Harshitamehta

WHY DID THE SML AND FL KISS??
If anyone know do tell me cuz I still can't figure it out lol. Even if she was drunk or whtever I don't see why there was a need for a kiss.

Yeah, ikr, this story is really not my type!
The male lead is emotionally cheating and the female lead is physically cheating. They really portrayed the male lead as the bad one in the previous episode, and now it's the female lead's turn.
I usually like healthy relationship dramas or dating shows. I want to giggle, smile, and enjoy cute moments. That's why I started this drama because I thought it would be somewhat like that, but I was wrong.

And you're right, I'm with you on the male lead leading the second female lead on. It's really wrong. I don't care if he thinks of her like a sister, but the closeness between them can easily give the SFL the wrong idea because of how nice and comfortable he is with her. I also didn't like how he never told Mido that he spent the first snow with her and the whole story behind it. I only talked about the female lead because I just watched Episode 5 and was ranting. Otherwise, I know both characters are making bad choices, or maybe they're just not right for each other.

But what I still don't understand is why Mido would kiss the second lead. The message they're showing feels so wrong when it comes to relationships. I understand the idea of people growing apart, love burning out, and all that. I get that point. But they could've just let the couple break up. These cheating storylines really don't sit right with me. I know it's just a drama, and I know cheating is wrong, but a lot of younger viewers watch these dramas too. Maybe I know it's wrong, but not everyone will see it that way. A lot of people still think cheating is okay, and that's not true at all.
I've seen some of my friends get cheated on in real life, so maybe that's why this bothers me more. I just feel like if they wanted to show people falling out of love, they could've done it in a healthier way and spread a more positive message. But it's their story and their choice in the end. I'm just sharing my opinion, that's all.

At this point, the director is just playing with our emotions. 😭 Because what do you mean you showed the male lead as the bad guy in the previous episode, and now you're making the female lead a cheater? I really don't understand why Mido would even kiss the second lead lol.

Uhm that wasn't what happened
The director could've just let them break up first, and then if the kiss between the female lead and second lead happened, it would've been much better.
Because why would Mido even kiss him in the first place? I seriously don't understand.

So, I'll tell you, I've been in a long-term relationship and we're just university students right now. We plan to get married maybe after 7–8 years. We communicate with each other, and even if we fight, we always resolve it. But watching this drama is giving me stress for no reason lol. The show's direction is so bad. They didn't have to include the cheating. The director could've just let them break up first, and then if the kiss between the female lead and second lead happened, it would've been much better. Because why would Mido even kiss him in the first place? I seriously don't understand. And there are so many misunderstandings and no communication between the leads. It's killing me. They were friends first and then started dating. So don't friends usually share things with each other? I thought that's how a friends-to-lovers couple is supposed to be.

At this point, the plot feels so toxic. I want to keep watching because I love the lead actors individually, but the story is really not my type. I don't even know what's going to happen next. And why are both leads so close to the second leads? Like, I have so many questions. What the heck is even happening? lol

Okay, putting everything aside, I’ll be honest — I never felt like Yuer truly liked either Hewen or Xilun. To me, it seemed like she liked the idea of liking Hewen because he was proactive and gave her reassurance when she needed it. The same thing happened with Xilun; she started liking him because he was always pursuing her.

Ofc, there are things that happen behind the cameras, and we can never fully know what a person is really like. But from what I saw on screen, it felt like she wasn’t putting in the same effort. Both guys gave her lots of gifts, while she only gave one thing to Xilun. And honestly, it’s not even about the gifts themselves. It’s about thinking, “Oh, you mentioned you liked this, so I got it for you,” or doing small things to show you care. Most of the other couples, or even the people who were still getting to know each other, made efforts from both sides. For Yuer, I understand that she may be a slower person when it comes to feelings, but keeping two guys hanging until the finale just didn’t sit right with me. If she was really that stressed and unsure, then maybe not choosing anyone would have been a better option. What also makes me sad is how much hate both guys are getting because of this. People keep calling one “double chin” and the other “blinky” as if they don’t have actual names. Both of them had very different personalities, and I genuinely think they did their best. One of my favorite moments was their conversation at the end and how they encouraged each other. It was really mature and wholesome.

There were also moments where I felt she made both of them uncomfortable. Like, when they were choosing the Thailand package and one preferred Package 2 while the other preferred Package 3. Both of them kept assuring her to choose according to her own needs, but she still asked Hewen to come. I understand her feelings, but I also think it’s important to consider how the others might feel in that situation.

And yesss, yayayay! I’m so happy for the other couples. My favorite sunshine couple — YiKayi. My stable couple who made me giggle so much — Yangfang. And of course, the twins’ couples, Siyi and Bo-Xing. Wishing all of them lots of happiness!

JUST MY OPINION BTW

Yes, and I've got Love Actually couples insta id too, thought if these couple too have then it would be a great help!

If anyone get to know their insta handles after the show is over, do let me know.
i want the updates so badly!!!!!!!

I would recommend you to watch A Bona Fide Killer(2026 kdrama). Hope you enjoy it!

I just love my twins family couples, hope they stay together T T

Would like to add love actually season 5 - I just love them (BK and Tata).
I love the friendship of all cast as well.

Yes!!! watch - Heart Signal 9 it's so worth it!!!!!!!!

Ikr, like in Love Actually Season 5 - Ruita and BK (LOVE THEM)!!!

Asked my boyfriend if I were a kingfisher. He said he wouldn't feel betrayed because he would think I was trying to keep him safe. Since the law always sucks, he said he'd be proud because those criminals deserved it. And to protect me, he would simply make us leave the country so we could live happily together, as he loves me.

I mean that's why Kingfisher exists in the first place! Because police and law are always incompetent.

She is a person* not only a mom lol. She has her life and worries too !!!!!!

So true. I just love the healing, family, friendship, and stability. The drama and mess make me feel frustrated. I was giggling during the dates—I love stable couples and seeing them go on dates. Everyone treats their partners with so much care and genuine feelings. The handwritten letter, making dinner, taking photos, Sisi being there acting as the message bearer her sister and Bohan —it was all so heartwarming. I cried, laughed, and felt shy while watching them. Looking at them, I truly think everyone deserves that kind of love!!

Xilun isn't leaving her alone, so what can she even do if Hewen isn't being proactive? Plus when he left, she did go to Hewen to apologize. To be honest, no one is really at fault; their personalities just don't seem compatible in the long run. You can also see that she's more interested in Hewen. I think they're actually quite similar in some ways. You can notice how their personalities change when they're with different people. Tbh, I would be sad too if someone I was getting to know didn't communicate well, didn't look out for me, and seemed more considerate of other people's feelings than mine. I'm not her fan, but as a person, I can understand where she's coming from. That said, she also needs to calm down a bit and just focus on getting to know him first. They're already acting like a couple that's been together for years and constantly fighting, lol.

So true!!!! I think both of them need to work on it. As you said, Hewen should be more considerate of his partner's feelings, while also taking care of himself. They really need to communicate properly, and the same goes for Yue'er. At this point, I think Hewen should just give her his diary because it's so obvious that she feels the happiest when she's with him—no one can deny that. They both always pay attention to each other, but their timing is always so off lol.

I agree!! I can see that she's more interested in Hewen than Xilun - the giggling, getting mad, and all that. But why doesn't she take a step forward too? Why does Hewen always have to be the one going to her? If she likes him, she can approach him as well. And Hewen has clearly said that he's interested in her. So if Xiaoyu is the one stepping up to talk to him, that's not his fault. It's similar to how Xilun is making an effort to approach Yuer.