Enigma05

The past definitely was messy, but the present is only messy because of one person. With two others essentially having to be like I said, either hurt or strung along.

Basically, what the person above said in her very first post. We don’t know whether that’s actually what happened as these videos aren’t always accurate. And you got it correct in your subsequent question below. I don’t think she said those words, but I really hope it’s not what the video showed because that would just bring the cruelty level to an all-time high and I would absolutely just be pissed at her and I don’t think I would be alone.

So essentially she’s stringing one guy along and hurting the other one. And yet she’s hurt (from like 7 years ago?) and we have to only think about her feelings, right? I don’t think so.

No, she’s not going to date the doctor and we don’t have time for that. And I agree if she would just have a conversation with the ML instead of running away every single time he brings something up. She can’t have a conversation with the doctor either she can’t be like dude I just don’t like you that way. We know from the trailers that her parents are not going to be thrilled with it and it’s going to take a bit to get that worked out and they hide in the beginning. I think they hide both times actually in the past and present.

I wrote the same thing and someone told me if I think this way, I’m not empathetic. I just think she needs to make a damn decision because she is hurting other people with her lack of setting boundaries or having a conversation with someone who has loved her for a long time. If she honestly as that video showed does that to him because we know these types of videos aren’t necessarily what will be seen in the show then yes the cruelty level is just ridiculous.

I think the right word would be psychotic.

This is one comment; but sure no problem. If there is somewhere else you saw that had an issue let me know because I don’t think I have put spoilers without a tag in anything.

I’m not lacking anything. I’m looking at someone through a clear lens. We can agree to disagree, but that doesn’t mean you are welcome to judge me as you claim I’m judging her; pot calling the kettle black. I’m not glossing over anything either. She had a very nasty divorce obviously, she didn’t get with him right away either as she had a lot of considerations. But safe and comfortable isn’t a reason to start a relationship that will only cause both people pain and the doctor knows it and she knows it, which is why she is not also interested in him. That’s what I’m trying to say, but she’s being indecisive and by dragging out whatever with the doctor she’s also harming him as well as the ML. And I would be saying the exact same thing if the roles were reversed. We can agree to disagree. That’s fine but at her age, she needs to know that you need to set boundaries or you will hurt people. She’s not the only one in this picture that can get hurt.

You’re more worried about it being only her than seeing that there are other people in this equation that can get hurt. One has already been hurt in the past by her and is now hurting himself just to be near her. So no, I do not lack empathy because I’m empathetic with people that are getting hurt by an individual who can’t make a decision.

I’m done replying. Agree to disagree.

We didn’t reach the point, but if you want to know why, the post below has a video and it explains why they broke up. It was her decision alone, and if it is shown the way, it is portrayed in the video, she was ridiculously cruel to him back then.

I really don’t care about the doctor because her mother seems to love him more than FL even likes him as someone else in the comment section put it. But she needs to set boundaries at her age. It’s common sense. She’s not 20 something anymore. I’m sure she’s been set up with people before by her mom while ML was abroad and it didn’t work out so I don’t think this is the first dude in her life. If you’re a teenager or even a 20 something year-old be a man or a woman and don’t have experience and don’t know much about yourself to understand what you need I can see it but when you’re in your 30s; by that time, especially closer to 40 you should know when to set boundaries and what you were feeling. I mean, if he at his young age in the past fell in love with her and knew it was a forever thing and look how young and mature he was, she’s got no excuses. Enough with the divorce that happened a decade or so ago she’s over that she’s a career driven woman. She can make decisions there she can make them here. We need to stop making excuses for this type of behavior for older, mature, and intelligent women.

Agreed! Her indecisiveness is ridiculous. And her mom should have the doc as her side piece instead lol.

Oh, the other way around. Ok thanks; hopefully that means every region will be able to watch it.

We know what happened in the past actually, but the fact is, it’s still something they already talked about she apologized to you obviously accepted. He’s moved on, but she is just ridiculously indecisive. If you don’t like someone you don’t like someone like feelings don’t just appear overnight. So she should’ve told Dr. what’s his face "I don’t like you that way; we’re greatest friends." That would’ve been cool and great, and in this case, it seems like she needs to be afraid to completely lose LW in order to figure things out. Because if she truly didn’t care about him, she would’ve already been married with a kid by now. She’s diluting herself. In the past, she basically broke up with him and made the decision for him to go abroad, never giving him the choice himself. Even though it was his life and he was an adult by then, so that was really dumb on her part she could’ve handled it much more maturely. Now she’s got no excuses left for acting the way she does.

Looks like they somehow figure out ML has the Jade. Now SSM has firmly placed himself against our trio. Does that sick loser who’s controlling the king get killed? Our trio will need more help to fight these ppl.

But the two of them got together back then, so that does not explain her choices 5-6 years down the line. I think he’s got to maybe show her or tell her of the fact that she can lose him to jumpstart her brain.

He’s taking it way too easily. I’m not understanding his whole blah couldn’t care less type of attitude even when he visited the mine.

OMG, I’m tired of her indecisiveness! Holy moly! She can’t tell the doc that she obviously doesn’t feel the same way for him and he’s being as straightforward as he can asking her. And she runs as soon as ML brings it to her face. And this is a mature woman in her late 30s? Who’s more mature the 25 or 26 year old or the 36-year-old? She really needs to get it together seriously. I can’t deal with her, rolling her eyes around her head and running to go to sleep or something else every single time. He needs to keep pushing or she needs to I don’t know get hit with a brick. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Cruel is the right word; he’s a man at this point he’s not a kid he can make a decision for himself, especially when it comes to his own life. She had no business making that decision for him.

I posted the official page’s back drop; I hope that’ll be it.

CXX entertaining himself: https://weibo.com/6097232839/5242395671134477

Shine on me is an IQIY drama though; unless they’re sharing platforms. Currently Sniper Butterfly is on wetv.