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Honestly. I hate how he is handling Mk and HJ. He is not mature enough for this. When you are in a show like this, the only way you can handle such complex relations is if you can communicate which is something he sucks at. He just cannot clearly say what he feels. He shouldn't have avoided Mk in initial weeks. I feel this was not the show for him. if he clarified a few things, he MKand HJ would have got a lot less hate and I hate seeing that.

Agreed. I actually feel he is not saying anything just that it is easy for him to get back to her after show. It feels like he is keeping his options open or maybe he just cannot communicate. Ahhhh.... I can't really. i honesty wanted to see more of their chemistry but all they do is these fustrating fights and then get criticised on every platform. one week it is YS, other week it is MK. I think i will now watch the ex date directly.

Honestly, everyone is getting hate. Each week they pick up on a new member to hate. The PD hasn't done a good job with editing. When you keep showing people YS HJ as a couple but not their feelings about their exes, it makes them look bad because earlier both were hungup on their exes. The complete arc of their stories is missing , also good knows why they show us every interaction they have but don't do it with other couples. I am tired of seeing them on my screen

has anyone wondered why yoosik never says it? If I was in his place, I would have made sure to tell her completely. Ys told her previously that the way she acted made him change his mind on getting nack together , I feel this is the reason she is still holding on. We get to see YS and HJ dates and their interaction, so that makes us even more certain that she is his final choice but MK does not. Truth is YS already made his decision long back but he never wants to say it out loud. He lacks accountability, this is the same thing he did when they broke up. Waited for Mk to completely give up. That is what he is doing right now. honestly for a realtion of 8yrs, I would have hoped they understood each other better. It is suffocating to see how Mk still asks questions and YS still doesn't answer. Honestly. their fights make be feel annoyed but they are not affecting me much because both of them are so in wrong. What I am more concerned about is that I actually believe the rumors of them getting back together, the way they communicate makes me feel that they might get back after show. ALAS!!!

No but not giving her a definate answer when you have one is purely disrespecting her . especially when you can see that she still has feelings.

My point is if marriage was such a big issue and something he could never change his mind on, why exactly did he come to the show to get back together. Everytime there is a conversation about getting back together, YS does mention that in Mk pre-interview she said she wants to find someone new and basically she pushed him away. Well that clearly isn't true, he always knew that they will never work. Also, this is why I wanted him to answer what future he envisions with MK, but he avoided that conversation. She has asked a lot of questions like these, but he never answers. You think she is crying and whining, if she doesn't do all that, have you ever seen YS come to her with a conversation. Expecting them to talk, compromising and everything is a soemthing everyone is focused on now but this never came up when he has been continuously talking about her in seoul. And the panalists did say he never clarifies where he stands, he has given MK hope till the very end.

My take is that he is not serious about anything. for me, if you want to date casual. You should tell the other person. I don't see him lasting with anyone. He needs to stay single

Because even though you knew that, you still wanted to be back with. You came to the show wanting to be back with her. He should have made it seem like he came to show to be back with her because he clearly was not. This also shows that he is not on the show to date either.

You are all writing this without even waiting for translations. She does not want to regret it. She already said that if there is a chance to get back, she will make that effort. We can tell yoosik is over her because of the way he behaves with HJ on his dates, how is MK supposed to know that? He never gives us a clear answer that he doesn't like her anymore, there is no chance of getting back. He always gives her hope. She did mention today that if he ends up dating someone here, she hopes that they don't stay connected outside. Even in the end, YS said that if he could chose his ex for date, he would have chosen her. After ex rooom, YS told her that she made him give up on his feelings to be back with her. I feel this is reason she wants to put her feelings across. I feel it is great that she is actualy saying what she feels like, this is exactly how you navigate a break up and move on, If she tries to avoid it, there are higher chances it will take her longer to move on. Ofcourse it is draining to see her cry but honestly that is how most people are when they break up.

