Is it weird that I actually enjoy the gender roles part? (where the men take charge?) I'd never allow in my own…
we are same lol. in my opinion those scenes is important. That scene is realistic, it also can develop the plot(RISING CONFLICT). As human being i also know that nobody perfect, sometimes people can't control emotion, especially man( no matter how perfect/patient they are). without those scene/ dialogue the male lead become too perfect(UNREALISTIC) like FANTASY PRINCE. AND NOT ALL SCENE CONTAINS SADO-MASOCHISM behaviour like article's description
In my opinion those scenes is important. That scene is realistic, it also can develop the plot(RISING CONFLICT). As human being i also know that nobody perfect, sometimes people can't control emotion, especially man( no matter how perfect/patient they are). without those scene/ dialogue the male lead become too perfect(UNREALISTIC) like FANTASY PRINCE. AND NOT ALL SCENE CONTAINS SADO-MASOCHISM behaviour like your description, SO It's okay for me.