What do you mean by the ML might mess up her plans ⁉️Isn’t the FL’s priority to keep her family safe from…
Totally 💯 agree that the FL needs to think out of the box to be able to keep her family and those she cares for (father, brother, servants, and MC) safely out of death’s harm 🧐🤔⁉️
She needs to start by trusting her loyal servants and confide in MC to BHR lo him get the throne instead of MZ so that he can not only keep himself out of MZ’s line of fire but also help the citizens… being that his father and MZ only care about themselves 🤪😝
FL, goes with the premise she's right, and this lifetime she can control all outcomes by improvising. Failing…
What do you mean by the ML might mess up her plans ⁉️
Isn’t the FL’s priority to keep her family safe from the emperor, CP, and MZ by accepting to be MZ’s concubine in ep 20⁉️
I personally don’t agree with the FL’s decision to marry MZ🤔. However, she can’t let MC know h that she’s been threatened by his father and brother not to see him etc… she’s basically on her own to figure out what’s in her ability to keep her family out of harm🧐
The ending wasn’t good for the FL and ML’s relationship … but at least they both have what they want and work hard to achieve professionally ⁉️
Think that the ML should had been more understanding regarding the FL wanting to open her own law firm being that they were never going to make her a partner in his firm, which I didn’t understand why they did want her to be a partner ⁉️
The way RX was acting during that period of time, I don’t think RX was cheating ONLY with WY.
Regardless if RX was only cheating on his wife with WY as you said, RX chose to cheat on his wife and he was not even going home and sleeping in the office and avoiding seeing HL as you said 😈.
IMO, RX was a cheater, drunker, and a coward to avoid his wife and confront her if he was not happy with her behavior and/or treatment of him⁉️. He should had asked for the divorce instead of acting cowardly when he had found his wife’s emotional and physical replacement. RX certainly did not lack of anything… he could stay at the office and be with WY freely and come home and give his wife the left over bits of love and pity crumbs he had left over after given his all to his mistress WY⁉️
What was difficult for me to swallow was that HL was told by RX’s mistress that not only did he get WY pregnant but he was in LOVE with her😈. Think that HL already knew that her husband was being unfaithful but she still had the hope of her husband still loved her, which gave her hope that their relationship would be okay eventually… but when she was told by WY that RX loves her … she lost all hope and finally broke down🤣
I personally feel sad for both of them❗️. I for sure do not put any blame on HL for her husband’s infidelity… RX chose to seek WY because she reminded him of his wife’s younger self and he not only had his physical needs met with WY but also loved her being that she reminded him of his wife⁉️
I feel that HL suffered the most because she truly loved RX and was not a materialistic woman… she didn’t even take any money from him and left a lot of her clothing when they got divorced. My heart broke when she started to take out her clothing from the luggage she was going to take and when she started tearing their photos. Unfortunately, I did not understand all she said when she was tearing their photos but her acting showed her heartbreak as well as taking responsibility and feeling regret for their breakup💔
Thanks for letting me know about BG, will make sure to avoid watching it.
As you can pretty much figure out, TYOL greatly affected my stability and emotional well-being even two it has been weeks since I finished watching this drama😥😰🤣
The dramas that I’m currently watching have no cheating but lots drama, which is what I need to get over the sad feelings brought by watching TYOL😰⁉️
Recall the scene where RX went to HL’ s home and she and the teacher colleague came out of her home and HL basically ignored RX … and walked the male out and she hides and waited behind a wall, while RX is standing in front of her home in the cold snow ❄️
I did see the scene where HL with her languages heading out of her home but did not understand that she had forgiving her ex-husband for the infidelity etc⁉️
What I was able to understand based on very limited understanding of Chinese language… LY and HL knew each other before meeting XR… am I right?
It seemed to me that XR some what interferes with LY pursuit of HL and HL only saw LY as a friend from beginning to end… am I correct?
HL only loved RX from beginning to end…. am I correct?
HL was faithful to RX through out their marriage… am I correct?
What I understood was HL’s unhappiness in the marriage with HL was he left her alone a lot and she was not the type to go out and party and spend time with people… in part because it was who she was and the other is because RX wanted it that way…. Am I correct?
I get that HL could had shown and told RX how much she loved him and how sad and depressed she felt not being able to have his children so that he could had felt some of her unhappiness before him looking for emotional and physical feelings elsewhere⁉️
I feel that the main reason HL kicked RX out when WY told her that RX loves her was that HL knew she could never be able to give RX a child and she was willing to endure loosing RX to WY for his happiness with a woman that claimed that her husband loves and is pregnant with his child… to me, HL was selfless and showed how much she loved RX to the point of letting him be with the woman he loves and his child loves too!
I hope this drama will eventually have English subtitles so that I can confirm if HL was the way I understood her to be.
