AbuHammer

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Is this first straight drama for many BL actors? lol

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That’s messed up to the core.

I am not being racist, I am just exposing their hypocrisy. They live in countries where women have hardly any rights and where rape and abuse are rampant. Yet they blame the victims instead of empathizing with their suffering.

Whether it’s fictional or not, that’s still messed up.

Your comments are extremely hurtful and harmful. Rape is not a choice, it is a violation of someone’s body and dignity. It does not matter if the victim has a mental illness or not, they deserve respect and support. You are blaming the victim for something they had no control over, and that is unacceptable. I suggest you educate yourself on the realities of rape and mental health, and stop spreading misinformation and stigma.

Your comments are extremely hurtful and harmful. Rape is not a choice, it is a violation of someone’s body and dignity. It does not matter if the victim has a mental illness or not, they deserve respect and support. You are blaming the victim for something they had no control over, and that is unacceptable. I suggest you educate yourself on the realities of rape and mental health, and stop spreading misinformation and stigma.

I am very grateful for my upbringing that prevented me from becoming a misogynistic clown like you. You actually think that someone who was raped and is suffering from mental illness, who also got betrayed by her loved ones, deserved beatings while sympathizing with her cheating husband who worsened her mental health.

How can the husband, who is supposed to be a professor, act like this? This is an insult to all the professors in the world.

You are ignoring the fact that Soon Young’s cheating was a deliberate and dishonest act that violated the trust and respect in their relationship. He chose to cheat on Jae Won with her best friend, which is a double betrayal. He didn’t communicate with Jae Won, or try to understand her, or support her. He didn’t even apologize or show any remorse for his actions. He only cared about his own feelings, and not about the consequences of his actions on Jae Won or their marriage. You are expressing a wishful and unrealistic hope that Soon Young and Jae Won will end up happy together again. This is a very naive and disrespectful view of their relationship, which ignores the reality and the damage that has been done. You are not considering Jae Won’s feelings, needs, or rights. You are not respecting her decision to seek revenge, or to divorce Soon Young, or to move on with her life. You are not acknowledging the fact that Soon Young and Jae Won’s relationship is broken beyond repair, and that there is no trust, love, or respect left between them. I hope you can reconsider your position and show more empathy and compassion for Jae Won, who is the real victim in this situation.

Clown to clown conversation

You don’t know why the wife hid her mental health condition from her husband, or what her mother’s condition is, or whether it could affect their child. Maybe she was afraid of being judged, or stigmatized, or rejected by her husband. You can’t blame her for something that is beyond her control. Your implication that she should not have a child because of her mental illness is reminiscent of the Nazi ideology that justified their atrocities against people with mental disabilities. The Nazis considered people with mental disabilities as having a “life unworthy of life” and subjected them to forced sterilization, euthanasia, and medical experiments.

You are using a false equivalence to compare the husband’s cheating with the wife’s hiding. Cheating is a deliberate and dishonest act that violates the trust and respect in a relationship. Hiding is a coping mechanism that stems from fear and insecurity. They are not the same thing, and they don’t justify each other. The husband is responsible for his own actions, and he should have communicated with his wife instead of betraying her.

You are using an ad hominem attack to dismiss honeybooboo's opinion. You are calling them a pseudo feminist, implying that they are not a real feminist, or that they don’t care about women’s rights. This is a personal insult that has nothing to do with the argument. It’s a fallacy that tries to undermine their credibility, instead of addressing their points.

Classic ad hominem, come on, you can do better.

Well said! Thank God someone said it. Some of the people in the comments sound like traditional women on TikTok who always complain about women choosing to work instead of being housewives. I can’t believe people are hating on women for having choices and not living in the 19th century, where the main role of women was to be good mothers and wives. It’s appalling that they are saying women deserve to be tortured and cheated on because they choose to work after marriage.

Both suffered? Are you kidding me? He is the cause of her sufferings. The fact that you are taking the side of the husband is very concerning. I wonder what your upbringing is.

It’s 2024 and people are getting more regressive. I thought with the surge of the internet, people would get more educated with access to many educational materials, but it’s having the opposite effect. The upbringings of these people should be studied.

Why does her cheating shameless husband deserves happy ending?

The husband is a man-child and emotionally immature. He is neither fit to be a husband nor a father. He believed a picture that showed some man taking his barely conscious wife to a room. Any person with common sense would know that there is no consent involved and it is rape. It’s 2024, where anything could be manipulated with the power of photoshop and AI, so believing a picture sent by a random email is very telling of the intellectual ability of the husband. He took revenge based on the picture and a DNA test that showed the child was conceived of rape. He cheated on his wife with her best friend and sent a sex tape to the wife just to break her even more. To make matters worse, he used the wife’s money to get a house where he could freely cheat. He let his friends disrespect her by calling her a “bank” and took his dead twin brother’s identity to cheat and play with her emotions. Even after hearing from his wife that she was raped, he did not feel sorry. This man has no redeeming qualities. He is also trying to take the custody of a child that is not even his.

That doesn't justify anything. Remember "end doesn't justify the means"