Me too...I want to do it so bad. Like idc about the school getting more funds, at the end of the day who has to live with themselves for the rest of their life? After Chol graduates he will mean nothing to them, annoying as hell these damn teachers I swear!
Please, a lot of drunk people still recognize other people and themselves. This was rape, to its literal point
I also want to point out that people who have been raped also feel pleasure. This is one of the many reasons why they feel so guilty because it felt good while someone was taking advantage of them. It is normal to feel pleasure since that's what sex does but it doesn't always mean a good thing.
So yes, even if the drunk one felt pleasure it was just their body reacting to it (against their will). It doesn't lessen the fact that someone had non consensual sex with them, rape is rape. I don't get what the problem is, just have sober consensual sex and save yourself the lawsuit and trying to victim blame. It's not that hard.
Please, a lot of drunk people still recognize other people and themselves. This was rape, to its literal point
Lmao, no need to be rude dude.
I know it isn't black and white. One of the reasons why this law exists is to avoid getting into such sticky situations. You saw Xing Si's reaction when he woke up, that man looked horrified and his reaction towards his little brother was enough evidence to prove that he did not want it. Even if he said yes, the fact still remains that he would not have made the same choice sober. Laws exist for a reason, they aren't black and white I agree but in this case this was clear rape! The little brother got him drunk on purpose, the fact that Xing Si admitted that he loved him too should have been enough for him. Instead he took it further. When YongJie said that he would kiss Xing Si when he was sober is proof that deep down he knew that this wasn't right.
In this case this was rape, a guy got the other drunk and then proceeded to sleep with him. There's something wrong with you if you don't think that was rape. This is a very common rape pattern. Just because you're in love with a person doesn't mean that's how you try to get closer to them.
*SPOILER* next episode it looks like Muren is going to go through the same thing, I bet that's rape to you because he doesn't like the man. That man will do the same thing to Muren, like Yong Jie did to Xing Si. I wonder what you'll think of that. I also saw that YongJie will try jumping off a building in the next episode. A great way to make Xing Si feel guilty about not returning the same feelings as YongJie even though he is the victim. YongJie is emotionally blackmailing Xing Si, but that's a conversation you're not ready to have.
Gene nibbling on the pretzel stick was the cutest thing...my heart man. Aoey, I did not understand a single thing about his story, the only thing that made sense was his sister. I was on Aoey's side with regards to that but I fear he is going to wreck havoc in Gene and Nubsib's lives. The saying goes: Hurt people hurt people.
Looks like we finally get a peek into Nubsib's life next episode. Gene's reaction is what scared me, is Nubsib the son of the company Gene works at. Who is his father and will it clear this sus feelings I've had of Sib? Because tbh to me it looks like Sib knew of and liked Gene waaaaaaaaaay before they met.
I was actually starting to warm up to the little brother, I was like: he finally apologized and he doesn't seem that bad anymore. Until he purposefully got his brother drunk and basically raped him. We all knew the older brother liked him back and was being held back by the fact that they are brothers(albeit step brothers). He even 'drunk confessed' that he liked him back as well BUT(!!) that is not an invitation to sleep with someone! Even if they say yes, if that person is drunk it is NOT consensual!
I bet you that they are going to down play this whole thing and make Xing Si seem like the bad guy. For now they are making it seem as though they are on his side but they are going to turn those tables around. "He liked you as a kid" "you seem to like him back so what's the problem" "he didn't know how else to tell you that he liked you" "you aren't blood related brothers" bluh bluh bluh freaken bluh!!
In all honesty their relationship should end right here, but we all know that Xing Si is going to forgive him and they are going to end up together. Absolute bullcrap! I kept hoping that Yong Jie would stop at the love confession. I even felt relieved when he said he would kiss him when he was sober, they got me good I won't lie.
The fact that Yong Jie kept asking Xing Si if he recognized him and vice versa did not soften the blow as well. A lot of drunk people still remember who they are and who their family and friends are. Some even behave in a sober manner but we know they aren't. Really disappointing.
Muren and Li Cheng are still my favourite, they aren't perfect but I like them the best so far.
I'm pretty disgusted with cancel culture. Ji Soo is a great actor and has been acting for many years, and suddenly…
Bullying and sexual harrasment are not the same thing. If someone did that to me idc 13 years or 50 years ago I would still want them punished. Trauma isn't the same for people, it may take years for people to actually open up about what happened to them. Especially considering the fact that the last time they ever saw Ji Soo he was still a bully and sexual predator. So they might have been scared to come out with their story, they took into consideration what he would say, what his fans would say and what the rest would say. It takes a lot to come out, no one complained with the #me2 movement or with the R Kelly story. Most of the victims carried this with them for decades and you understood were they were coming from and yet you can't understand these victims? Victim blaming is a huge problem in todays world, it doesn't matter that Ji Soo is now a better person from what he was 13 years ago but fact remains that he did those things in the past and he should own up.
