Aditya Swizo

Bro where are you all the time,already 277 watchers wasted their time.









Just kidding 😂

Total crap,i took back my 10 star i had given in the beginning with the hope that its a slice of life drama,But no.Its a drama where everything reverse happens.
The working couples don't change at all,instead the director made them sick to gain sympathy,They don't realise the family importance.
Chensan whom i liked before is the worst of them all,she has all the time in the world to take care of lingkun,but no time for husband's hand infection or daughter picnic.Instead of alloting some time for her daughter,she works more,I hope her daughter forget her completely.

Lastly i hope that sunlei and chensan don't get together,it would be a happy ending for me.
Ratings 1.0

Its time for k and c dramas to stop their obsession with CEOs,i know they are some successful ceo dramas but its becoming quite repetitive and people are fed up with these similar scripts.

In almost all of his previous dramas njh always gets happy ending,so he chose a drama in which i think he doesn't get a happy ending,i think its a sad melodrama,the trailers are misleading.get some tissues ready.

Ya ,very fierce competition this month all being different kind of genre,hope people dont compare each other.

This show is a masterpiece and I think season 1 is enough,adding season 2 just because of popularity wouldn't be successful,people tend to compare and it will turndown this into an average drama.

Wow 8.9, truely deserved ratings,still i want to see in the 9.1 category.

Idk why the actor playing lingkun,i already hated him in find yourself and in this drama.This crap can understand the inner feelings of chensan but not his wife.
And till now chensan didn't even realise the impact of divorce,both seems like working less and enjoying more.
As ep progresses my love for sunlei and wumin are growing,they clearly are earning,taking care of family and know their boundaries unlike the working couple.
Same time also loosing sympathy towards the working couple.

Exactly,my words i lked the chen san character before she came of with divorce,but after that her actions are almost unlikable,i know there are hormonal changes after miscarriage,but still it feels so

Yes,i never said that carrer oriented people dont deserve love,but likely you said they atleast should allot some time for their family,but here we see that seems like they are working for own satisfaction only.
The accident scene where chensan think of only work,and the sunlei asked why do you work so much? She replied for you and her baby,then he replied seriously we dont need that much,we only need you.

And lingkun, though he loved his wife he treats her like a servant,he only throws money and expects that he has done everything,but in real wumin sacrificed more than him.Also didn't have enough trust on her wife though he being close to chen san,

And about miscarriage,chen san being above 40 is a high risk case,her pregnancy itself is detected late,in that period she worked day and night,and it seems like sunlei lying is the triggering factor.

About lying there are two instances where chen san taken deceison almost by lying to sunlei,first one is their legal case 2nd being sacking job of sunlei,but sunlei later realised and beleived his wife .
Similarly in this condition chen san should belive his husband.

I doubt so,you know chineese viewpoint that working spouses are right,the wumin and sun lei are useless.
Who knows they show that these two need money and regret their decision, chineese viewpoint is different from world.

Ikr,i have read their comments,its their thinking that money comes first.
Also its strange that a garbage drama 'the memory about you' was viewed no 1 in china.

I don't think there is any infidelity in the drama

My opinion about the couples
If you are career oriented person just like chen san and lin qun, dont think of marriage at all,your work gives you happiness,you should be single through out your life.
If you want family atleast give some time to them,have a gap between your projects.But in this case the working spouses are too much invested in work, they have not given a single time for their families,only making money is not everything.

Sunlei-My most loved character,always thinks betterment for others.He has a job also,still take care all of the needs of his family, sacrificed his ambition for his family.
Has completely faith on his wife even though watching pictures of his wife with other man.

Chen san-A free-spirited independent woman,loved his family very much,try to balance work and family,but fails miserably as she always gives importance to work.Even in emergency situation like her daughter accident she thinks of work first.have complete faith on her husband but less than sunlei.

Ling kun : most useless character ever,only think of work. Treats his wife like a servant.Not a single time spent with his family.

Wu min -Though most complaining character,but single-handedly raised her child, sacrificed his job for family.treated harsh by her husband.as she has not a job her voice is always repressed.


Coming to divorce between the couples
Wumin and lingkun - almost justified,as wumin needs space to breathe, realise her ambition and goals.
Chen san and sun lei -complete nonesense decision taken by chen san .She thinks the reason for miscarriage is sun lei ,where as the reason is herself at a old age,sunlei firstly told her to abort because of old age and he knew she only had work on her mind.


I know its impossible but if we pair sun lei with wumin both would be perfect,both have descent job now,both can give time to family and work.
But if we pair lingkun with chensan -only there is money in their life, nothing else.

I wish people are as sensible as you,but the hatred have in their minds prevents them to think rationally and logically.

Sorry,if any way my words hurt you.I completely apologize for not knowing about j women struggles.
Its not my intention to diminish any gender,I just cant see infidelity whether done by men or women.
I beleive they are more sensible options for them.

Its ok if you dont want to reply me,i dont have any grudge against you.
And i have edited out my previous comment where you get offended.

I am talking about about all the infidelity dramas in japan.I can provide you the list if you want to dig dip into them.
I am sure problems like infidelity are everywhere and j writers are addressing it,but isn't they are aggravating it instead of giving a constructive approach.

Suppose rape,murder is prevalent in my country,as a director should i show these criminals be punished? Or show different ways to improve their crime and they roam freely.

And don't talk about pov,the only pov in infidelity dramas is of the female only
I want you to suggest some dramas where1) ml cheated and fl had not taken revenge on ml or 2)fl cheated and ml had taken revenge on her.3) cheating told from a ml pov.

Talking about the drama i would be happy if it wrongs my presumption, looking forward to it.

If anyone is unhappy in marriage,my first suggestion is to get a divorce then do whatever you want.No one dares to question you.
But remaining in marriage if you cheat,it would look fancy only in drama not in real world.In reality you could loose alimony , custody of your child,which could be easily yours if you control your lust.

If you analyse the many infidelity themed dramas they are two types if ml is the cheater then most of the time its a revenge drama where fl takes revenge and people talk about morality.
If fl is the cheater, first look if she is happy or not in her life,if she is unhappy then its justified she should cheat,its called strong female who can took her own decesion.Morality? Who cares ,in drama its applicable only for men,
There is no term such as Fl cheating,its called fl found her love.

I found the ml actions creepy,Is it normal to be creepy?I believe this is another infidelity drama in the name of happiness by the fl.Normal japanese infidelity stuff.