If she would have imagined a perfect relationship we would not have had a story lol...I also think these are genuine…
This is just the type of drama it is. That’s the story the writer wanted to tell. Scent of Time comes to mind for me. Have you watched it? It’s different genre, different story but the FL was in a dream state, so everything was based on what she was feeling. The person in the dream/imaginative state can come out with whatever ever they imagine it doesn’t have to be logical. It’s what they’re going through emotionally that is projected. The story is logical though she has seen his face on the information pack, probably knows a little bit about him by researching for the job and we have seen those dramas when you go to the city everything is so expensive, pressure is on, back stabbing coworker and Prince Charming CEO helps you out 😂.
This story to me seems more of her imagination of if she chooses which life she wants but one thing I don’t…
If she would have imagined a perfect relationship we would not have had a story lol...
I also think these are genuine concerns women may have and these things do actually happen too. If you have a long distance relationship, it is an underlying worry that it may not work, you may drift apart he cheats etc. If you also become a stay at home wife you might have those fears or insecurities that your husband might meet someone who you may view is better than you at work.
Maybe we are seeing her deepest fears in that crossroad. Both paths do not look easy.
It's always interesting how they do these imagination stories or dream stories. They have so many layers, so many characters and situations to think a person could imagine so much in short period of time.
Btw LXY is a sweet angel in this show, he's gentle and and always want the best for FL, and his mother is so good…
We are watching 2 paths at the same time. My understanding is this: One path is if she stayed, in short , she stays has no job marries ML , has a kid and he cheats on her. Second path , chooses her career. In short, he cheats because she moved. MIL is already pushing him to someone else in the leave scenario. MIL never wanted her to live with them in the when she stayed scenario, so I don’t think she is that nice. In both scenarios I don’t find FL selfish. If she stayed she would have to completely give up who she is yet ML gets to be his own person. I also understand how in both scenarios their relationship can breakdown. Feel sorry for both. I wonder what the real ending will be.
LFL is starting to annoy me. He interrogates those kids in inappropriate settings and going into someone's room with no search warrant. Where was he when Nan Ya was getting abused now he going so hard for the one person who has always stood up to try to protect her. Even his girlfriend is over it.
Why do other people's crimes in that village seem to go unpunished. CL destroyed evidence which was also hospital property. Her and that annoying kid set fire to the car. Not even the village gossipers are having a field day with that or the fact she was having an affair. It should really have been leaked information by now since everyone sees her outbursts. CL holding on so tight to a person who didn't love you and beats a woman
Hope Nan Ya, ZL and WW leave that miserable village soon.
After the age reveal I feel like Cho A doesn’t have any other options. I don’t think she would date someone much younger. And YH too. These dating shows are not always good at the age thing. I wonder if they will introduce another set of siblings later on in Singapore.
yujung broke up over text and changjin didn't even bother replying to it...idk how you can get back after something…
I think because of editing we probably didn’t see much of the other interactions between CJ and YJ. I also think she wasn’t too confident being with JW after the whole SK stuff. She was even surprised he had chosen her, he had publicly chosen SK at the truth or dare . If I was her, even with him choosing me, I would worry that the ex would still interfere with our relationship. CJ kept giving assurances that I wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t sure I would change and make you happy. She already knows what it’s like to be in a relationship with him and she needed certain changes to make it better.
yea, me too. i would like to know if this makes a big changes on the texting times after some "assigned" date.i…
I think they might all use if they need to. JS is the only one I do not have full confidence in using it, since he seems to always has someone he wants to show interest in. JH will probably use it the most after his conversation with SS, he doesn't like to accidentally lead anyone on.
I was not too thrilled with the journey but ok with the results. I am so petty, I am glad SK found out she doesn't have control over JW, even if the rumor is true that got back together it was just nice for her to know you can't treat someone like property.
Happy about YJ and CJ nice to hear they are still going strong, the look CJ was going YJ was so hot, it like he wanted to jump on her lol....
Glad HW didn't go back to her ex even if things didn't work out for her after the show.
I agree with most of what you said except about Choa. You actually proved yourself wrong, you say she accepts…
She has made an effort with YW she has she did talk to him when she finished work late. She also tried to make an effort to be a good housemate with JS when she wrote in the guest book. Everyone does not have to be built the same and make it so competitive. Not all the girls are not chasing maybe JW. SS had naturally built something you can call a relationship with SS because of how the dates went and he was showering her with gifts and words. I haven’t seen YH go out of her way to chase anyone. Choa is also an introvert pair that with not being able to be in the house properly early on because she couldn’t get any time off work makes it harder to be comfortable in a group. Again everyone does not have to built the same I think it will make the house so stressful. CH is also trying in the way he can. He went out for a walk with SS but she was already loved up to see what’s happening. He also tried with JW and JY. You may not like his rizz but don’t accuse him of not trying.
The story is logical though she has seen his face on the information pack, probably knows a little bit about him by researching for the job and we have seen those dramas when you go to the city everything is so expensive, pressure is on, back stabbing coworker and Prince Charming CEO helps you out 😂.
I also think these are genuine concerns women may have and these things do actually happen too.
If you have a long distance relationship, it is an underlying worry that it may not work, you may drift apart he cheats etc. If you also become a stay at home wife you might have those fears or insecurities that your husband might meet someone who you may view is better than you at work.
Maybe we are seeing her deepest fears in that crossroad. Both paths do not look easy.
It's always interesting how they do these imagination stories or dream stories. They have so many layers, so many characters and situations to think a person could imagine so much in short period of time.
One path is if she stayed, in short , she stays has no job marries ML , has a kid and he cheats on her.
Second path , chooses her career. In short, he cheats because she moved. MIL is already pushing him to someone else in the leave scenario. MIL never wanted her to live with them in the when she stayed scenario, so I don’t think she is that nice.
In both scenarios I don’t find FL selfish. If she stayed she would have to completely give up who she is yet ML gets to be his own person. I also understand how in both scenarios their relationship can breakdown. Feel sorry for both. I wonder what the real ending will be.
Why do other people's crimes in that village seem to go unpunished. CL destroyed evidence which was also hospital property. Her and that annoying kid set fire to the car. Not even the village gossipers are having a field day with that or the fact she was having an affair. It should really have been leaked information by now since everyone sees her outbursts. CL holding on so tight to a person who didn't love you and beats a woman
Hope Nan Ya, ZL and WW leave that miserable village soon.
Happy about YJ and CJ nice to hear they are still going strong, the look CJ was going YJ was so hot, it like he wanted to jump on her lol....
Glad HW didn't go back to her ex even if things didn't work out for her after the show.
CH is also trying in the way he can. He went out for a walk with SS but she was already loved up to see what’s happening. He also tried with JW and JY. You may not like his rizz but don’t accuse him of not trying.