I've managed to finally rewatch ep11, yes there were tears. But now I'm feeling better about the last ep.Let me…
I managed one reaction video yesterday and another one today. Not as heavy as when I watched it on my own last Friday. Glad you're a bit better, bestie. :-) *hugs*
Hey folks, we so far have 10 people attending the post-episode conversation via Google Meet.
5 agreed to attend on Friday immediately after the episode (so, I'll create a session for this) 4 agreed to join 22 Jan (Sat) at 12PM London (8PM Manila | 7PM Bangkok) (i'll create a session for this too) 1 agreed to join 22 Jan (Sat) at 9AM London (5PM Manila | 4PM Bangkok) (need more people to join this session so i can create another.
If you feel like joining us (just us MDL people in this comments board), please feel free to fill out this RSVP Form - https://forms.gle/er9mbj6caEaou23t6
We'll be happy to have you share your thoughts and feelings towards the finale and the entire series.
#BelieveinPatandPran as usual TheGORJUSMARSH!Thanks for sharing about your therapy session. Indeed, as many of…
No worries. In a way Id also like to tell our friends who may be struggling with their feelings (and mental health) that seeking help is not embarrassing. Because it means we are strong and brave to acknowledge that we can't do this on our own.
And yes, if I was able to bear Tian's agony when he left Pha Pun Dao and Huna Phupha ghosted him till the airport scene (hitting so close to home again, I would be able to bear this one, too.
Let me share something that my therapist and I talked about today, because I couldn't help myself bringing up my feelings about the series, and how it affected my mood so badly after EP11.
My therapist said, "Look at it this way, if these main characters did not choose to go home to try and resolve the conflicts at home, staying away from their families could eventually break their hearts every moment they were with each other. That's because as much as their love was true and strong for each other, they both know that there's a huge gap left in their hearts - because they love their families, too. They may be at odds with their parents but the love is still there."
"It was a wise decision -- and a mature one. It was heavy for you because you had been in a relatively similar situation. You had to make a decision, and made a clever one at such a young age. You would have hated yourself if you made him choose between his growth as a person and you. Because you knew he would choose you, and that choice would be fleeting. He would have been broken later on, and you, exhausted."
It was at that moment when I told myself, yes. As much as that scene in the end has been painful and hit so close to home, we will have to accept the fact that when we are in a relationship, we make decisions by being rational - for the common good and not for fleeting self-gratification. Its painful knowing it means some time (or a lot, or in my case a lifetime) of being apart. But through it all, it makes us wiser and more grown up.
Pat and Pran may have gone back to their homes, and we may have still been wondering if the breakup preview is true. But they made a grown up choice. A brave one. And I believe their love will transcend the odds they have been up against from the beginning.
SHAMELESS PLUG ONCE AGAIN.
If you have feelings and thoughts you would like to share about Bad Buddy Series, we're having a post-episode conversation via Google Meet (just amongst us besties here in this MDL space). If you fancy joining, please feel free to visit this link - https://forms.gle/er9mbj6caEaou23t6 - and fill out the RSVP Form.
OhmNanon was supposed to react with P'Jennie but it got cancelled :(Anyways, Take care of yourself P'Jennie
If I could contact Jennie Panhan and take over her schedule with OhmNanon, I would have them over to our session. But that's as impossible as living in Neptune. Anyone who has connections with GMMTC, speak now! LOL
I am able to watch one full EP11 reaction video. the ending frames are still heavy for me, but it's a bit bearable now. I think because I had therapy earlier today.
Hey folks! There are currently 7 of us who agreed on a post-BB-episode conversation (either on Friday or Saturday, I could host BOTH sessions) via Google Meet.
Nothing special, just a bunch of people who are keen to discuss our feeling about the show and how we relate to it.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BvCW-W2jRLg/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link
5 agreed to attend on Friday immediately after the episode (so, I'll create a session for this)
4 agreed to join 22 Jan (Sat) at 12PM London (8PM Manila | 7PM Bangkok) (i'll create a session for this too)
1 agreed to join 22 Jan (Sat) at 9AM London (5PM Manila | 4PM Bangkok) (need more people to join this session so i can create another.
If you feel like joining us (just us MDL people in this comments board), please feel free to fill out this RSVP Form - https://forms.gle/er9mbj6caEaou23t6
We'll be happy to have you share your thoughts and feelings towards the finale and the entire series.
If you feel that you need it, go for it. It really helps especially when we are at out wits end how to cope with our own thoughts and feelings.
You are still welcome to join in and listen, if you're not confident speaking.
And yes, if I was able to bear Tian's agony when he left Pha Pun Dao and Huna Phupha ghosted him till the airport scene (hitting so close to home again, I would be able to bear this one, too.
My therapist said, "Look at it this way, if these main characters did not choose to go home to try and resolve the conflicts at home, staying away from their families could eventually break their hearts every moment they were with each other. That's because as much as their love was true and strong for each other, they both know that there's a huge gap left in their hearts - because they love their families, too. They may be at odds with their parents but the love is still there."
"It was a wise decision -- and a mature one. It was heavy for you because you had been in a relatively similar situation. You had to make a decision, and made a clever one at such a young age. You would have hated yourself if you made him choose between his growth as a person and you. Because you knew he would choose you, and that choice would be fleeting. He would have been broken later on, and you, exhausted."
It was at that moment when I told myself, yes. As much as that scene in the end has been painful and hit so close to home, we will have to accept the fact that when we are in a relationship, we make decisions by being rational - for the common good and not for fleeting self-gratification. Its painful knowing it means some time (or a lot, or in my case a lifetime) of being apart. But through it all, it makes us wiser and more grown up.
Pat and Pran may have gone back to their homes, and we may have still been wondering if the breakup preview is true. But they made a grown up choice. A brave one. And I believe their love will transcend the odds they have been up against from the beginning.
SHAMELESS PLUG ONCE AGAIN.
If you have feelings and thoughts you would like to share about Bad Buddy Series, we're having a post-episode conversation via Google Meet (just amongst us besties here in this MDL space). If you fancy joining, please feel free to visit this link - https://forms.gle/er9mbj6caEaou23t6 - and fill out the RSVP Form.
See you , loves!
Nothing special, just a bunch of people who are keen to discuss our feeling about the show and how we relate to it.
If you fancy joining, please feel free to visit this link - https://forms.gle/er9mbj6caEaou23t6 - and fill out the RSVP Form.
We'd be happy to have everyone drop in and share their thoughts.
Thank you!