i have been supporting mingkyung for a long time and I gotto say i am tired of seeing her like this ...yes she…
I completely agree with you. Supporting someone for a long time doesn’t mean blindly excusing every action, and it’s honestly painful to watch her keep hurting herself like this. Yes, she’s younger and immature, and yes, an 8-year relationship is not something you just erase overnight—but that still doesn’t justify chasing someone who clearly shows zero respect or interest.
Talking only works when both people want to talk. When one side has already emotionally checked out, made couple rings with someone else, and shown no concern for how much pain they caused, there is nothing left to “fix.” That’s not closure, that’s self-harm disguised as hope. And you’re absolutely right—someone who moved on that fast is already way past the point of return. Even if they did get back together, what kind of relationship would that be? One built on insecurity, disrespect, and constant fear of being replaced again.
It’s frustrating because the signs are all there. He made her cry, physically and emotionally pushed her away, and still can’t offer basic respect now. If he can’t treat her well at her lowest, there’s no reason to believe things would magically improve if they reunited. Wanting another chance doesn’t change who he is.
She really needs to stop reacting emotionally every time and take a step back, like you said—sit down and actually think about why they broke up in the first place. Love alone is not enough, especially when respect is missing. Crying, throwing tantrums, and fighting for someone who doesn’t want you only strips away your own dignity.
So no, it’s not about “moving on fast.” It’s about protecting yourself, recognizing your worth, and not begging for love from someone who has already chosen someone else. As a supporter, it’s exhausting to watch, and your frustration is completely valid.
People seriously need to stop bringing up the LITC drama everywhere. If you can’t move on from that drama, then just go and rewatch it no one is stopping you from doing that. But constantly commenting about it under every post is unnecessary. Please try to respect the other actors as well, because they worked just as hard for their roles and for this drama. It’s unfair to dismiss their effort just because you’re stuck on LITC. If you personally don’t want to watch this drama because of that, then simply don’t watch it. There’s no need to ruin the experience for others who genuinely want to enjoy it
The way those guys are fighting over the FL is honestly so funny 😹 especially Yang Ding and He xing . They’re really out here arguing and competing like she’s going to choose one of them🤣
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Talking only works when both people want to talk. When one side has already emotionally checked out, made couple rings with someone else, and shown no concern for how much pain they caused, there is nothing left to “fix.” That’s not closure, that’s self-harm disguised as hope. And you’re absolutely right—someone who moved on that fast is already way past the point of return. Even if they did get back together, what kind of relationship would that be? One built on insecurity, disrespect, and constant fear of being replaced again.
It’s frustrating because the signs are all there. He made her cry, physically and emotionally pushed her away, and still can’t offer basic respect now. If he can’t treat her well at her lowest, there’s no reason to believe things would magically improve if they reunited. Wanting another chance doesn’t change who he is.
She really needs to stop reacting emotionally every time and take a step back, like you said—sit down and actually think about why they broke up in the first place. Love alone is not enough, especially when respect is missing. Crying, throwing tantrums, and fighting for someone who doesn’t want you only strips away your own dignity.
So no, it’s not about “moving on fast.” It’s about protecting yourself, recognizing your worth, and not begging for love from someone who has already chosen someone else. As a supporter, it’s exhausting to watch, and your frustration is completely valid.