…
she was shaped by her very bad parents.. that's why she turned that way.. everytime she wanted a normal life,, the evil people keep on attacking her.. not that i want to defend or something, but just look from her POV..
now you said it.. he's still important to her.. but i don't think he ever brought her pain at all.. it's the bad circumstances around her that brought her pain..
yes most of what is happening to Ah Jin is related to him ---> NOPE
the thing with Junseo confronting her is that room is that he wanted to know how was she doing so far.. he tried to dig out from CEO miri but she didn't gave him a definite answer.. he wanted to hear from Ahjin's own mouth.. coz she never answered him for over the year...he wanted to know if she's really happy or in love with inkang.. but instead answering him, she asked about his relationship with lena, is that jealousy or what? if she's truly happy with inkang, she should just tell him to back off coz she's eventually happy, like she did to him on eps 4.. but she left him hanging like that with no answer.. she's the one who promised him that she would date inkang for only a year... then she should be the one who answer that question..
you guys just want to tolerate her as much as you can coz u can't see her as a flawed character here who could do bad things towards good people...and projecting the blames on the other character..
THISS!!
- Her dad found her address because of Jun Seo's mom, i don't know how she found it but it thanks to Jun seo. Her dad started ruining her life again after that, making her loose her place at the university of her dreams.
you are not sure how his mom found it n yet you determined that it was coz of junseo..seriously?
Junseo asked her to move from that OLD ADDRESS so the evil dad didn't find it out. but Ajin refused, coz she had plan to kill the dad off..
- She was happily living with In Gang and his family, but he did everything to make her comeback to him (by financing her agency in exchange of a projet with her). Because of that, Ah Jin's anniversary was a mess, the day she could have been fiancee with In Gang...
all Junseo wanted is her to be successful like she always wanted.. she has said to him on ep 4 that no matter what she wanted to go to the top...did you see how Ahjin was not happy when knowing about the marriage rumor? the director told her that the marriage rumor is not gonna be good to the movie? and asked her to sort it out? she was the one who eventually wanted to star in the movie, not forced by Junseo.. at outside of the funeral place, she was the one who approached the director.. and the director put interest in her.. that's when she decided want to star in the movie.
- She said that she didn't need them to do anything when the grandma died, he wanted the surveillance video. If he didn't take it, In Gang could have seen by himself that she didn't kill his grandma.
u know what? if ahjin really cared for inkang, she would be the one who told him the truth right at the funeral that she didn't push the grandma.. why would wait for him to see the CCTV footage? that's not needed..as u claimed she was happy with inkang..she could hv told him that she was with the grandma that day..and didn't she tell her full story to the police? and inkang didn't even know? (this kinda feel like a loophole tbh)
- He says that he wants her to be happy but he is the first bringing her pain. He just wants to be the one "saving" her, but to save her, she needs to need to be saved, which cannot happen if she's happy.
yes he's always been wanting her to be happy.. he even brought jaeo along so he could at least see her laugh .. and also when she said she wanted to learn to love inkang, he held it in and not went mad, she let her.. but she was the one who made promise to him that it was only a year, if she truly happy with inkang, then she needed to give him the closure so he wouldn't be left in the dark without knowing anything.. when he confronted her, instead of answering yes or not, she should hv told him right away, the reason of why she wanted keep staying with inkang.. she was not even so sure yet (not until the grandma died, it was solely coz of the grandma she stayed.)
how convenient of you to connect every of her tragic stories to junseo, all those happenings, from his dad, his mom, the stalker, with the grandma falling down and inkang's suicide got nothing to do with him. it's all those bad circumstances got on her way.. not caused by junseo...he didn't bring her pain.. but her surroundings are.. if he really bring her pain, SHE WOULD CUT HIM OFF FOR GOOD U KNOW... but see on eps 8.. she was still gaslighting him and making sure with the words said by her that he can't just escape her.."you're the first person i let to be by her side..."
you wanna defend her fine but don't project all the blame solely into junseo.. he was there from day 1 who took care of her.. protect her the way that he could..
tbh, ahjin should really let him go if she doesn't care about him at all.. but she keeps on playing his emotions..
and u don't have to underestimate the actors like that.. geez. . without other characters, there won't be any stories to tell u know,,. and if you want only female center story.. without any male characters, u can watch the other dramas.
jaeo seems to be working as an errand boy in a private investigator office, but didn't show it that much in the drama.. but in webtoon, it does show..
you have to understand that junseo has been heavily influenced by Ahjin (manipulations and gaslights) since he was young and his mother didn't really care about him aside of his money...but he seems to be quite close with the grandpa though.... but his main focus is always about Ahjin.. coz he feels like he needs to protect her coz of his guilt ridden motivation since he was young.
as for jaeo, he's also manipulated by Ahjin, she was saying stuff like he's an useful person to her.. not someone who's trash.. he's worthy.. and for him, nobody ever said such thing to him., that's why he treats Ahjin like some sort of "GOD".. he kinda worships her and willing to help her with anything she needs..
in the drama, he become rich after they parted way in eps 4..and he already is well known writer and even wrote scripts for movie (this isn't in the webtoon too)
so in webtoon version, ajin was the one who approached the rich CEO and found information about him, even meeting with his ex-wife.
but drama version, it seems the rich CEO the one that approached her first..
example:
https://x.com/studiodragonKR/status/1983368204358488414
https://x.com/studiodragonKR/status/1960635423560192114
coz both turned this way is coz of the circumstances that made them both this way, blame should be falling to their bad parents.. why you all people just one sidedly only blame it all to the ML??
what wrong info about her that i gave left and right?
it's more like you're all not understanding why the ML did what he did in the story..
he was indeed manipulated and gaslighted for his whole life to make him to act this way towards the FL.. the FL shaped him since young.. his world is all about her coz she was also the only person who cared for her since young that his mother never gave it to him.. it;s just made sense that how much he become dependent on her, even til the last episode 8, she still was gaslighting him, guilt trip him so he would feel guilty again and the more he couldn't leave.. n that was her purpose.. not making him leave..
she said "you could leave... but you know that you're the first person i let to stay by my side", how could he leave if she said something like that?
He has always wanted her to live a normal life and be happy. But what I noticed in earlier episodes was that people didn’t want Ahjin to redeem herself at all, because to them she was a sociopath through and through. Now that she’s shown some humanity with the grandma incident, everyone suddenly cheers for her, ‘Oh, she actually has a conscience.’ But at the same time, they’re quick to blame Junseo for not believing her.
when he's the only one person who wanted her to live normal life, people blamed him, "she's not supposed to be saved! just let her be, leave her alone, she is what she is, no one change her.."
but then when he doubted her that she could just do thing to the grandma, coz he was the witness to her dad's death hence he doubted, but actually more like concerned of what she would do to another innocent people, they blamed him too, "why he didn't believe her? he claimed to know her so well.. but why he doubted her? see, she actually has some hope.. she could be better.."
cut him some slacks,people.. he has had enough too..
Honestly, I find that hypocritical
i also don't think he's that crazily obsessed type with her, considering that when she cut ties with him on eps 4.. he was in pain but stayed silent and not even bother her in those years..
then when she said to her she wanted to learn to love inkang, he was also in silent but in pain.. he endured that and didn't even contact her for a year.. he was just asking her coz she was the one who promised her that she would be done with inkang after a year.. he just needed to make sure what's up with her and inkang.. did she really happy? she should just answer him.. not let him hanging like that..
not that i want to defend or something, but just look from her POV..