Must ne your illusion because not once did she have deal with SY. She listened to his advice which btw she did with everyone. She got to know that YS and HJ had an unofficial date and went to talk with YS. YS and MK have had one conversation about their feelings, one and that was after ex room where he told her that he wants to focus on exploring someone new since that is what she said in the ex room. The next conversation about hsi feelings happened after the whole couple ring. And this conversation was about her asking that has he made his final choice because couple ring is a big deal. You saw the trailer on Mk talking about marriage, well how do you know SY asked her to talk about this. Marraige is the reason YS MK broke up so ofcourse that would eventually be brought up especailly because we see in trailer YS discussing about Mk with other guys. MK literally in the last episode said that people get calling her and telling her things, they keep pushing her. she also told YS that can he not let people tell her about him and HJ. She has lingreing feelings, she is struggling, if you want her to not have conversation just not let her know. They are not together but they are exes in a show living together, a little bit of consideration is basic. Others have also been mad about the things they should not be mad about since they are not together but that's not how it works. It is easy to say to someone that they should mind their business but you have people being affected with actions of short relations but you want Mk to not say a world and be affected when she has had the longet relation and the most recent breakup. GREAT

It is crazy that someone that cannot change in 8yrs, can change in 10days for someone else. It will be good if YS gives her that clarity that all the changes he could not do for her, he can do for some else. Why cant she be angry? She is seeing someone do more for a women that he met in 10days than he did for her in 8yrs. It would be weird if she is not angry. You all want her to not be affected by her ex in a show like transit love. even if ur exes, when u enter show like transit couple, you do own a basic courtesy to your ex otherwise you could have just done other single dating reality shows. Balancing the feelings btw ex and new partner is what makes transit love different. When has he said he wants MK as a close friend? Like that's just u guys imagining things

her sabotage plan? Is this ur fantasy? what sabotage plan has she created? Like not once has she talked with anyone about her and Ys, people keep asking her about her relation, SY wants her to join him . What has she planned? it is not like she fought with YS because SY told her to, she always wants to have conversation will YS to clear things. it is crazy that just because u ship someone, you are hating on a women that is just trying to get a closure. Like damn!!

Sabotage, what has MK done really, all she did was listen to what SY said. he told her that YS and HJ are going on unofficial date , it is not like he asked MK to go talk to YS. If you have seen MK, you would know that after hearing this she will definately talk to YS. I am not sure how she is planning to sabotage anything when she has said nothing at all

That is not the first time he has ended conversation abruptly. Also, when u are with ur ex you should be considerate about things like couple rings. If u guys want people to just find new partners and not interact with their ex at all then why want a show like exchange. Also, so HJ and MK both are attention seekers according to you???

If he didn't want to talk, he should have gone to a solo dating show. You are with ur ex but don't want to interact , then why did he invite MK. She said that once in seoul BTW. And what he said is that he is not sure about reunion now. That's it.

see i get people don't want her to chose him but she needs to talk if she is hurt. YS not conversing with her is making her hurt a lot more and that is why YS is getting criticised . But saying that MK should just not talk to him is a bit much because that is her ex. In a closed space like this, where YS makes no effort to even hide who he is smitten with, it is tough to just ignore. How many people in the show have been able to do so?

Crazy how the same people that were defending HJ for asking apology to BK for 3hrs, sympathising with HJ and Bk , are now here saying MK not being able to move on is not okay. People in show crying over relation that broke 5yrs back but she cannot upset over a 8yr relation with a recent breakup. All because her ex is interested in somebody that u guys maybe like. Just because her ex moved on doesn't mean she should now not be share her feelings. It is not like she is asking her ex to stop dating HJ. She is upset about couple rings, which btw is a big deal. JH was upset over tshirt which was valid, So is MK being upset valid. 10 days back her ex was crying and wanted her back, now he likes someone else and is so obsessed that he doesn't mind wearing couple ring with her that he never did with his gf of 8yrs but Mk is the one wrong here. I get that YS has all right to move on but does it hurt to be more considerate of someone that you dated for 8yrs. This is not a real world, here they are living with their exes, that is why it is important to show some consideration.

what she needs is a closure and him to say that she was out of love for her and I think that is what she is looking for. That is why she always ask him to talk but he keeps dipping. the part about marriage that everyone here is going crazy over is important because they broke up for that reason. Why would you be okay to chose someone here that wants to get married when you don't want to get married at all.

This is probably only platform where I feel people don't find any issue with couple ring. All MK did was get upset about couple ring which is valid. That is not sabotage.

If you say u are not 100% sure about reuniting, then you actions should say that you are looking about for ur ex and the new person. his actions show that he doesn't want to reunite at all but that is something he never says. I have never seen her complain about HJ and ys getting close. she always complains about how he acted differently in their relation as compared to how he treats HJ. he could not wear couple ring when dating her for 8yrs but can do so now. After talking so rudelyand ignoring MK throughtout the season, I think it is unfair to say that he might be back with her. I know he pushes her because they have past but have you seen others do that. No, right? To be back together, you have to discuss problems, how can they discuss problems when YS is always in hurry to leave. YS is thoughtful and kind with everyone but MK . He needs to say he is not getting back with her because that is what his actions show