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yunshu father was son of lady rong and married a maid i guess and the other three yunxi ,yu e , and the brother r of the concubines kids of rong shangbaos fathers . i am not sure cause they only gave us some hints at it

A lot of viewers were teenagers when they watched those older dramas. Now that they’re adults, they can finally recognize the pattern and the power imbalance for what it is. Growing up means gaining awareness noticing something now doesn’t make it hypocritical, it means people have matured enough to question what was normalized before. Saying “this has happened in so many dramas, where were you before?” is exactly the problem. The fact that it’s been common for years doesn’t make it okay it shows how normalized and desensitized people have become. Harmful industry practices don’t stop being questionable just because audiences were quiet or unaware before. People are allowed to grow, notice patterns, and finally speak up. It also highlights why teenagers often don’t question these portrayals their brains are still developing, especially when it comes to risk assessment and power dynamics. Many of us only recognize the issue now because we’re adults with more perspective, not because the issue is new.

now love hate will begin i guess between the mains

i recommended and that person said those women r pathetic and annoying that person in general hates women having authority and also harem drama as women focused so they hate it 😂and it turned out to be a man . like this drama hurt his ego so bad that he was being so insistent on proving that female lead is a wh*re . but it turned out that person did not even watch the show was only spouting after watching some TikTok’s and all 😂

You’re still interpreting female initiative as promiscuity, even though nothing is shown. This is a matriarchal setting where men marry in, so the FL having social and romantic agency is intentional. If watching a woman lead, initiate, and not center male pride feels frustrating, then the issue isn’t ‘double standards’ it’s that this premise isn’t written to validate male dominance. also why it’s giving male lonely epidemic .It’s strange how you skip most of the plot but hyper-focus on interpreting the FL’s desire as promiscuity. That says more about how you view female agency than about what the drama actually shows.

Like I was fighting some people who were asking for equality for the men characters like they were saying so much double standard in the drama cause female lead got many options 😂 like bruh that person seemed so bitter that she got options and men fighting for her and the authority being in the women’s hand that person was so bitter just like some TikTok male lonely epidemic

Mr bai ying sheng is gonna get his heartbroken I guess 😭 cause before she said she would only marry someone powerfull

this show is matriarchal so female lead will be above it’s obvious and all the other men in that show r just being bitter about it that they have to bow to a women and bear this humiliation cause that’s matriarchal and the boy marries into their family so I guess ur preference won’t be shown

including He Xing Ming having their own agenda. The FL’s interactions with He Xing Ming were purely plot-driven to uncover the killer, not romantic. I get that you mostly focus on the romance between FL and ML, but skipping the other threads can make the plot seem like it’s just about romance. So all the talk about ‘double standards’ or FL ‘sleeping around’ is based on spoilers, selective viewing, and assumptions, not what’s actually shown in the episodes.
The ML only seems subservient early on because he forgot his identity and was infiltrating the Rong family to solve the wife case he needed FL’s sympathy for the plan, which backfired, not because of gender double standards. and noone is second lead cause female lead doent even give them benefit of the doubt that they have chance with her and everyone is scheming for their own agenda including male lead and if u like patriarchy and not matriarchy cause this drama is matriarchy so u can watch patriarchy where everything is male dominated if ur preference is male dominated

You keep asking about a ‘double standard,’ but your so-called examples are based on spoilers, clips, and assumptions — not what actually happens in the aired episodes. Criticizing FL agency while calling a loyal ML a simp is exactly what makes your argument ridiculous and inconsistent.

Up to the current episodes, the FL hasn’t slept with anyone, and the ML hasn’t been with her either he didn’t even know who he was at that time. The rednote scene you’re talking about is from future episodes. The brief past fling in Ep 1 is the only thing shown. Honestly, the show isn’t even focused only romance it’s mostly about business, intrigue, and solving mysteries. Everything you’re claiming about ‘sleeping for pleasure’ and double standards is based on spoilers or assumptions, which clearly shows you haven’t actually watched the show. And like he did not reject her cause he was innocent he just was afraid that he would be from a bad background which will affect the fl until he remembered if u watched the show u would have known the dialogues they shared with each other at that moment and he would have become her husband she only said cause nothing is permanent like how much divorce and fallout happens between couples even if they love eachother because of other circumstances.

and from what u r typing it seems like u just watched those 1st episodes 1 minute scene and jumped right in the comment section. You’re against FLs having options, but you don’t criticize emperors with harems only the women around them. That’s not equality, that’s selective standards.

what in the heck r u talking about and why ur putting spoiler tags to this nonsense which aint even making any sense if u dont like reverse harem you can go and watch harem genre of palace

grandma please let her marry everyone of them main husband could be the male lead and other concubine 🤭 why cant it be polyandry

also that maid is the women related to the case to whom female lead is hiding

i think female lead knows that he remembered or i think she is being suspicious about his motive now why he came to rong family

its like a prodigy she has to not learn anything about tea and can still know very much about tea like they said it begin at the age of three and for rong shagbao she was taught by others and it did not occur to her naturally cause she learned it.

i think grandma or yan bailuo killed yang dingchen seems like he is here for revenge

I came for Wang duo and fell for male lead character 😭

it does make sense cause look xiaoyao being a half demon and human . she will great dragon i guess