CrazyBlonde

Well thanks for befriending me and letting me help you through that pain, as you know, I have the time, I`m a housewife, no job, thankfully, with lots but nothing to do, so anytime... Vent away... :D

I know, I see where the bitterness, hatred, and pain are coming from, men can be downright mean, but us women are the best at being cruel, we so much crueler when causing hurt or pain, men can be cruel, but without knowing it, they don`t have that capability of knowing it like us women, we, when we`re cruel, we know it, men just doing it when they`re being mean without knowing it, it hurts us, but knowingly we hurt, and so much better at it, other people, and it seems that the number of women are going that just seem to enjoy hurting others, they just don`t care as you said it. I fully understand, my brother went through it, and he`s going through the same pain you`re going through, but I have to say, you pale compared to him, he`s already blown a cork, so sad us women have to be like that... That`s why I reached out to you hun, I`m going through that pain right now with my brother, and it sucks, it really sucks, and it`s only getting worse as the generations go on... Years ago shows weren`t even like this, they were decent. You`re still able to find more decent Japanese dramas, but sadly, like the Taiwanese and Korean writer`s, they`re becoming worse, more love triangles, but they`re writing to suit these women`s desires, and it`s sad, they shouldn`t follow the masses like that, stay strong and have morals... It`s so rare to find a GOOD romance any longer, and when they are that GOOD romance, no love triangle, no main 2nd lead romances, no ludicrous break ups, you just see and watch the romance grow and bloom, that kind of romance you just don`t find any longer unless it`s a melodrama, and even then they`re becoming trash too, so sad... Even the movies are starting with that kind of trash and it`s, as you say, despicable... So sad... There are still a lot of good Japanese dramas though, some writer`s aren`t following the masses...

Hehe, I`m loving it, you go docnty, let her have straight between the eyes, LOL, I`m having so much fun...

You`re being just a smidge, not too too much, but only a smidge, harsh, but I agree with you, women who hit, especially the ones like in this show, ones that just don`t give a DAMN, are true sows in the worst degree as you said it, they give us other women truly a bad name. I have slapped my husband on the arm as you have mentioned while laughing watching a movie, I`ll never do it again, did it without even realizing... It`s not a nice thing to do, and I`ll be the first to say I`m stopping that kind of action...

Too much violence in this drama by us women, this writer is as Docnty says, sick, she`s a real twisted bitch, shame on her for all the violence from ALL the women in here, it is bitches like this wench of a bitch that give us other women such a bad name... I fullheartedly agree with Docnty, let`s go find a male pig somewhere, and this is coming from a woman, the male lead`s mother, wow, all of the women in here that hit or slapped, just despicable... And it isn`t just in drama`s, it`s just a sick world we live in, no wonder we have women beaters in this world, women beaters, rapists, etc... Maybe if we didn`t hit men, dressed more proper, acted more like a lady, men would treat us better... Oh, and can`t forget, treat our boyfriends and husbands proper, and show proper love...

Docnty, you`ll want to stay away from this one, it just another despicable love triangle story, it`s just nasty filthy, these writers are obsessive, selfish, and just nasty... You really wanna stay away from this one... It`s not even worth the watch, it`s disgustingly sick...

Like Docnty said, this drama was done long before it started, I thought the main leads, Yuya and Mitsuki were really cute, Docnty, I think Mitsuki`s your type, from what we`ve chatted about and so on, she`s most definitely one of your types I think... :P

So sad, the betrayal got me, I didn`t care they brought in the ghost, although that just brought in a love triangle of which I detest very much, just sick...

So glad you didn`t watch this one, I couldn`t rate it it was so bad, I don`t understand why these Asian(Taiwanese, Thailandese, Korean, and yes, Japanese, although nowhere`s near as bad as the others) writers have to be so sick as you said it and so obsessed with these dumb and stupid love triangles... I want to see a really good romance without this filth and trash, seriously. Argh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I hear you brother, it was a very horrible love story, if you can call it that. I am in great agreement with you in that it was just a trashy story, it was all about the love triangle, and she`s gets with her baby`s doctor for a time, this writer has no morals, this writer is disgustingly sick as you said it... Shame on these kinds of writers, they are the kind that would cheat on their partner in a heart beat... Man or woman, no morals at all...

