Daenerys

In a way they both need to have a healthier relationship with their mothers. I think FL might be too hard on her mother and not understand the challenges she went through. I wonder what the background story is about the divorce.

I know right! WY has been disrespectful to their relationship from day one. ML and her don't even have chemistry, all it is, is her using her money to get him.

I honestly dislike this CL. Yes if your best friend betrayed (which it'n to that straight forward), it still does not give you the right to have an affair with the man or torture her by not revealing where her child is. Poor Wan Wan was crying for her mother, as a woman you don't even care?

I really don't understand these accusations of FL being selfish or even flirtatious. She is not selfish and is not flirting with anyone.

In the stay path she sacrifices her career and has a MIL from hell really and ML needs to learn to say no to his mother. His outburst of looking down on them was so incorrect, yet it's the mother who wants that house. I also think his sister's story is a representation of what may come when you sacrifice for a husband, she can't even visit her family for long because she is reliant on him.

On the career path, nothing selfish about wanting to realize your dreams. She is not flirting with her boss at all.

I wonder how that annoying SFL ended up getting to her apartment when she was excited to see her boyfriend.

I think some people seem to love ML in that they love the actor and can't see the story objectively.

This really should be higher rate than 8.1. It's really good.

This is just the type of drama it is. That’s the story the writer wanted to tell. Scent of Time comes to mind for me. Have you watched it? It’s different genre, different story but the FL was in a dream state, so everything was based on what she was feeling. The person in the dream/imaginative state can come out with whatever ever they imagine it doesn’t have to be logical. It’s what they’re going through emotionally that is projected.
The story is logical though she has seen his face on the information pack, probably knows a little bit about him by researching for the job and we have seen those dramas when you go to the city everything is so expensive, pressure is on, back stabbing coworker and Prince Charming CEO helps you out 😂.

From the time we met her, she didn't really hide her interest.

If she would have imagined a perfect relationship we would not have had a story lol...

I also think these are genuine concerns women may have and these things do actually happen too.
If you have a long distance relationship, it is an underlying worry that it may not work, you may drift apart he cheats etc. If you also become a stay at home wife you might have those fears or insecurities that your husband might meet someone who you may view is better than you at work.

Maybe we are seeing her deepest fears in that crossroad. Both paths do not look easy.

It's always interesting how they do these imagination stories or dream stories. They have so many layers, so many characters and situations to think a person could imagine so much in short period of time.

Yes. Also teaser for ep12 looks like he is marrying the other girl.

Thy make it look that way but not sure what will actually happen.

We are watching 2 paths at the same time. My understanding is this:
One path is if she stayed, in short , she stays has no job marries ML , has a kid and he cheats on her.
Second path , chooses her career. In short, he cheats because she moved. MIL is already pushing him to someone else in the leave scenario. MIL never wanted her to live with them in the when she stayed scenario, so I don’t think she is that nice.
In both scenarios I don’t find FL selfish. If she stayed she would have to completely give up who she is yet ML gets to be his own person. I also understand how in both scenarios their relationship can breakdown. Feel sorry for both. I wonder what the real ending will be.

LFL is starting to annoy me. He interrogates those kids in inappropriate settings and going into someone's room with no search warrant. Where was he when Nan Ya was getting abused now he going so hard for the one person who has always stood up to try to protect her. Even his girlfriend is over it.

Why do other people's crimes in that village seem to go unpunished. CL destroyed evidence which was also hospital property. Her and that annoying kid set fire to the car. Not even the village gossipers are having a field day with that or the fact she was having an affair. It should really have been leaked information by now since everyone sees her outbursts. CL holding on so tight to a person who didn't love you and beats a woman

Hope Nan Ya, ZL and WW leave that miserable village soon.

I agree with you. I personally don’t feel it’s bad. I think they should ask what the contestants are comfortable with when they pick.

After the age reveal I feel like Cho A doesn’t have any other options. I don’t think she would date someone much younger. And YH too. These dating shows are not always good at the age thing. I wonder if they will introduce another set of siblings later on in Singapore.

That’s ok we all have different views.

Aren’t they 7 yrs apart? I don’t find that bad. I think below the double digits is fine.

I think because of editing we probably didn’t see much of the other interactions between CJ and YJ. I also think she wasn’t too confident being with JW after the whole SK stuff. She was even surprised he had chosen her, he had publicly chosen SK at the truth or dare . If I was her, even with him choosing me, I would worry that the ex would still interfere with our relationship. CJ kept giving assurances that I wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t sure I would change and make you happy. She already knows what it’s like to be in a relationship with him and she needed certain changes to make it better.

Yeah me too. Only use when necessary. JH doesn't seem romantically interested in the girls he has spent time with so times like that is valid.

I think they might all use if they need to. JS is the only one I do not have full confidence in using it, since he seems to always has someone he wants to show interest in. JH will probably use it the most after his conversation with SS, he doesn't like to accidentally lead anyone on.

I really like how they introduced the "None" response, relieves some pressure and the choice is more authentic when you choose someone.