I do want to say that even if HL was cold and distant to RX through out their marriage and that is the reason RX CHEATED on HL, which HL asked him what was wrong on the morning she sent him off lovingly to work and the same day WY tells her about her husband having an affair with her and getting her pregnant!!
If it was was a one night stand or a pass time physical affair with WY while HL is not around… RX obviously knew he was in the wrong and that is why he started to avoid seeing and being with WY but he also avoid and confiding to his wife HL of what and how he felt!!
Such a shame and how sad it is that two people that started from basically having very little wealth but a lot of love for each other ended up having a lot of wealth but no love for each other because neither one were brave enough to confide and be truthful to each other ⁉️
I simply have a huge issue when there is infidelity within a committed relationship or marriage… wether it is a one night stand and/or 1+ days … it is an adulterous action and it is a personal choice made regardless of the reason that will definitely end up causing mistrust and a failed relationship no matter if the couple get back together.
In other words… one the trust in broken, it is very difficult but not impossible to get that trust back.
Imagine being in HL’s shoes and having to worry all the time of feeling down and about and feeling that her other half at any given time will seek emotional and/or physical comfort elsewhere instead of facing and confronting the matter immediately by communicating verbally with your spouse🤔⁉️
Anastasia, I apologize for the various typos in my previous comments… but the words you’ve used “fling” and “hooked up “ to describe and minimize RX’s extramarital affair are very confusing and got me worked up that I neglected to review my comments before posting🧐.
IMHO, there shouldn’t be any excuse for a married person to be unfaithful… RX should had divorce his wife beforehand if he was so unhappy that his solution / escape was to be sexually active with WY👎⁉️
So you feel that it is all HL’s fault that caused for her husband XR to hooked up with WY and drift apart⁉️
I feel that it was both of their fault for the drifting apart… HL for continuing to trust him to the point of not getting involved and getting familiar with her husband’s business and supporting him by keeping their home clean and taking care of him all the many nights he came home late and drunk. Also HL is for sure in fault for not getting angry at him and letting him know verbally that he was devoted more to his business than to their marriage 🧐
RX after he lost his wife and continued meeting his manly desires met got bored and finally realized his wrongs and how valuable HL is in his life, he decided to prioritize HL and himself well-being and happiness rather than his business, which he delighted responsibilities to other at the end.
Wow… thanks for letting me know the backgrounds of the other two males, which obviously did not know nor understand due to the language barrier😳
If English subtitles are eventually added to this drama, I will definitely watch it again even though I wish the ending did not include the ML’s demised ⁉️
Thanks again for your input and sharing your thoughts about this drama🤗. I totally enjoyed our conversation and sharing our view points regarding this drama.
I’m currently watching Love Like The Galaxy drama. What drama are you currently watching❓
What if, the FL is the one who ends up being killed by MZ and that’s how she’s able to change the fate of her family ⁉️
What if, MC ends up killing MZ to avenge FL’s demise and he ends up being the Emperor instead of MZ⁉️
She needs to start by trusting her loyal servants and confide in MC to BHR lo him get the throne instead of MZ so that he can not only keep himself out of MZ’s line of fire but also help the citizens… being that his father and MZ only care about themselves 🤪😝
Isn’t the FL’s priority to keep her family safe from the emperor, CP, and MZ by accepting to be MZ’s concubine in ep 20⁉️
I personally don’t agree with the FL’s decision to marry MZ🤔. However, she can’t let MC know h that she’s been threatened by his father and brother not to see him etc… she’s basically on her own to figure out what’s in her ability to keep her family out of harm🧐
The ending wasn’t good for the FL and ML’s relationship … but at least they both have what they want and work hard to achieve professionally ⁉️
Think that the ML should had been more understanding regarding the FL wanting to open her own law firm being that they were never going to make her a partner in his firm, which I didn’t understand why they did want her to be a partner ⁉️
Regardless if RX was only cheating on his wife with WY as you said, RX chose to cheat on his wife and he was not even going home and sleeping in the office and avoiding seeing HL as you said 😈.