They do seriously go into the circumstances of the weird marriage - although it is just getting resolved now in…
Yes, like I said. Though I do not like step sibling relationships I'm a bit more understanding since they recently became step brothers. Even it it were step brother and step sister relationship I would still feel uncomfortable, I'm not saying it for same sex couples only. I know they aren't blood related but it still doesn't feel right to me, I'm not saying I dissaprove of it. It's just not my favourite. I felt the same with Love by Chance and History 4, even with wattpad books I ended up dropping them . Me not being comfortable with something doesn't always mean I dissaprove of it. I'm trying very hard to be more accepting of this trope and it's damn hard but hopefully one day I'll get there. I think the fact that step sibling relationship always bring out conflicts with the parents involved, friends and the rest of society has conditioned me to be scared of such story lines. They usually don't have a happy ending.
I can't be as understanding for the teacher. It's not professional at all and should not be encouraged. It's like saying just because I am a student psychologist it's okay for me to date my client, it's not because it opens doors to a lot of ethical issues. I understand that at the end of the day he hasn't really acted upon his feelings, and I hope that he doesn't. He chose this profession there's no excuse to go out with a student. In South Africa if a psychologist falls in love with a client they are required to separate with the client for two years and if they still feel the same way for each other then they can date. It's not ecouraged though, this has been hard wired into me and that's why I am not as forgiving.
Well this episode did not go the way I thought it would go *insert sad laugh*, like yo man...thanks for the tears.
It's crazy how in the end(not the end end since we still have one more episode to go) everyone(especially Phupha) tells Tian to do what he wants, to live his own life and make his own decisions and yet Phupha's decision is final and Tian has no say. Look, I understand that Phupha is doing everything in the best interest of Tian, I mean we saw how hard he took everything. But I also feel like Tian's wishes and feelings were once again shoved to the side. His parents want to give him autonomy yet it must be under their rule, he wants to stay at the village and continue being with the chief but yet he can't because the chief wants him to live a life that Tian doesn't want.
That poor kid just wants to make his own decisions, he wants to live life the way he finds fit. Everyone keeps saying he is the one in control of his life yet they are literally the ones controlling his life. It's emotional abuse if you ask me(yeah I said it).
It's a no brainer that they love each other but they just aren't meeting in the middle. One is willing to lose the person they love so that that person can live a 'happier' life and one the other one is willing to give up everything just to stay with the person they love. None of these sides are wrong, I just hope they fight harder to be together(COME ON EP 10!! GIVE ME THE GOOD STUFF!!).
Tian's parents are acting as though Tian can't come and visit them. I'm just saying let the child be in control of their lives, let him do what he wants and achieve what he wants on his own.
On a ligher note...who else died laughing when they saw Phupha with a beard? *spirit continues to laugh insanely*. I was not ready *insert laugh*, I went from sad and crying to a laughing mess *still laughing*. It made me forget about how heavy this ep was.
you should watch it!! i don't think the reviews are mixed because this is a bad or even an average bl, they are…
It's obvious that Torfan(the lady who gave her heart to Tian) liked the Chief but I can promise you that in the end Tian falls in love with the Chief not because of the heart of someone else. I was also worried about that but that's not the case. Tian didn't go there to fullfil Torfans love for the Chief. Rather he went there to give closure to the villagers and complete Torfans wish.
I recommend that you watch, overall it is a beautiful bl.
I'm not ready for today. Pha has no right to die or fall into a coma because he still needs to apologize to Tian. I juat wanna see the both of them actually happy and together. Stay alive Chief!
So yes, even if the drunk one felt pleasure it was just their body reacting to it (against their will). It doesn't lessen the fact that someone had non consensual sex with them, rape is rape. I don't get what the problem is, just have sober consensual sex and save yourself the lawsuit and trying to victim blame. It's not that hard.
I know it isn't black and white. One of the reasons why this law exists is to avoid getting into such sticky situations. You saw Xing Si's reaction when he woke up, that man looked horrified and his reaction towards his little brother was enough evidence to prove that he did not want it. Even if he said yes, the fact still remains that he would not have made the same choice sober. Laws exist for a reason, they aren't black and white I agree but in this case this was clear rape! The little brother got him drunk on purpose, the fact that Xing Si admitted that he loved him too should have been enough for him. Instead he took it further.
When YongJie said that he would kiss Xing Si when he was sober is proof that deep down he knew that this wasn't right.
In this case this was rape, a guy got the other drunk and then proceeded to sleep with him. There's something wrong with you if you don't think that was rape. This is a very common rape pattern. Just because you're in love with a person doesn't mean that's how you try to get closer to them.
*SPOILER*
next episode it looks like Muren is going to go through the same thing, I bet that's rape to you because he doesn't like the man. That man will do the same thing to Muren, like Yong Jie did to Xing Si. I wonder what you'll think of that.
I also saw that YongJie will try jumping off a building in the next episode. A great way to make Xing Si feel guilty about not returning the same feelings as YongJie even though he is the victim. YongJie is emotionally blackmailing Xing Si, but that's a conversation you're not ready to have.
