lol, sadly That’s just the Asian mom’s thing. they believed in “if you hate someone, gives sweets, if you…
I'm sorry to hear that but this is unacceptable especially from the mother she need to be supportive and make her daughter love herself and never make her feel she less than others we are all equal rether than the brain washing that transported from old generations just because the other have different features means she's better! And as you say you build defense and don't care anymore about those rude horrible people who don't have right to judges u ! and you start to think it's ordinary and normal in Asia but it's not no one have right to judge u we back to the point the mother is the basic who can change everything it's sensitive things to girl and never heal with time we only ignore it even for me i doesn't have perfect mother too i hope we could be better mothers in the future ,, Also In the other side we have ma syi she's orphan and her mother is horrible but she wasn't next to her or effect her with her bad mentality she was surrounded with kind grandma alway tell her nice words and everyone adore her beauty from she was young because she's (mixed) foreign features they treat her like a treasure and because they feel sorry for her and give her all of attention until and if we think all of them have a horrible parents alway fighting it's not a big difference between them, she's confident and knows she's a beautiful (people attention make her more sure) and she think everyone love her she's not defensive and believes in herself she can do what she want That how people around us especially the one you lived with can build basic or destroy u.
Wang he for me he is another copy of his father he want to act as superhero and want to help anyone need helps and want to help his family and changes thier situation the most and i don't feel he have any romantic feelings to anyone yet he only want to be responsible and helps i don't feel he have feeling for fanghua yet she's a supportive friend to him and ma syi he doesn't have feeling for her too he only feel sorry for her and want to help her superhero syndrome he only want to leave and change his life even he don't believe in himself sometimes this drama really focuses on parents effect in thiere children they are all mirrors to thier parents. This drama will open many eyes about details that we think it's ok but it's have a big effect later it's a good lesson for me 👍
I'm in episodes 7 and found some people love and appreciate fangh hua mom !!! She amazing in carrying responsibility but her way to build her daughter character was horrible for me she always give her horrible answers when she ask her mother who's more beautiful she start like how you compare yourself with masyi this answer reach to fang hua mind even if she say beautiful words later to make her happy but her words look fake now even if she smile for her mom later in ep 7 that i watch today when fanghua who doesn't believe she's beautiful or have any apportunity from the brain washing she received from she was child from knowing her parents preferred a boy rather than having girl until now random man loved her face and ask her to be model she was so happy and she even tell masyi about that to help her when she back to home tell her mom about that she 2nd time gives her disgusting answer she told her what i f he choose masyi rether than you another indirect answer you're not enough this answer could make fanghua toxic personality and hate syi but no she only believed she's not enough and could gives this opportunity to syi because she deserve it more.than her In the end we have fanghua with tomboyish carchter to please her family who wants a boy more she doesn't believe in herself she believes in others more than herself she's a giver person 💔 who will always use defensive mechanism she's cool,carefree ,defensive only if she stay away from her mom and people around her she will build her personality perfctly without any effect on her she will find herself and build her personality but she will never heal completely from her child trauma never heal will effect her mentality and health .
I personally feel fenghua's character bit annoying at times, like when she's too much arrogant sometimes and not…
Because she's sensitive and doesn't received much love to make her confident and eccept other if you focused from the start everyone around her always give bitter sweet answer and never give her complete attention or love even herself when she have modling apportunity she was happy but if you remember her mom answer make her believe in her mind she not enough and she doesn't deserve it and she will give the chance for syi sh,,with time you will make defensive mechanism she will act cool ,arrogant and can do everything alone to never feel disappointed and keep her broken feeling to herself They focused on a lot of detailed points in this drama i can relate to many of them i hope she will heal in the next episodes and eccept herself and start to love herself more.
Also, this might be an unpopular opnion but I kinda like both men - Wanghe and Chen Rui (correct me if this name…
And for masiyi i feel she will have love story with gzhao ting the one she talk with him with moris but they make Xie Wang He look impressed with her because she has forginer features in the start it's really important point because a lot of Chinese and many countries get impressed with foreigner features it's something different for them but it's not love he will know his feeling later he only focuses on his future and make his family live in better situation let's see what happened later .
Also, this might be an unpopular opnion but I kinda like both men - Wanghe and Chen Rui (correct me if this name…
What why she doesn't need love in her story just because she carefree and wild doesn't mean she doesn't have feelings she most one sensitive and most need big love in this story to make her feel her balance woman.
And also Shao Xing Chi has crash on XiaFengHua the most it's clear from the ep3 and 4 i hope the don't break my heart 😭 i already loves thier relationship 💗
I'm exited for ep5 Ok😁 I'm really curious about the love story developing between XiaFengHua and Xie Wang He the most i feel xiafenghua have crash already on him but she try to denying her feeling she like her personality
Why xukai fans still obsessed with bailu? And love to spread a lie and rumors about her they still trash even…
It's better for you to focus on your favorite better than been obsessed and barking under his previous costats drama 😂 you even search and care about bailu more than your favorite xukai your insecurity is at the maximum level 🤣🤣🤣
Why xukai fans still obsessed with bailu? And love to spread a lie and rumors about her they still trash even…
In china it's equal when a man reach 40 he rarely to act as first lead he will be the 2nd billing with more popular youngr actress 😀 so all actors need to be on stable level before 30 and need to have several hit drama in thier archives and xukai doesn't have nothing and he's in 30 as 2 nd billing for all of his drama and ofcourse i will not compare bailu with xukai they are big different level 😌👋
Also In the other side we have ma syi she's orphan and her mother is horrible but she wasn't next to her or effect her with her bad mentality she was surrounded with kind grandma alway tell her nice words and everyone adore her beauty from she was young because she's (mixed) foreign features they treat her like a treasure and because they feel sorry for her and give her all of attention until and if we think all of them have a horrible parents alway fighting it's not a big difference between them, she's confident and knows she's a beautiful (people attention make her more sure) and she think everyone love her she's not defensive and believes in herself she can do what she want
That how people around us especially the one you lived with can build basic or destroy u.
In the end we have fanghua with tomboyish carchter to please her family who wants a boy more she doesn't believe in herself she believes in others more than herself she's a giver person 💔 who will always use defensive mechanism she's cool,carefree ,defensive only if she stay away from her mom and people around her she will build her personality perfctly without any effect on her she will find herself and build her personality but she will never heal completely from her child trauma never heal will effect her mentality and health .
They focused on a lot of detailed points in this drama i can relate to many of them i hope she will heal in the next episodes and eccept herself and start to love herself more.
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