Minge! I really like her savage side. She knows exactly how to put people in their place and not let anyone talk down to her. The last scenes of episode 4 were so good🤣She was strong, confident, and handled everything perfectly 👏👏
This show is really interesting! I enjoyed the first two episodes a lot. From the spoilers, it looks like Yang Ting and Zhao Enda might become a CP. They totally give handsome boy × cute girl vibes. I really hope the rumor is true🤩❤️
Yep having high background matter than acting skills which is honestly a little sad Still her latest drama Gemin did so well in China true talent always finds its way to shine Even without a big agency or powerful backing she managed to capture people’s hearts with her performance. I really hope this success opens more doors for her
After watching two of her dramas I honestly don’t understand why she’s not in longer drama She’s so effortlessly beautiful and such a natural actress she deserves way more love and recognition🥹
Hi, I come in peace, just sharing my thoughts lol. I don't think he's solely looking for similarities rather he…
don’t think Chen is as focused on “compatibility” or shared values as it seems you can see from his actions that he’s just as swayed by feelings and attraction as anyone else. If it were really about long-term suitability, he wouldn’t have been so moved by Ailin in the first place. That spark wasn’t “fleeting,” it was real, and brushing it off as just intensity vs. love feels a bit dismissive.
Also, differences in a relationship aren’t automatically a red flag. A lot of strong couples thrive because they balance each other out. Compatibility doesn’t mean being on the same wavelength in every category it means being willing to grow and adapt with each other. If he couldn’t do that with Ailin, maybe it says more about him than about their “differences.”
As for Yuan, yes she’s mature, but maturity doesn’t erase the fact that she’s still younger and at a different stage in life. Saying that makes her “perfect” for him feels like oversimplifying. Just because someone understands you doesn’t necessarily mean they’re the right partner sometimes that comfort comes at the cost of passion or growth.
So I think Chen might be rationalizing his choices more than genuinely prioritizing values. And honestly, that’s part of why the whole situation feels messy because it’s less about deep compatibility and more about him being confused and unsure what he actually wants.
Oh look Sigmung Freud entered the chat. All that pompous mental gymnastic to say you're mad, pathetic and have…
Woow the projection here is off the charts. You’re twisting words and throwing accusations around because you ran out of actual arguments. I don’t need to repeat myself or resort to personal attacks — your own comments are doing a great job of showing everyone the kind of energy you’re bringing into this space.
You keep claiming I’m “invested” or “seeking validation,” but ironically you’re the one writing paragraph after paragraph trying to convince strangers you’ve won some imaginary battle. If disagreeing with you means I must be “toxic🙄
At the end of the day, we’re talking about a TV show. You should try remembering that before you start going after other commenters like it’s a personal crusade.
Oh look Sigmung Freud entered the chat. All that pompous mental gymnastic to say you're mad, pathetic and have…
Honestly, reading your message, it seems like the childishness and anger you’re accusing others of is really just a reflection of your own behavior. Pointing fingers while acting this way doesn’t make you mature or insightful it makes you come across as defensive and irrational. Maybe take a step back before throwing accusations, because right now, it’s hard to see anything other than your own frustration.
Oh look Sigmung Freud entered the chat. All that pompous mental gymnastic to say you're mad, pathetic and have…
Wait… am I the mad one or you are ? 🤣🤣🤣😭 What made you so mad? Did I say something against your favorites? Can’t people just have their own opinions in peace? You seem to be arguing with everyone who thinks differently. By the way, how old are you? 🤧
i want to boldly say this but some people will attack me and I’m going to mute this later but personally i think, she already reached stability in life, emotionally too. thus her vision in finding partner already solid, she’s clear in what she’s looking for. while he’s not. he’s far from that. he’s not ready to settle down anytime soon. and that’s totally okay too. he’s still in his late 20s, men usually reached wisdom and maturity when they’re in 30s. he still working on his courage afterall he acknowledged his insecurities too. the attractions are obviously there, but one-sided efforts won’t worked in relationship. if he thinks similarities is much more important, boy, you haven’t experienced much in life yet. no one is compatible to begin with, to make a relationship between two strangers worked, to grow together, you need to adjust to other person, doing it together. if you solely rely on similarities, what if one day a person changed? do you just ditch them as they no longer what you expect? either way, he choose someone young, who still have a long long long way ahead. i watched dating shows for years now, and i don’t want to say it but we all know how it usually happened in next few years. (…otw to mute this 🙌)
watched some clips on TikTok and decided to give it a chance it’s surprisingly good The fl is not weak and knows how to handle her husband Enjoying every episode of this drama
than acting skills which is honestly a little sad Still her latest drama Gemin did so well in China true talent always finds its way to shine Even without a big agency or powerful backing she managed to capture people’s hearts with her performance. I really hope this success opens more doors for her
Also, differences in a relationship aren’t automatically a red flag. A lot of strong couples thrive because they balance each other out. Compatibility doesn’t mean being on the same wavelength in every category it means being willing to grow and adapt with each other. If he couldn’t do that with Ailin, maybe it says more about him than about their “differences.”
As for Yuan, yes she’s mature, but maturity doesn’t erase the fact that she’s still younger and at a different stage in life. Saying that makes her “perfect” for him feels like oversimplifying. Just because someone understands you doesn’t necessarily mean they’re the right partner sometimes that comfort comes at the cost of passion or growth.
So I think Chen might be rationalizing his choices more than genuinely prioritizing values. And honestly, that’s part of why the whole situation feels messy because it’s less about deep compatibility and more about him being confused and unsure what he actually wants.
You keep claiming I’m “invested” or “seeking validation,” but ironically you’re the one writing paragraph after paragraph trying to convince strangers you’ve won some imaginary battle. If disagreeing with you means I must be “toxic🙄
At the end of the day, we’re talking about a TV show. You should try remembering that before you start going after other commenters like it’s a personal crusade.