Are you actually saying that after taking care 24/7 for their baby she should have also made sure to be sexy for…
I'm quoting part of the original post that I found problematic: "she stopped taking care of herself and INSTEAD OF A WOMAN she just became a mother to her husbands eyes. " Apparently (according to that user) her main fault is not taking care of her appearance while his douchy behavior is justified because he is the breadwinner. And that is wrong.
I agree though that both of them made mistakes in the past but I just dislike when people justify rude and disrespectful behavior and he is all the time rude unless he is feeling guilty.
Are you actually saying that after taking care 24/7 for their baby she should have also made sure to be sexy for…
I completely understand that but it is stupid and ridiculous to say that her fault is "not being sexy anymore" and not being "a wife" anymore because both of them did stressful jobs - he at the firm and she depressed at home.
But that user did not mention that he didn't provide love and care either so why it is up for a woman to continue being sexy and a proper spouse while the husband has the right to remain stressed? And that's exactly what the user said if you read between the lines - her fault was not being a woman for him and relieving him of stress when he comes back home. Ridiculous.
He acts like a 12-year-old when he is 40 while she is at least a normal adult. So no, they are not exactly both at fault because he is also on top of everything a condescending douche bag and he will remain one until he matures.
And I hope people will stop justifying mean, condescending and rude behavior as "he is stressed, it's not his fault" When they travel back in time he is also rude and disrespectful - and he is not working.
Are you actually saying that after taking care 24/7 for their baby she should have also made sure to be sexy for…
That's okay as long as it goes both ways - HE needs to give his wife love and attention too and he didn't. So please stop making her the main culprit when he is at fault too and even more.
One of the things I hate the most in dramas is when a female lead is asked a question and she answers with an "eh?" with a dumb expression on her face. I swear, when people act deaf like that all I want is to slap the shit out of them. And female leads do that all the time in all Asian dramas. If they think that playing deaf and surprised makes them look cute - it doesn't, it makes them look stupid.
Ok, the heroine turned into a hysterical and impulsive fool. I found her different and interesting but changed my mind in ep 8. Her screaming at the roof and yeling "what did you you do to my mom" were so cringy I almost died. It seems like she doesn't have any brain left to deal with the situation. I just can't.
thanks for this comment! when i first heard about this drama, i was pretty interested then saw how the synopsis…
I thought your comment meant that you weren't interested in the drama anymore because of how the original writer of that synopsis used the pronoun so I just replied to that :D It's your choice after all.
thanks for this comment! when i first heard about this drama, i was pretty interested then saw how the synopsis…
The synopsis were taken from a personal blog and it is unknown whether it is the translation of the original synopsis or perhaps the translation of a news snippet from a while ago. I would check the pilot to see if it is good, not rely only on the translated summary but that's just me.
I understand what you mean, but I feel lukewarm about his introduction into the story. We can take his character…
I totally agree with you. I know that when Ji Ho's friends changed their attitudes upon seeing that guy was supposed to be seen as comedy relief but it is interesting to note that people even in real life justify others' actions based on how good they look. It is wrong of course because a man can be a psychopath and stalker even if he is handsome.
I'd actually like if the 2nd lead turns into a stalker. They didn't mention that event of a woman being locked for no reason. I dislike insta love and similar cliches and I'd prefer if his presence didn't occupy more than 3 episodes xD He might end up stalking and abducting Ji Ho so her hubby would come to rescue.
As for Ji Ho's "accommodating" personality, I think that is more of a fault and than compliment. I think that people should seriously change that trait if they act like that. You do more damage to yourself and others if you don't learn to say "no". I kinda understood why she hopped on his bike, she was lonely and thought her husband would never love her so she decided to live for a moment.
I don't like the introduction of the 2nd lead. His character is too forced and fake and an obvious device to create an angst between the male leads. Everything was going well until now. They should have handled this better, with more originality.
Are you actually saying that after taking care 24/7 for their baby she should have also made sure to be sexy for…
I'm not calling him a jerk because of one thing and because of speculations, I'm calling him a selfish and immature jerk based on his WHOLE behavior until now. Have you watched anything besides 1st ep?
I think there is a big misunderstanding with Ban Do. I see many girls calling him unlikable and even a jerk and…
Are you actually saying that after taking care 24/7 for their baby she should have also made sure to be sexy for him?? And was he trying to be sexy and loving towards her? I don't think so. He is (currently) a jerk, period.
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Apparently (according to that user) her main fault is not taking care of her appearance while his douchy behavior is justified because he is the breadwinner. And that is wrong.
I agree though that both of them made mistakes in the past but I just dislike when people justify rude and disrespectful behavior and he is all the time rude unless he is feeling guilty.
But that user did not mention that he didn't provide love and care either so why it is up for a woman to continue being sexy and a proper spouse while the husband has the right to remain stressed? And that's exactly what the user said if you read between the lines - her fault was not being a woman for him and relieving him of stress when he comes back home. Ridiculous.
He acts like a 12-year-old when he is 40 while she is at least a normal adult. So no, they are not exactly both at fault because he is also on top of everything a condescending douche bag and he will remain one until he matures.
And I hope people will stop justifying mean, condescending and rude behavior as "he is stressed, it's not his fault" When they travel back in time he is also rude and disrespectful - and he is not working.
Gurl, I wouldn't even give 20 bucks to someone I just liked lolz
p.s. once again, I completely agree with Jessica!! Great points ^^
I'd actually like if the 2nd lead turns into a stalker. They didn't mention that event of a woman being locked for no reason. I dislike insta love and similar cliches and I'd prefer if his presence didn't occupy more than 3 episodes xD He might end up stalking and abducting Ji Ho so her hubby would come to rescue.
As for Ji Ho's "accommodating" personality, I think that is more of a fault and than compliment. I think that people should seriously change that trait if they act like that. You do more damage to yourself and others if you don't learn to say "no". I kinda understood why she hopped on his bike, she was lonely and thought her husband would never love her so she decided to live for a moment.
He is (currently) a jerk, period.