IMO, RX was a cheater, drunker, and a coward to avoid his wife and confront her if he was not happy with her behavior and/or treatment of him⁉️. He should had asked for the divorce instead of acting cowardly when he had found his wife’s emotional and physical replacement. RX certainly did not lack of anything… he could stay at the office and be with WY freely and come home and give his wife the left over bits of love and pity crumbs he had left over after given his all to his mistress WY⁉️
What was difficult for me to swallow was that HL was told by RX’s mistress that not only did he get WY pregnant but he was in LOVE with her😈. Think that HL already knew that her husband was being unfaithful but she still had the hope of her husband still loved her, which gave her hope that their relationship would be okay eventually… but when she was told by WY that RX loves her … she lost all hope and finally broke down🤣
I personally feel sad for both of them❗️. I for sure do not put any blame on HL for her husband’s infidelity… RX chose to seek WY because she reminded him of his wife’s younger self and he not only had his physical needs met with WY but also loved her being that she reminded him of his wife⁉️
I feel that HL suffered the most because she truly loved RX and was not a materialistic woman… she didn’t even take any money from him and left a lot of her clothing when they got divorced. My heart broke when she started to take out her clothing from the luggage she was going to take and when she started tearing their photos. Unfortunately, I did not understand all she said when she was tearing their photos but her acting showed her heartbreak as well as taking responsibility and feeling regret for their breakup💔
As you can pretty much figure out, TYOL greatly affected my stability and emotional well-being even two it has been weeks since I finished watching this drama😥😰🤣
The dramas that I’m currently watching have no cheating but lots drama, which is what I need to get over the sad feelings brought by watching TYOL😰⁉️
Recall the scene where RX went to HL’ s home and she and the teacher colleague came out of her home and HL basically ignored RX … and walked the male out and she hides and waited behind a wall, while RX is standing in front of her home in the cold snow ❄️
I did see the scene where HL with her languages heading out of her home but did not understand that she had forgiving her ex-husband for the infidelity etc⁉️
It seemed to me that XR some what interferes with LY pursuit of HL and HL only saw LY as a friend from beginning to end… am I correct?
HL only loved RX from beginning to end…. am I correct?
HL was faithful to RX through out their marriage… am I correct?
What I understood was HL’s unhappiness in the marriage with HL was he left her alone a lot and she was not the type to go out and party and spend time with people… in part because it was who she was and the other is because RX wanted it that way…. Am I correct?
I get that HL could had shown and told RX how much she loved him and how sad and depressed she felt not being able to have his children so that he could had felt some of her unhappiness before him looking for emotional and physical feelings elsewhere⁉️
I feel that the main reason HL kicked RX out when WY told her that RX loves her was that HL knew she could never be able to give RX a child and she was willing to endure loosing RX to WY for his happiness with a woman that claimed that her husband loves and is pregnant with his child… to me, HL was selfless and showed how much she loved RX to the point of letting him be with the woman he loves and his child loves too!
I hope this drama will eventually have English subtitles so that I can confirm if HL was the way I understood her to be.
I do want to say that even if HL was cold and distant to RX through out their marriage and that is the reason RX CHEATED on HL, which HL asked him what was wrong on the morning she sent him off lovingly to work and the same day WY tells her about her husband having an affair with her and getting her pregnant!!
If it was was a one night stand or a pass time physical affair with WY while HL is not around… RX obviously knew he was in the wrong and that is why he started to avoid seeing and being with WY but he also avoid and confiding to his wife HL of what and how he felt!!
Such a shame and how sad it is that two people that started from basically having very little wealth but a lot of love for each other ended up having a lot of wealth but no love for each other because neither one were brave enough to confide and be truthful to each other ⁉️
I simply have a huge issue when there is infidelity within a committed relationship or marriage… wether it is a one night stand and/or 1+ days … it is an adulterous action and it is a personal choice made regardless of the reason that will definitely end up causing mistrust and a failed relationship no matter if the couple get back together.
In other words… one the trust in broken, it is very difficult but not impossible to get that trust back.
Imagine being in HL’s shoes and having to worry all the time of feeling down and about and feeling that her other half at any given time will seek emotional and/or physical comfort elsewhere instead of facing and confronting the matter immediately by communicating verbally with your spouse🤔⁉️
What’s confusing is the words you chose to use to describe and IMO minimize XR’s infidelity… “fling “ and “hooked up”⁉️
IMHO, there shouldn’t be any excuse for a married person to be unfaithful… RX should had divorce his wife beforehand if he was so
unhappy that
his solution /
escape was to
be sexually
active with WY👎⁉️
Are you saying that HL’s unhappiness with RX
So you feel that it is all HL’s fault that caused for her husband XR to hooked up with WY and drift apart⁉️
I feel that it was both of their fault for the drifting apart… HL for continuing to trust him to the point of not getting involved and getting familiar with her husband’s business and supporting him by keeping their home clean and taking care of him all the many nights he came home late and drunk. Also HL is for sure in fault for not getting angry at him and letting him know verbally that he was devoted more to his business than to their marriage 🧐
RX after he lost his wife and continued meeting his manly desires met got bored and finally realized his wrongs and how valuable HL is in his life, he decided to prioritize HL and himself well-being and happiness rather than his business, which he delighted responsibilities to other at the end.
If English subtitles are eventually added to this drama, I will definitely watch it again even though I wish the ending did not include the ML’s demised ⁉️
Thanks again for your input and sharing your thoughts about this drama🤗. I totally enjoyed our conversation and sharing our view points regarding this drama.
I’m currently watching Love Like The Galaxy drama. What drama are you currently watching❓