Aoey, I did not understand a single thing about his story, the only thing that made sense was his sister. I was on Aoey's side with regards to that but I fear he is going to wreck havoc in Gene and Nubsib's lives. The saying goes: Hurt people hurt people.
Looks like we finally get a peek into Nubsib's life next episode. Gene's reaction is what scared me, is Nubsib the son of the company Gene works at. Who is his father and will it clear this sus feelings I've had of Sib? Because tbh to me it looks like Sib knew of and liked Gene waaaaaaaaaay before they met.
Let's wait and see.
We all knew the older brother liked him back and was being held back by the fact that they are brothers(albeit step brothers). He even 'drunk confessed' that he liked him back as well BUT(!!) that is not an invitation to sleep with someone! Even if they say yes, if that person is drunk it is NOT consensual!
I bet you that they are going to down play this whole thing and make Xing Si seem like the bad guy. For now they are making it seem as though they are on his side but they are going to turn those tables around. "He liked you as a kid" "you seem to like him back so what's the problem" "he didn't know how else to tell you that he liked you" "you aren't blood related brothers" bluh bluh bluh freaken bluh!!
In all honesty their relationship should end right here, but we all know that Xing Si is going to forgive him and they are going to end up together. Absolute bullcrap! I kept hoping that Yong Jie would stop at the love confession. I even felt relieved when he said he would kiss him when he was sober, they got me good I won't lie.
The fact that Yong Jie kept asking Xing Si if he recognized him and vice versa did not soften the blow as well. A lot of drunk people still remember who they are and who their family and friends are. Some even behave in a sober manner but we know they aren't. Really disappointing.
Muren and Li Cheng are still my favourite, they aren't perfect but I like them the best so far.
Trauma isn't the same for people, it may take years for people to actually open up about what happened to them. Especially considering the fact that the last time they ever saw Ji Soo he was still a bully and sexual predator. So they might have been scared to come out with their story, they took into consideration what he would say, what his fans would say and what the rest would say.
It takes a lot to come out, no one complained with the #me2 movement or with the R Kelly story. Most of the victims carried this with them for decades and you understood were they were coming from and yet you can't understand these victims?
Victim blaming is a huge problem in todays world, it doesn't matter that Ji Soo is now a better person from what he was 13 years ago but fact remains that he did those things in the past and he should own up.
Even it it were step brother and step sister relationship I would still feel uncomfortable, I'm not saying it for same sex couples only.
I know they aren't blood related but it still doesn't feel right to me, I'm not saying I dissaprove of it. It's just not my favourite. I felt the same with Love by Chance and History 4, even with wattpad books I ended up dropping them . Me not being comfortable with something doesn't always mean I dissaprove of it. I'm trying very hard to be more accepting of this trope and it's damn hard but hopefully one day I'll get there. I think the fact that step sibling relationship always bring out conflicts with the parents involved, friends and the rest of society has conditioned me to be scared of such story lines. They usually don't have a happy ending.
I can't be as understanding for the teacher. It's not professional at all and should not be encouraged. It's like saying just because I am a student psychologist it's okay for me to date my client, it's not because it opens doors to a lot of ethical issues. I understand that at the end of the day he hasn't really acted upon his feelings, and I hope that he doesn't. He chose this profession there's no excuse to go out with a student. In South Africa if a psychologist falls in love with a client they are required to separate with the client for two years and if they still feel the same way for each other then they can date. It's not ecouraged though, this has been hard wired into me and that's why I am not as forgiving.
It's crazy how in the end(not the end end since we still have one more episode to go) everyone(especially Phupha) tells Tian to do what he wants, to live his own life and make his own decisions and yet Phupha's decision is final and Tian has no say.
Look, I understand that Phupha is doing everything in the best interest of Tian, I mean we saw how hard he took everything. But I also feel like Tian's wishes and feelings were once again shoved to the side. His parents want to give him autonomy yet it must be under their rule, he wants to stay at the village and continue being with the chief but yet he can't because the chief wants him to live a life that Tian doesn't want.
That poor kid just wants to make his own decisions, he wants to live life the way he finds fit. Everyone keeps saying he is the one in control of his life yet they are literally the ones controlling his life. It's emotional abuse if you ask me(yeah I said it).
It's a no brainer that they love each other but they just aren't meeting in the middle. One is willing to lose the person they love so that that person can live a 'happier' life and one the other one is willing to give up everything just to stay with the person they love. None of these sides are wrong, I just hope they fight harder to be together(COME ON EP 10!! GIVE ME THE GOOD STUFF!!).
Tian's parents are acting as though Tian can't come and visit them. I'm just saying let the child be in control of their lives, let him do what he wants and achieve what he wants on his own.
On a ligher note...who else died laughing when they saw Phupha with a beard? *spirit continues to laugh insanely*. I was not ready *insert laugh*, I went from sad and crying to a laughing mess *still laughing*. It made me forget about how heavy this ep was.
I was also worried about that but that's not the case. Tian didn't go there to fullfil Torfans love for the Chief. Rather he went there to give closure to the villagers and complete Torfans wish.
I recommend that you watch, overall it is a beautiful bl.