But a really awesome drama with an awesome romance, as the synopsis says, he dies, but other than him dying, it`s a really great story... I really loved it, one of the few really good ones...

Other than a woman beater and an obsessive selfish asshole, this was a really awesome show, so great to see such chemistry, I really loved the actress, she was really feisty, but had a lot of loving to give, someone said this could have used at least one more episode to finish this, I quite agree...

He's told me a little of his story just now, I have to say, what he's been through, as much as I hate to say it, I don't blame him, he has every right to blame, hate and bash women as you put it, I think if I were in his shoes I'd probably do the same thing... As I said somewhere DOCNTY I am so sorry that you had to go through what you went through, my heart bleeds for you my friend, thanks for accepting friendship, anytime you need to talk, you have my number, USE IT WISELY!!! LOL, and next time instead of getting these women here, like Nadil all riled up, call me, talk to me, vent, I don't care, whatever you need to do, that's why I'm here...

@Nadil, I guess you said who slaps for fun, I'm guilty of it, I slap my husband all the time and without even thinking about it, it's not out of anger, just something silly he does or something on TV, I know I'll never do it again, or at least try not to, and DOCNTY, if I ever do hit my husband again, I will humbly apologize for it. I remember my husband bumped into me once, just a misunderstanding, it was a complete accident, but I thought he was angry and had purposely hit me, I felt very angry, so I understand the feelings you're trying to get out there, just tone it down, don't egg these women on, like I said, just call...

@DOCNTY, a woman's heart is unchanging, once she's a certain way, there's no going back, once a feminist always a feminist, it's like alcoholism or drug abuse, once it's in your system, there's no getting rid of it, unfortunately, and don't get too upset over it, but you're gonna have to accept it... This is what our world is today and what it has become... I hate seeing women harming other women, and Nadil, I'm not excusing what you are doing either, it's wrong, shame on you for it, you're no better than the rest of our lowly feminists out there, you give the rest of us a bad name, shame on you...

IT'S TIME TO GROW UP AND BECOME ADULTS PEOPLE, MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE!!! IT'S TIME TO BE THE MEN AND WOMEN WE TRULY SHOULD BE!!!

He is clearly only trying to protect her, it's not a love triangle, like you, I thought at first it was another, as you put it, despicable love triangle, but it's not, I'm almost through this show, and I'm loving it, just keep watching, you'll see him in a different light...

@DOCNTY, not all women are like that, yes, we may lovingly slap our men at times, but it isn't abuse, but you've made me think, I don't think I'll slap my husband on the arm anymore, I never truly thought about it the way you have put it... I apologize to you for all women hitting their or any man, you're right, it is wrong, but you have to tone it down, you get too harsh, you'll have more women hating you than understanding you the way you're acting...

HAHA, what can of worms did you open girl? LOL he does have a point though, women shouldn't hit men, I'm guilty of it myself, not even thinking I'll slap my husband's arm while watching a movie, and not even think about it, I'll think before I do it next time... But what you're doing is just egging him on, just ignore him, as much as he does have a point, he is being harsh about it...

Sad...

Ugh, get rid of this bitch Jin Hee, totally erase all feelings for another if you're going to get back with your ex, how nasty and dirty, and low can you get, I feel ashamed for all women because of this spiteful bitch. She doesn't deserve to be back with her ex-husband, he's too good for her.

Ugh, get that arrogant prick father off this show, he's so shameful...

No matter what way you look at him, she was so wrong in divorcing him, if I were him, I'd never take her back, she was just plain cruel, then to go on TV and just degrade him the way she did, so implorible, I still can't believe there are women out there that are like her... Shameful...