one thing about men they will always give their unwanted opinions about anything that doesnβt involve them
Well that's also the case with a lot of women if you ask me. π I think that's very human especially nowadays with social media. It changed a lot. There are a lot of people who wants to give their opinion about anything. π€·ββοΈ
Bella dear, sending love. β€ I kinda love KP, VP and it here a bit too much to let go... But, still hurting.
Thank you love. Well it's not that I'm hating VP now. They are characters and yes build portrays Pete but that doesn't mean I hate the series right now.
Good 4 u.Since I could walk and make coherent sentences my parents taught me to hate LGBTQ and be racist, not…
Well I think it's beautiful that you have your own view now. There are many people who grow up like this and doesn't spend time on thinking for them self. β€οΈ
I am still processing the news, that is how surpised and disappointed I am.I loved KP mostly because of the cast,…
I agree. Im processing too and it's like I can't even find the right words to describe what I'm feeling. Just reading all those experiences from everyone here is just heart breaking.
I didn't react much on this matter. Its because since I've became aware of it I felt completely numb. It's a reaction that I've been having for a long time. In my life there was a lot of pain. Especially around SA. I also share my stories on high schools to make people aware of rape and domestic violence. In my work I help a lot of women who go through the same as I did. So that a lot of people are triggered by builds words, I completely understand that. I think it is awful and as an victim myself I felt completely misunderstood by a lot of people. Even people who were close to me.
But since I grew older I became aware that every human has an opinion about anything. There will always be people who will say things like this. I wish we could change people's point of view but the sad thing is, that we can't. The only thing that we can do as women, is supporting each other. And men too ofcourse because there are a lot of men out there that would never even think of something like this. And I'm not saying we shouldn't make each other aware of matters like this. People making comments like this is something that have been normalised for a very long time. Ofcourse there is progress but still not enough. And yes I agree with the people that said it has also to do with your background, country, family.
My heart goes out to everyone who's been triggered by this news or is experiencing a lot of feelings at the moment.
Ofcourse it's easy to say that we can just happily watch the series again. Myself included. But I will watch it till the end cause the series doesn't only exist out of build. Ofcourse I have mixed feelings too and like I said I don't feel that well after hearing this cause those comments are nothing new for me. I don't even know If I will watch it this Saturday. It depends on how I'm feeling.
I just really hope that everyone is ok and can proces this on their own terms and their own time. Don't feel obliged to continue to watch KP if you don't feel like it. If this is affecting you too much, please take care of yourself and take your time. You're allowed to feel mad or sad or whatever you're feeling right now.
I did rewrite this comment a lot of times cause I really don't know what to say. Like I said I feel numb. And Im so sorry for a lot of people who told their stories here. It's heart breaking.
Owow... I'm so triggered by Build drama. I'm sorry I have to share it somewhere and I love the community here…
Well I can't take away your discomfort. I think it's natural that you feel like this. As for me I try to focus on why i like this series and the characters. The characters in the series are not the actors. Yes by face but not by their actions. And I don't mean this in a disrespectful way to all the people who are suffering right now cause believe me I do understand, more then you think. But this is how I deal with it.
I think we should seperate celebrities from their works. We get too invested in the celebrities sometimes because…
I totally agree with you. It's why I've never been a real 'fan girl' I can appreciate good acting and beautiful music but that doesn't mean I know the person behind it.
So where can I watch this cause you got me curious.
Oh and I saw episode 2 of UN. My eyes are still burning. π
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I think it is awful and as an victim myself I felt completely misunderstood by a lot of people. Even people who were close to me.
But since I grew older I became aware that every human has an opinion about anything. There will always be people who will say things like this. I wish we could change people's point of view but the sad thing is, that we can't. The only thing that we can do as women, is supporting each other. And men too ofcourse because there are a lot of men out there that would never even think of something like this.
And I'm not saying we shouldn't make each other aware of matters like this. People making comments like this is something that have been normalised for a very long time. Ofcourse there is progress but still not enough. And yes I agree with the people that said it has also to do with your background, country, family.
My heart goes out to everyone who's been triggered by this news or is experiencing a lot of feelings at the moment.
Ofcourse it's easy to say that we can just happily watch the series again. Myself included. But I will watch it till the end cause the series doesn't only exist out of build. Ofcourse I have mixed feelings too and like I said I don't feel that well after hearing this cause those comments are nothing new for me. I don't even know If I will watch it this Saturday. It depends on how I'm feeling.
I just really hope that everyone is ok and can proces this on their own terms and their own time. Don't feel obliged to continue to watch KP if you don't feel like it. If this is affecting you too much, please take care of yourself and take your time. You're allowed to feel mad or sad or whatever you're feeling right now.
I did rewrite this comment a lot of times cause I really don't know what to say. Like I said I feel numb. And Im so sorry for a lot of people who told their stories here. It's heart breaking.
Take care everyone π€
But this is how I deal with it.