CMoon

Understood. I completely understand that people fall out of love with their partners for various reasons. That is not my issue with him and Song Won. My issue with both of them is that I feel they are depicted as soul mates and that makes it okay for them to cheat since they are in love. Cheating is never okay. They both should not have engaged in any type of emotional/physical relationship since Sa Hun is married. At of respect for Hye Rung who is Sa Huns wife one of them should have thought reasonably. Cheating never ends up okay. Someone always gets hurt.

He keeps giving her false hope which is my issue with him. By going to the dinner with her friends they are both putting up a facade that their relationship is great and they have no issues. He should stand his ground and say no. I’m not happy in this relationship and I will not go to dinner with you and your friends. He needs to end his relationship with either his wife or Song Won. It is not fair to his wife if she thinks she can salvage their marriage by changing if he is already checked out.

I question his loyalty based on next weeks episodes. In the previews, it looks like he will have A Mi over at the house he shared with his wife. That is not sincerity. He is not remorseful of his actions. He is just sorry he got caught.

Yes, she is very stubborn and prideful so I understand how it could be difficult to speak with her but Sa Hun didn’t try to express his feelings. He continues to lead her on by telling her he is willing to work things out. I understand he’s stated he would rather end the marriage but then when it’s just them to he always agree to work things out. He should be transparent about his feelings towards her and end since he no longer loves her.

Agreed. His level of manipulation is on another level. I am still questioning whether he truly “loves” his wife and is remorseful or if he is full of it. He has a great way to make one doubt themselves by not only acting on someone’s most vulnerable and insecure thoughts but also to try and justify his own behaviors by saying is in a mans nature to cheat. Not all men cheat, some men know what they would be losing if they did. Unfortunately that is not the case with Dr. Shin. He lost the best thing that ever happened to him for a moment of weakness. He definitely is not in love with A Mi. She is just foolishly thinking he is by his false narrative.

Sorry, I misinterpreted what you were saying. It’s always good to look at things from different perspectives.

The reason I cannot be on her side is because she doesn’t stand by her word. She says one thing but her actions say another. If she was really done with the relationship she would have never accepted his engagement ring which she is still wearing. I completely understand that people make mistake. But she justifies her mistakes by thinking the Hye Rung is the problem. I don’t think she is the worst of the three mistresses but I do not like how they make her seem as this innocent person which she clearly is not. She had an active role in the cheating.

Agreed people do get divorced for issues they cannot overcome but that is not the case with their situation. Sa Hun lacked communication. He didn’t even vocalize his frustrations with Hye Rung about their marriage. He didn’t even give her the chance to try to repair their marriage. He just went to the next thing that showed him a little affection. Sa Hun is completely at fault for lacking communication with his wife. I wouldn’t have minded had he talked to his Hye Rung about his frustrations and asked her to change in order to salvage their relationship and if she didn’t change then he could ask her for a divorce but he completely blindsided her. She had no idea where he was coming from until he asked for a divorce and then she found out he cheated. I think had he communicated his feelings he wouldn’t be in the situation he is in now.

This is where my issue lies with the show. They paint Hye Rung as a villain and that she deserves to be cheated on by her husband since she isn’t fulfilling what he views as a good wife. He knew who he married before he married her. He knew her personality and who she was. I don’t believe cheating should ever be justified no matter what the situation is. I understand that people grow and change their mindset on what they want in life. That is completely understandable but Sa Hun never expressed those feelings to his wife so he is 100 percent at fault for that. The only time he expressed any of his issues towards her was regarding her makeup which was something so vain and completely unimportant. He is a coward who would rather run to another person who believes is fulfilling his emotional needs for the time being. He will continue this cycle of jumping from relationship to relationship if he doesn’t openly communicate with his partner about his needs and wants.

Exactly, he is the worst of the worst. Acting likes he’s the victim when he says he needs time alone to think. Yes, he should be alone forever. He isn’t capable of having an actual relationship since he is dishonest.

Yes, he would save everyone so much heartache if he would just communicate. Communication is key in any releationship.

Completely agree. I think she is just as at fault as Sa Hun. She should have never engaged in a relationship with a married man period. Sa Hun and Song Won are both at fault for having a emotional affair. Sa Hun should have spoken with his wife regarding his concern about her in their marriage instead of consulting with a woman he just met at the gym. Song Won should have set boundaries early on and told him speak with your wife with your concerns instead of me. They are both at fault for this situation. Cheating is never okay.

I have a love hate relationship with this drama. I am so invested to see what happens with the husbands, wives and mistresses. I hope none of the husbands get a happy ending because no matter what the situation is cheating is never okay. As for the wives, I hope they all end up divorcing their husbands because they all deserve better. For Hye Rung, Sa Hun, Song Won I hope they can all come to terms on where they were at fault. Hye Rung is so stubborn and she is not coming to terms with the fact her marriage is over. Her pride gets the best of her. She is an intelligent, independent woman that should not tolerate her husbands infidelity. I understand how Sa Hun fell out of love with his wife due to her lack of affection toward him but he should have vocalized his feelings to her and given her the chance to change and if she didn’t he could move on and asked for a divorce instead of having an emotional affair which later turned into a physical affair with Song Won. Song Won also seems like a very level headed, educated woman. So it shocks me that she put herself in this predicament. She should have set boundaries with Sa Hun and never engaged in this emotional affair with him especially as a woman that went through what she did with her ex husband. To me Nam Ga Bin is the worst of all mistresses because she is clearly using Hae Ryoon to get her ex jealous. That’s not right, she ruined a family just to prove a point to her ex that she can live this happy life without him when she is still clearly emotionally invested in that releationship. A Mi, is clearly young and naive to think Yoo Shin will leave his wife for her. He by far is the worst of the worst because he is fake and conniving. He wants to have his wife and his mistress at the same time. He is selfish and a horrible human being.

I think Hye Rung is realizing that she does have feelings for her husband and is regretting the way she is treating him because she sees her friend clearly in a happy place with her husband. I think she envíes that and wants to build that level of connection with her husband and that’s why she stated she wants to work on her marriage with him. But I think it’s a little too late and it will be way to hard to fix the damage they both have inflicted on each other.

Agreed. He is the most repulsive of all the husbands because he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too.

Where I think people get upset is the fact that Sa Hun isn’t honest about his feelings to Hy Reung. He tells her what she wants to hear instead of being completely transparent. I understand that Hy Reung isn’t the easiest person to talk to since she is very stubborn. But Sa Hun is constantly telling her one thing and doing another. For example in today’s episode she told him let’s work on our marriage, I won’t bring up the past. This is the time that he should have stood his ground and vocalized his feelings. He should have told her there is no way we will work out, I am in love with Song Wong and ended his relationship with Hy Reung regardless of how she might react. He should pack up his things and leave instead of giving her false hope. By giving her false hope, he is allowing her to live in this delusional mindset that her marriage will work out when as viewers we all know it is clearly over.