With the release of VOS approaching, I would like to share some of my thoughts šWe all know there's going to…
Yes well said I really wish all of JJYās fans could read and understand this, because we truly shouldnāt waste our time replying to haters. Giving them attention is exactly what they want, and when we stop responding, they will eventually get tired of barking on their own. At the end of the day, negativity fades when it isnāt fed.
We should focus on supporting JJY, spreading positivity, and enjoying her work instead of letting unnecessary comments affect us. Iām honestly really looking forward to Luwuyi, and Iām confident she will deliver both stunning visuals and amazing acting. She always proves herself through her work, and thatās what really matters. Sending love and support always šš
i have been supporting mingkyung for a long time and I gotto say i am tired of seeing her like this ...yes she…
I completely agree with you. Supporting someone for a long time doesnāt mean blindly excusing every action, and itās honestly painful to watch her keep hurting herself like this. Yes, sheās younger and immature, and yes, an 8-year relationship is not something you just erase overnightābut that still doesnāt justify chasing someone who clearly shows zero respect or interest.
Talking only works when both people want to talk. When one side has already emotionally checked out, made couple rings with someone else, and shown no concern for how much pain they caused, there is nothing left to āfix.ā Thatās not closure, thatās self-harm disguised as hope. And youāre absolutely rightāsomeone who moved on that fast is already way past the point of return. Even if they did get back together, what kind of relationship would that be? One built on insecurity, disrespect, and constant fear of being replaced again.
Itās frustrating because the signs are all there. He made her cry, physically and emotionally pushed her away, and still canāt offer basic respect now. If he canāt treat her well at her lowest, thereās no reason to believe things would magically improve if they reunited. Wanting another chance doesnāt change who he is.
She really needs to stop reacting emotionally every time and take a step back, like you saidāsit down and actually think about why they broke up in the first place. Love alone is not enough, especially when respect is missing. Crying, throwing tantrums, and fighting for someone who doesnāt want you only strips away your own dignity.
So no, itās not about āmoving on fast.ā Itās about protecting yourself, recognizing your worth, and not begging for love from someone who has already chosen someone else. As a supporter, itās exhausting to watch, and your frustration is completely valid.
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We should focus on supporting JJY, spreading positivity, and enjoying her work instead of letting unnecessary comments affect us. Iām honestly really looking forward to Luwuyi, and Iām confident she will deliver both stunning visuals and amazing acting. She always proves herself through her work, and thatās what really matters. Sending love and support always šš
Talking only works when both people want to talk. When one side has already emotionally checked out, made couple rings with someone else, and shown no concern for how much pain they caused, there is nothing left to āfix.ā Thatās not closure, thatās self-harm disguised as hope. And youāre absolutely rightāsomeone who moved on that fast is already way past the point of return. Even if they did get back together, what kind of relationship would that be? One built on insecurity, disrespect, and constant fear of being replaced again.
Itās frustrating because the signs are all there. He made her cry, physically and emotionally pushed her away, and still canāt offer basic respect now. If he canāt treat her well at her lowest, thereās no reason to believe things would magically improve if they reunited. Wanting another chance doesnāt change who he is.
She really needs to stop reacting emotionally every time and take a step back, like you saidāsit down and actually think about why they broke up in the first place. Love alone is not enough, especially when respect is missing. Crying, throwing tantrums, and fighting for someone who doesnāt want you only strips away your own dignity.
So no, itās not about āmoving on fast.ā Itās about protecting yourself, recognizing your worth, and not begging for love from someone who has already chosen someone else. As a supporter, itās exhausting to watch, and your frustration is completely valid.