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Replying to Enigma05 Mar 27, 2022
These ppl should live their own advice and see how it is.
Hindsight is 20/20; now you'd think after oh I don't know the 76th time Dear Abby Wannabe's advice had the polar opposite effect, one would go "hmmm 🤔🤔🤔maybe listening to this person is a bad idea. I've got my own brain and mouth; I can figure this out on my own." Or here's a real shocker; using logic and actually asking the bf what he means as chances are huge, he'll actually be honest.
Replying to XXI Mar 27, 2022
I was wondering what you would say about the third lead couple's situation & Dear Abby Wannabe & it's another…
Hey, truth hurts. But if this is to be believable, she's gotta suck it up and mature or the relationship won't last and she may lose the only man that really cares about her. As for DAW, only someone like GX can probably deal with her; any real nice guy will jump ship 2 seconds after meeting her.
Replying to XXI Mar 27, 2022
Yin Xi to San San: "don't give [Zhi Xiao] bad advice." Finally someone said it! (I know that with episode 19 we're…
These ppl should live their own advice and see how it is.
Replying to XXI Mar 27, 2022
I was wondering what you would say about the third lead couple's situation & Dear Abby Wannabe & it's another…
Her friend needed a boot up the ass not a night out to stoke her insecurities. DAW can’t see straight or live right but she’s all up in other ppl’s biz like it’s her damn job. Sometimes, the best advice you can give, is nothing at all. They’re all adults, they should be figuring their own crap out.
Replying to XXI Mar 27, 2022
I was wondering what you would say about the third lead couple's situation & Dear Abby Wannabe & it's another…
Thanks. It’s too much teenage stupidity. Like we were all 21 or whatever they are at some point; most of us didn’t think or act that stupid. It takes away from the natural essence of the story.
Replying to OneLuffy Mar 27, 2022
The main leads chemistry is off the charts! Gu Wei is probably the ideal bf type - he doesn't mind being intimate…
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Replying to OneLuffy Mar 27, 2022
The main leads chemistry is off the charts! Gu Wei is probably the ideal bf type - he doesn't mind being intimate…
I pray for someone to drop DAW off a cliff and GX to grow a pair. Yes hopefully smooth sailing for the rest of the series.
Replying to OneLuffy Mar 27, 2022
The main leads chemistry is off the charts! Gu Wei is probably the ideal bf type - he doesn't mind being intimate…
Totally agree with you. I don't like when a series wraps up by galloping to the finish line like a runaway horse. Slow and steady wins the race.
Replying to OneLuffy Mar 27, 2022
The main leads chemistry is off the charts! Gu Wei is probably the ideal bf type - he doesn't mind being intimate…
Only person that took his side objectively was our Dr. Gu and look much trouble that got him in when his gf got drunk and stupid. Started talking with a random stranger at the club; no one knew if that person was a good human being or some creep. These ppl aren't smart when they're sober; now being plastered dancing with strangers....could have been a recipe for disaster.

I hope that since this is after all a smart modern drama, that DAW backs off and the cling-wrap "victim" chick gets a clue. Even if he apologizes and they go back to their past BS, that relationship is never going to last. Not that way. We have 9 episodes to go and a lot to still work out for the main leads plus 2 sets of parents, a wedding, and kids and a trip abroad? Let alone all these extra wheels and their issues. I want a smooth ending to this drama. Not a rushed something or other many dramas love to do. Just the way it developed maturely, is the way it should wrap up and end.
Replying to halla Mar 27, 2022
the duality of this man,,,,,, from his role in The Untamed i should have known but it's hot? in both shows? and…
You should also check out Duolou Continent and Ace Troops. A very multi-faceted actor.
Replying to OneLuffy Mar 27, 2022
The main leads chemistry is off the charts! Gu Wei is probably the ideal bf type - he doesn't mind being intimate…
That clingy ain't cute at any age. They're not Siamese twins. I also hope she's the one to come to her senses and apologizes not him. I mean couple's clothing? What era are we in? They say 2019 but that's more like 1919. The only time I've seen humans wear matching things in my long ass lifetime is when moms dress their twins or triplets. As children! Not college students unless they have a serious connection through tacit understanding or telepathy. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ Plus sharing each PDA filled moment on social media? Da fuq? Are you dating a man or the internet?

You can tell he's worried about her being out and about at night, but she's all "I'm the victim". Nah girl, you're really not. And having 2 drunk friends call and yell at him? Wtf dude! Not cool. 50 shades of stupid right there!
On The Oath of Love Mar 26, 2022
19 and 20; when they were together, very cute. The couch photo session, trip, and hotel scenes were really funny and realistic and I like how straightforward he is about them being intimate or not in this case. I think instead of day dreaming or asking her dumbass friends for advice, she should just straightforwardly ask him! It's quite obvious he'll reply and no misunderstandings needed.

But the whole her getting drunk and transposing the problems of her friend on her own relationship wasn't smart. Plus Dear Abby Wannabe w/her big mouth didn't help matters. Having a healthy relationship means giving each other space not being attached at the hip. I'm with the third leads bf on this one. I get it, young and dumb, but you ppl need to chill. When bf is afraid to have dinner w/classmates because he isn't stitched to his gf every minute he's free, that's a serious issue of insecurity and self-esteem that the girl needs to handle. I also feel bad a bit for GX, DAW aka Dear Abby Wannabe has him saved in her phone as "idiot", meanwhile he's a masochist who fell in love with that wannabe motormouth. I swear them two add nothing but annoyance to this very mature and otherwise smart modern drama. I just want to see GW and LZX work on having a lasting and healthy relationship; ups and downs required for reality but w/out all of these extra 3rd wheels. Is that too much to ask?

P.S. Only 9 episodes left of this drama.
Replying to tigermom Mar 26, 2022
Title The Oath of Love Spoiler
There is a preview in the DVD version. She will join him so he will not be traveling alone.
Here it’s apparently Germany.
Replying to 7415641 Mar 26, 2022
I'm guessing if we see promos of the weibo account of drama update, should be a good sign.
Good point.
On The Oath of Love Mar 26, 2022
Ok so here's a question; they've announced Sunday or 3/27 to be mourning day for the plane crash. Stars have already have taken to Weibo to post their mourning messages. So I understand that's the day of official mourning and we won't get any episodes. What does that mean for Monday though? Anyone have concrete facts not rumor based? Thanks.
Replying to Yingmi Mar 26, 2022
Have you ever seen the American Angel?There's a part where Angel tells about Wesley 'Poor old Wesley who always…
An Angel fan I see; yes I get your point. Dear Abby wannabe though, doesn't look at both sides of the coin; she's like a slug that sticks to one side and is aggressive and often irrational in her thinking, speaking, and acting. I sincerely hope Mr. Playboy walks out on her ass until she realizes how dumb as nails she acts.